Sister wants to be a TikTok/IG influencer but worried our parents might shout at and disown her

[Xangsane]

She's lost a good amount of weight too (high end of average) and doesn't dye her hair weird colours.
She wants to be a TikTok influencer but is worried our parents would shout at, beat at and disown her.
Thoughts?

 

[Xangsane]

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[Xangsane]

She's lost a good amount of weight too (high end of average) and doesn't dye her hair weird colours.
She wants to be a TikTok influencer but is worried our parents would shout at, beat at and disown her.
Thoughts?

She said the main reason is that "she can talk to super hot boys who don't pay her attention on campus"

 

[Sprinkles]

will she be twerking and shaking her ass and titties for the camera?

 

[Xangsane]

will she be twerking and shaking her ass and titties for the camera?

She just says she wants to be an influencer. She told me and my wife she wants to attract a guy like Brady Deene JFL

 

[Klasik01]

She just says she wants to be an influencer. She told me and my wife she wants to attract a guy like Brady Deene JFL

Will she open an OF account?

 

[gooner23]

She just says she wants to be an influencer. She told me and my wife she wants to attract a guy like Brady Deene JFL

once she creates the account catfish her or some shid and say it was for her safety

 

[Xangsane]

Will she open an OF account?

no

She just says she wants to be an influencer. She told me and my wife she wants to attract a guy like Brady Deene JFL

 

[Xangsane]

once she creates the account catfish her or some shid and say it was for her safety

How do I do that?

She just says she wants to be an influencer. She told me and my wife she wants to attract a guy like Brady Deene JFL

 

[Xangsane]

@emeraldglass

 

[Xangsane]

She just says she wants to be an influencer. She told me and my wife she wants to attract a guy like Brady Deene JFL

@bwrauycnee

 

[Klasik01]

If she's a gook foid I will support your sister

 

[Xangsane]

She just says she wants to be an influencer. She told me and my wife she wants to attract a guy like Brady Deene JFL

@romanstock

atm she's a MTB with blonde curls, passes as an Ashkenazi Jew

 

[romanstock]

Sounds like you're indulging her stupidity. Shame on you.

 

[Xangsane]

If she's a gook foid I will support your sister

@romanstock

atm she's a MTB with blonde curls, passes as an Ashkenazi Jew

no, she's a very white-passing white/MENA girl.

 

[Xangsane]

Sounds like you're indulging her stupidity. Shame on you.

How?

 

[Sprinkles]

She just says she wants to be an influencer. She told me and my wife she wants to attract a guy like Brady Deene JFL

what do u think of him

 

[gooner23]

@romanstock

atm she's a MTB with blonde curls, passes as an Ashkenazi Jew

no squishy

 

[Xangsane]

what do u think of him

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I look like an ethnic version of him. My sister says she wants a guy like that

@romanstock

atm she's a MTB with blonde curls, passes as an Ashkenazi Jew

 

[emeraldglass]

She's lost a good amount of weight too (high end of average) and doesn't dye her hair weird colours.
She wants to be a TikTok influencer but is worried our parents would shout at, beat at and disown her.
Thoughts?

I would advise against it because the negatives far outweigh the potential benefits. The likelihood of achieving fame is slim, and there's a risk of regretting the decision since everything posted online tends to remain accessible indefinitely.

 

[Xangsane]

no squishy

very squishy

@Sprinkles she got very insecure over his girlfriend, because she said "if she dressed like her she'd get beaten up and disowned by our father"

 

[Xangsane]

I would advise against it because the negatives far outweigh the potential benefits. The likelihood of achieving fame is slim, and there's a risk of regretting the decision since everything posted online tends to remain accessible indefinitely.

see below

She just says she wants to be an influencer. She told me and my wife she wants to attract a guy like Brady Deene JFL

this guy

what do u think of him

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[Sprinkles]

very squishy

@Sprinkles she got very insecure over his girlfriend, because she said "if she dressed like her she'd get beaten up and disowned by our father"

u have a based dad

 

[Klasik01]

what do u think of him

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That's Damian Kater brother?

 

[Xangsane]

u have a based dad

why?
She says "when she returns home from uni she might be forced to wear plain clothes and she can't attract the hot guys post uni"

 

[Xangsane]

That's Damian Kater brother?

no.

 

[Xangsane]

I would advise against it because the negatives far outweigh the potential benefits. The likelihood of achieving fame is slim, and there's a risk of regretting the decision since everything posted online tends to remain accessible indefinitely.

IDK how to advise her if she so desperately wants a guy like that. She said the "hottest guys at uni don't really pay her much attention"
she's MTB, curly blonde hair, passes as an Ashkenazi Jew
She wants to get her weight down

 

[thereallegend]

Send her to the mosque to consult with her Imam.

She may as well spread Allah's word if she's going to be of any influence to anybody.

 

[Xangsane]

Send her to the mosque to consult with her Imam.

She may as well spread Allah's word if she's going to be of any influence to anybody.

See below

She just says she wants to be an influencer. She told me and my wife she wants to attract a guy like Brady Deene JFL

She said the main reason is that "she can talk to super hot boys who don't pay her attention on campus"

IDK how to advise her if she so desperately wants a guy like that. She said the "hottest guys at uni don't really pay her much attention"
she's MTB, curly blonde hair, passes as an Ashkenazi Jew
She wants to get her weight down

 

[emeraldglass]

see below

this guy

Based on the type of material she creates, she will attract the types of males. Degenerate content is required for degenerate TikTok boys to approach her.

 

[thereallegend]

See below

What I said still stands. You must preach Allah's word to her.

 

[Xangsane]

very squishy

@Sprinkles she got very insecure over his girlfriend, because she said "if she dressed like her she'd get beaten up and disowned by our father"

@Sprinkles thoughts?
I look like an ethnic version of him but she says she wants someone far more outgoing than me

 

[Xangsane]

Based on the type of material she creates,

who?

she will attract the types of males. Degenerate content is required for degenerate TikTok boys to approach her.

Why so?
My sister is worried that if she follows her parents (and she thinks she will be forced to) she would have to settle for someone "of a bad aesthetic" if attractive, or average/ugly.

 

[Xangsane]

What I said still stands. You must preach Allah's word to her.

I will

 

[Xangsane]

@Sprinkles thoughts?
I look like an ethnic version of him but she says she wants someone far more outgoing than me

@emeraldglass wondering if she's thinking too highly given her looks level and the Islam cultural failo for the kinds of men she wants.

 

[emeraldglass]

IDK how to advise her if she so desperately wants a guy like that. She said the "hottest guys at uni don't really pay her much attention"
she's MTB, curly blonde hair, passes as an Ashkenazi Jew
She wants to get her weight down

Is there a specific reason she's interested in a particular type of boys? You could also consider having your wife speak to her or informing your parents about the situation.

 

[emeraldglass]

@emeraldglass wondering if she's thinking too highly given her looks level and the Islam cultural failo for the kinds of men she wants.

I'm not sure what she looks like, but being MTB and Muslim, she has plenty of options in the UK.

 

[Xangsane]

Is there a specific reason she's interested in a particular type of boys?

She said "she is jealous of girls with guys, even average ones, who can date freely without being beaten up" and "knows if she gets a campus boyfriend they'd be forced to split up before coming home" otherwise "parents will beat her up like last time when she hooked up with a rugby guy"
She said "she wants a Brady Deene lookalike because she finds them the most attractive and it's a flex"

You could also consider having your wife speak to her or informing your parents about the situation.

My sister told me not to tell parents.

 

[tallnegga]

She should do only fans with me

 

[Xangsane]

I'm not sure what she looks like, but being MTB and Muslim, she has plenty of options in the UK.

She wants a particular "Aesthetic" - similar to the guy I talked about in this thread.
She is worried if she is forced to listen to our parents (likely will be the case) she'd either have to settle for an average/ugly guy, or if attractive, a guy that's "not her preferred aesthetic" (I assume this means masc and bearded/with stubble)

 

[Xangsane]

She should do only fans with me

maybe she wouldn't

 

[Xangsane]

I'm not sure what she looks like, but being MTB and Muslim, she has plenty of options in the UK.

she also said "most muslims aren't the ethnicity she wants"

 

[Sprinkles]

@Sprinkles thoughts?
I look like an ethnic version of him but she says she wants someone far more outgoing than me

since she’s mtb the guys she into might see her as a pump and dump if she doesn’t dress or act “traditionally”

 

[gooner23]

She wants a particular "Aesthetic" - similar to the guy I talked about in this thread.
She is worried if she is forced to listen to our parents (likely will be the case) she'd either have to settle for an average/ugly guy, or if attractive, a guy that's "not her preferred aesthetic" (I assume this means masc and bearded/with stubble)

do you think she can basically pull above her rating? like brady deene is crazy to me, even my celebrity crushes are like emma myers/KPOP get rated like mtb

 

[Xangsane]

since she’s mtb the guys she into might see her as a pump and dump if she doesn’t dress or act “traditionally”

No no she says that his girlfriend is the type of girl our parents don’t want her to be. And she thinks that all men who look like him will be like that. Prefer the slutty looking girls than girls forced to dress modestly due to Islam. She says I’m a one off.

do you think she can basically pull above her rating? like brady deene is crazy to me, even my celebrity crushes are like emma myers/KPOP get rated like mtb

Why is he crazy?
She says she is doing everything she can to get a guy like him

 

[Klasik01]

do you think she can basically pull above her rating? like brady deene is crazy to me, even my celebrity crushes are like emma myers/KPOP get rated like mtb

All girls have delusional dating standards, they don't like to settle for less.

 

[Xangsane]

All girls have delusional dating standards, they don't like to settle for less.

No no she says that his girlfriend is the type of girl our parents don’t want her to be. And she thinks that all men who look like him will be like that. Prefer the slutty looking girls than girls forced to dress modestly due to Islam. She says I’m a one off.

Why is he crazy?
She says she is doing everything she can to get a guy like him

 

[Xangsane]

what do u think of him

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@Gus17 she wants this

 

[gooner23]

No no she says that his girlfriend is the type of girl our parents don’t want her to be. And she thinks that all men who look like him will be like that. Prefer the slutty looking girls than girls forced to dress modestly due to Islam. She says I’m a one off.

Why is he crazy?
She says she is doing everything she can to get a guy like him

naw like he is crazy good looking so her standards are a bit far, i mean if shes mtb shes got a long ways to go

 

[Klasik01]

What if her dream guy rejects her? Would she take the blackpill