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What leads to romantic attraction: similarity, reciprocity, security, or beauty? Evidence from a speed-dating study - PubMed
Years of attraction research have established several "principles" of attraction with robust evidence. However, a major limitation of previous attraction studies is that they have almost exclusively relied on well-controlled experiments, which are often criticized for lacking ecological...www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov
Study Finds That Men Like Nice Women, But Not the Other Way Around
Research suggests that if you want to charm a woman at the bar, you may want to turn down the niceness.www.newsweek.com
Do Bullies Have More Sex? The Role of Personality - Evolutionary Psychological Science
Previous research has shown that adolescent bullying is associated with having a higher number of sexual partners. Bullying may thus represent an effective behavior for increasing the number of sexual partners. However, bullying may be an effective behavior primarily for adolescents who possess...link.springer.com
Do bullies have more sex? | Springer — International Publisher
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You’re OK Until You Misbehave: How Norm Violations Magnify the Attractiveness Devil Effect - Gender Issues
Physical attractiveness has been known to act as a cue in determining perceptions of other individuals. Possession of a positive characteristic, such as attractiveness, results in a positive cognitive bias towards the individual. Similarly, possession of a negative characteristic, such as...
The effects of relationship context and modality on ratings of funniness
There is evidence to suggest that humour is an important part of mate choice and that humour may serve as an indicator of genetic quality. The current…www.sciencedirect.com
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Dominance may make bullies more attractive leading to more sex: study
www.deccanchronicle.com
Arrogant and manipulative bullies have more sex, Brock U. study says …
archived 17 Jan 2018 21:26:53 UTCarchive.is
Provocative new study finds bullies have highest self esteem, social status, lowest rates of depression
A just-published Canadian study has added heft to a new theory about bullying — that the behaviour actually helps build social rank and sex appealnationalpost.com
ADHD, Autism, and Psychopathy as Life Strategies: The Role of Risk Tolerance on Evolutionary Fitness
This literature review suggests that autism spectrum disorders (ASD), attention deficit and hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), and antisocial personality disorder/psychopathy (ASPD) represent masculine life strategies. The diagnostic criteria of ADHDwww.academia.edu
Facial attractiveness as a moderator of the association between social and physical aggression and popularity in adolescents
This study examined the relations between facial attractiveness, aggression, and popularity in adolescence to determine whether facial attractiveness …
The conclusions of studies above is
No evidence that personality plays any role In sexual attraction
Sexy people are more funnier than unattractive ones/Famales make attractive males think that they are funny (or good personality)
Being unattractive is death sentence/non perceived as a partner no matter how great your personality is
Bullies and Dark Triad guys have more sex, but is just because of Physical Dominance and attractive faces /=Basically Genetic Elite (Chads) making genetic trash down (Incels)
Attractive people with dark triad personality have more popularity, the same not occur with unattractive ones and their popularity will still be the same or lowered
Being attractive will make you get safer even behaving bad
Sexual attraction=Personality perceived
View attachment 169313
How and why Dark Triad/Good personality exist is pure genes and enviroment combined
The play of genes in this is by looks and physique (Height and body proportions) what means strong or weak genes
The looks of the person will create a feedback by himself and other people, because/and attract a type of enviroment and behavior/treatment of people ALSO depending in how bad or good your looks creating a good or bad personality what also means
Attractive/Good looking and strong = Good personality or Dark Triad (but perceived as good by woman even being a Serial Killer)
Ugly and weak = Creepy loser disgusting serial killer, but is in fact a loser bullied, but because of his looks the dark triad don't work, because he IS UGLY and will be seeing as a try harder and a joke
The entire concept of Personality is flawed because the world is entire primal, so there's no why or reason to personality works or be somewhat important even in small percentage (imagine thinking that woman will want a children with someone because of his personality, when personality makes nothing to chances of survival and evolution) also, personality is by genes too as you can see by everything writed here.
Bro personality is not just about being funny or nice.
its more than that, and is your ability to talk, entertain, how confident u r in urself, etc
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What leads to romantic attraction: similarity, reciprocity, security, or beauty? Evidence from a speed-dating study - PubMed
Years of attraction research have established several "principles" of attraction with robust evidence. However, a major limitation of previous attraction studies is that they have almost exclusively relied on well-controlled experiments, which are often criticized for lacking ecological...
Study Finds That Men Like Nice Women, But Not the Other Way Around
Research suggests that if you want to charm a woman at the bar, you may want to turn down the niceness.
Do Bullies Have More Sex? The Role of Personality - Evolutionary Psychological Science
Previous research has shown that adolescent bullying is associated with having a higher number of sexual partners. Bullying may thus represent an effective behavior for increasing the number of sexual partners. However, bullying may be an effective behavior primarily for adolescents who possess...
Do bullies have more sex? | Springer — International Publisher
You’re OK Until You Misbehave: How Norm Violations Magnify the Attractiveness Devil Effect - Gender Issues
Physical attractiveness has been known to act as a cue in determining perceptions of other individuals. Possession of a positive characteristic, such as attractiveness, results in a positive cognitive bias towards the individual. Similarly, possession of a negative characteristic, such as...
The effects of relationship context and modality on ratings of funniness
There is evidence to suggest that humour is an important part of mate choice and that humour may serve as an indicator of genetic quality. The current…
SAGE Journals: Your gateway to world-class research journals
Subscription and open access journals from SAGE Publishing, the world's leading independent academic publisher.
Dominance may make bullies more attractive leading to more sex: study
www.deccanchronicle.com
Arrogant and manipulative bullies have more sex, Brock U. study says …
archived 17 Jan 2018 21:26:53 UTC
Provocative new study finds bullies have highest self esteem, social status, lowest rates of depression
A just-published Canadian study has added heft to a new theory about bullying — that the behaviour actually helps build social rank and sex appeal
ADHD, Autism, and Psychopathy as Life Strategies: The Role of Risk Tolerance on Evolutionary Fitness
This literature review suggests that autism spectrum disorders (ASD), attention deficit and hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), and antisocial personality disorder/psychopathy (ASPD) represent masculine life strategies. The diagnostic criteria of ADHD
Facial attractiveness as a moderator of the association between social and physical aggression and popularity in adolescents
This study examined the relations between facial attractiveness, aggression, and popularity in adolescence to determine whether facial attractiveness …
The conclusions of studies above is
No evidence that personality plays any role In sexual attraction
Sexy people are more funnier than unattractive ones/Famales make attractive males think that they are funny (or good personality)
Being unattractive is death sentence/non perceived as a partner no matter how great your personality is
Bullies and Dark Triad guys have more sex, but is just because of Physical Dominance and attractive faces /=Basically Genetic Elite (Chads) making genetic trash down (Incels)
Attractive people with dark triad personality have more popularity, the same not occur with unattractive ones and their popularity will still be the same or lowered
Being attractive will make you get safer even behaving bad
Sexual attraction=Personality perceived
View attachment 169313
How and why Dark Triad/Good personality exist is pure genes and enviroment combined
The play of genes in this is by looks and physique (Height and body proportions) what means strong or weak genes
The looks of the person will create a feedback by himself and other people, because/and attract a type of enviroment and behavior/treatment of people ALSO depending in how bad or good your looks creating a good or bad personality what also means
Attractive/Good looking and strong = Good personality or Dark Triad (but perceived as good by woman even being a Serial Killer)
Ugly and weak = Creepy loser disgusting serial killer, but is in fact a loser bullied, but because of his looks the dark triad don't work, because he IS UGLY and will be seeing as a try harder and a joke
The entire concept of Personality is flawed because the world is entire primal, so there's no why or reason to personality works or be somewhat important even in small percentage (imagine thinking that woman will want a children with someone because of his personality, when personality makes nothing to chances of survival and evolution) also, personality is by genes too as you can see by everything writed here.
What leads to romantic attraction: similarity, reciprocity, security, or beauty? Evidence from a speed-dating study - PubMed
Years of attraction research have established several "principles" of attraction with robust evidence. However, a major limitation of previous attraction studies is that they have almost exclusively relied on well-controlled experiments, which are often criticized for lacking ecological...
Study Finds That Men Like Nice Women, But Not the Other Way Around
Research suggests that if you want to charm a woman at the bar, you may want to turn down the niceness.
Do Bullies Have More Sex? The Role of Personality - Evolutionary Psychological Science
Previous research has shown that adolescent bullying is associated with having a higher number of sexual partners. Bullying may thus represent an effective behavior for increasing the number of sexual partners. However, bullying may be an effective behavior primarily for adolescents who possess...
Do bullies have more sex? | Springer — International Publisher
You’re OK Until You Misbehave: How Norm Violations Magnify the Attractiveness Devil Effect - Gender Issues
Physical attractiveness has been known to act as a cue in determining perceptions of other individuals. Possession of a positive characteristic, such as attractiveness, results in a positive cognitive bias towards the individual. Similarly, possession of a negative characteristic, such as...
The effects of relationship context and modality on ratings of funniness
There is evidence to suggest that humour is an important part of mate choice and that humour may serve as an indicator of genetic quality. The current…
SAGE Journals: Your gateway to world-class research journals
Subscription and open access journals from SAGE Publishing, the world's leading independent academic publisher.
Dominance may make bullies more attractive leading to more sex: study
www.deccanchronicle.com
Arrogant and manipulative bullies have more sex, Brock U. study says …
archived 17 Jan 2018 21:26:53 UTC
Provocative new study finds bullies have highest self esteem, social status, lowest rates of depression
A just-published Canadian study has added heft to a new theory about bullying — that the behaviour actually helps build social rank and sex appeal
ADHD, Autism, and Psychopathy as Life Strategies: The Role of Risk Tolerance on Evolutionary Fitness
This literature review suggests that autism spectrum disorders (ASD), attention deficit and hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), and antisocial personality disorder/psychopathy (ASPD) represent masculine life strategies. The diagnostic criteria of ADHD
Facial attractiveness as a moderator of the association between social and physical aggression and popularity in adolescents
This study examined the relations between facial attractiveness, aggression, and popularity in adolescence to determine whether facial attractiveness …
The conclusions of studies above is
No evidence that personality plays any role In sexual attraction
Sexy people are more funnier than unattractive ones/Famales make attractive males think that they are funny (or good personality)
Being unattractive is death sentence/non perceived as a partner no matter how great your personality is
Bullies and Dark Triad guys have more sex, but is just because of Physical Dominance and attractive faces /=Basically Genetic Elite (Chads) making genetic trash down (Incels)
Attractive people with dark triad personality have more popularity, the same not occur with unattractive ones and their popularity will still be the same or lowered
Being attractive will make you get safer even behaving bad
Sexual attraction=Personality perceived
View attachment 169313
How and why Dark Triad/Good personality exist is pure genes and enviroment combined
The play of genes in this is by looks and physique (Height and body proportions) what means strong or weak genes
The looks of the person will create a feedback by himself and other people, because/and attract a type of enviroment and behavior/treatment of people ALSO depending in how bad or good your looks creating a good or bad personality what also means
Attractive/Good looking and strong = Good personality or Dark Triad (but perceived as good by woman even being a Serial Killer)
Ugly and weak = Creepy loser disgusting serial killer, but is in fact a loser bullied, but because of his looks the dark triad don't work, because he IS UGLY and will be seeing as a try harder and a joke
The entire concept of Personality is flawed because the world is entire primal, so there's no why or reason to personality works or be somewhat important even in small percentage (imagine thinking that woman will want a children with someone because of his personality, when personality makes nothing to chances of survival and evolution) also, personality is by genes too as you can see by everything writed here.
I'm only using the scientific/national survey sources, others are irrelevant.
Science Direct's Paper on Funniness:
- Humourcorrelated with attractiveness in SHORT-TERM relationships. Humour signals genetic quality and can enhance attractiveness. It isn't saying "people are funny because they are hot" it is saying "part of why people are hot are their humour".
- Attractive individuals rated as funnier, this shows a bias not that humour isn't relevant.
- Humour more attracted from males than females, showing the sexual dimorphism in humour preferences (e.g., males valuing humour appreciation in females, and females vice versa).
- Humour and flirtation are perceived similarly, as flirtation is linked to sexual interest and humour signals proceptivity (initiation of mating) or openness to romantic engagement.
- Humour, while rated as more attractive for short-term relationships, had a positive effect in long-term relationships, so its for genetic quality and social bonds.
Archive.is's Brock University Study:
- This is basically outlining achieving sex through manipulation and bullying, not social success or fulfilling long-term relationships.
- Comes at the cost of long-term emotional health, trust, and genuine intimacy, so these would all undermine contemporary (and, tbf, tribal-level) human society. A nice personality is crucial for relationship longevity, especially emotional intelligence, self-awareness, and maturity.
National Post's Canadian Study:
- Interesting source, basically outlining that bullies in high school had higher self esteem, social status, and reduced depression.
- Just because it is under evolutionary psychology doesn't mean we should encourage it if this undermines other values, this is basic secular moral frameworking in conjunction with ev psych.
- Study doesn't suggest bullying is inherently attractive or that aggression is the best way to build lasting relationships. If anything, trying to work to the top creates a very fragile foundation for power, and the constant need to perpetuate internal conflict means you're a target. Same reason the Roman Empire fell.
- Consider the issues with most interview and survey-based sociological studies, there is a lot of room for lying, which would match their personality, no?
Academia Study:
- Way too long, I have the PDF and its weirdly written and usually in relation to the workplace and overlaps, not any cohesive conclusion that supports your argument.
ScienceDirect Facial Attractiveness:
- Facial attractiveness moderates the relationship between aggression and popularity (adolescents that are 'ugly', aggression --> low popularity / adolescents that are 'pretty', aggression --> no effect on popularity). Thus, the more attractive, the fewer the social consequences. This doesn't say anything about personality, or that aggression is better, it is saying you can get away with aggression and manipulation if you are attractive.
THE REBUTTAL (adding onto the ones I've thrown amongst my comments on your sources):
1. Studies on romantic attraction find that individuals are drawn to others not only for their physical traits but for personality traits. For example, 'Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin' --> warmth, generosity, and humour have a positive influence on relationship satisfaction and attraction. More: Buss (1989), Buss * Barnes (1986), Bendixen (2020), Buss & Schmitt (1993).
- In terms of evolutionary psychology which seems a pretty big focus point here, while physical traits signal genetic health and reproductive fitness, personality traits signal long-term compatability, maturity, caregiving potential, cooperation, compassion, etc.
2. The idea that attractive people are inherently funnier or have better personalities is an interesting oversimplification. Being judged favourably (halo effect - Langlois 2000) does not have any causation in dictation of humour or personality. It is a cognitive bias effect you are clearly experiencing.
- Being unattractive is not a death sentence for relationships but, even if it is, the same applies long-term for personalities (Klohnen 2005)
- Dark Triad/Bullying having more sex appeal is somewhat substantiated, is not a universal truth, nor should we glamorise traits like this (I provided a rebuttal under the relevant paper) --> Jonason (2009)
- Short-term advantages =/= long-term success (Feingold 1992) , Modersitzki (2014)
- Humour is regarded as an independent personality trait, not dictated by appearance (Martin 2003)
3. You claim personality is irrelevant as humans are "primal" which is in complete contrast to evolutionary psychology. Personality traits evolved to help navigation of complex social environments, form alliances, and ensure the survival of offspring. Kindness, cooperation, and emotional intelligence are all fundamentals in the human moral framework. If we all went around killing one another, our communities would be UNSTABLE and would have died out very fast.
- Buss & Schmitt (1993)
- Plomin and Daniels (1987)
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What leads to romantic attraction: similarity, reciprocity, security, or beauty? Evidence from a speed-dating study - PubMed
Years of attraction research have established several "principles" of attraction with robust evidence. However, a major limitation of previous attraction studies is that they have almost exclusively relied on well-controlled experiments, which are often criticized for lacking ecological...
Study Finds That Men Like Nice Women, But Not the Other Way Around
Research suggests that if you want to charm a woman at the bar, you may want to turn down the niceness.
Do Bullies Have More Sex? The Role of Personality - Evolutionary Psychological Science
Previous research has shown that adolescent bullying is associated with having a higher number of sexual partners. Bullying may thus represent an effective behavior for increasing the number of sexual partners. However, bullying may be an effective behavior primarily for adolescents who possess...
Do bullies have more sex? | Springer — International Publisher
You’re OK Until You Misbehave: How Norm Violations Magnify the Attractiveness Devil Effect - Gender Issues
Physical attractiveness has been known to act as a cue in determining perceptions of other individuals. Possession of a positive characteristic, such as attractiveness, results in a positive cognitive bias towards the individual. Similarly, possession of a negative characteristic, such as...
The effects of relationship context and modality on ratings of funniness
There is evidence to suggest that humour is an important part of mate choice and that humour may serve as an indicator of genetic quality. The current…
SAGE Journals: Your gateway to world-class research journals
Subscription and open access journals from SAGE Publishing, the world's leading independent academic publisher.
Dominance may make bullies more attractive leading to more sex: study
www.deccanchronicle.com
Arrogant and manipulative bullies have more sex, Brock U. study says …
archived 17 Jan 2018 21:26:53 UTC
Provocative new study finds bullies have highest self esteem, social status, lowest rates of depression
A just-published Canadian study has added heft to a new theory about bullying — that the behaviour actually helps build social rank and sex appeal
ADHD, Autism, and Psychopathy as Life Strategies: The Role of Risk Tolerance on Evolutionary Fitness
This literature review suggests that autism spectrum disorders (ASD), attention deficit and hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), and antisocial personality disorder/psychopathy (ASPD) represent masculine life strategies. The diagnostic criteria of ADHD
Facial attractiveness as a moderator of the association between social and physical aggression and popularity in adolescents
This study examined the relations between facial attractiveness, aggression, and popularity in adolescence to determine whether facial attractiveness …
The conclusions of studies above is
No evidence that personality plays any role In sexual attraction
Sexy people are more funnier than unattractive ones/Famales make attractive males think that they are funny (or good personality)
Being unattractive is death sentence/non perceived as a partner no matter how great your personality is
Bullies and Dark Triad guys have more sex, but is just because of Physical Dominance and attractive faces /=Basically Genetic Elite (Chads) making genetic trash down (Incels)
Attractive people with dark triad personality have more popularity, the same not occur with unattractive ones and their popularity will still be the same or lowered
Being attractive will make you get safer even behaving bad
Sexual attraction=Personality perceived
View attachment 169313
How and why Dark Triad/Good personality exist is pure genes and enviroment combined
The play of genes in this is by looks and physique (Height and body proportions) what means strong or weak genes
The looks of the person will create a feedback by himself and other people, because/and attract a type of enviroment and behavior/treatment of people ALSO depending in how bad or good your looks creating a good or bad personality what also means
Attractive/Good looking and strong = Good personality or Dark Triad (but perceived as good by woman even being a Serial Killer)
Ugly and weak = Creepy loser disgusting serial killer, but is in fact a loser bullied, but because of his looks the dark triad don't work, because he IS UGLY and will be seeing as a try harder and a joke
The entire concept of Personality is flawed because the world is entire primal, so there's no why or reason to personality works or be somewhat important even in small percentage (imagine thinking that woman will want a children with someone because of his personality, when personality makes nothing to chances of survival and evolution) also, personality is by genes too as you can see by everything writed here.
grass is green a post woman want the best looking man for biological reasons and women people in general want things more when theyh cant get it so since more atractive people are generaly worse people but since biology counteracts this it doesnt even matter which i mean everyone knew just look at every female written romance jfl good post for greys ig
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maybe bc the post is from 2019 you aspie
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the fact that so many incels think personality = being nice or morally good proves the personality pill.
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personality aint shit
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Copers just accept dark triad is a result of being tall and gl
So dark triad looks=people expect you to act as such=you devolpe the personality
It's truly over let's make designer babies
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No one will ever convince me that personality doesn't matter because one of my best friends is a 4/10 in looks but is extremely extroverted, has zero problems initiating conversations with complete strangers and can carry a conversation with anyone for hours. Dude has a whole roster of women in his DMs and is currently dating 2 women at once (and both are okay with it). It's fucking insane.
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Yep exactly what I first thought of
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He's 5'7", works min wage in the maintenance dept. of a grocery store, haven't asked his size unfortunately.
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Lmao ur links and data don't proof any of the shit you are trying to claim.
Being dominant or bullying others can be defined objectively as personality traits exactly the same as being "nice".
So all this is actually telling us is that personality does matter, to some degree.
You are defining the word personality as being a nice guy doormat, and then saying "muh personality doesn't matter" because in these studies they found that being the nice guy doormat won't get you that far in life.
Duh?
OP must have pussy the way his logic operates.
Being dominant or bullying others can be defined objectively as personality traits exactly the same as being "nice".
So all this is actually telling us is that personality does matter, to some degree.
You are defining the word personality as being a nice guy doormat, and then saying "muh personality doesn't matter" because in these studies they found that being the nice guy doormat won't get you that far in life.
Duh?
OP must have pussy the way his logic operates.
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You need to put your foot in the door 'somehow', if someone is a complete aspie it's not gonna happen. Even a Chad level looking guy must do some work, chick that are not mentally ill & htb+ will likely never approach you first, (I had some mtbs do this) buuuut, I think the threshold is just different for a case of manlet mtn_ who must be extremely extroverted compared to a seriously GL guy that by just existing will have some relationships
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this comes naturally if you are a psychopath
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I mean you could try to imitate the machiavellian personality trait, they do possess empathic capacity, but just not the sympathetic, so they just dont really care about other people. A machiavellian is more stable, cunning, and high-achieving, since they dont have the poor behavioural control of psychopathy
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