Social media IS your life

this is a brutal reality, for many this forum becomes a substitute for an IRL social life which is sad af to say the least.

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call this cope, but i still think its possible to have a good social life while being active here. Like if you only log on for an hour or 2 a day that still leaves plenty of time to hang out with friends in real life
Yup 💯 I don’t think it’s cope. @quemirasmanv2 is the perfect example. He maintains his social connections whilst still using this forum. Granted he is a Chadlet and lives in a more social focused country in Latin America so it’s no surprise.
 
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Its ovER for me. Im 20 years old autistic manlet and nevER had a NT Instagram account and will nevER have one. I nevER go to any social events and im too ugly for selfies
 
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dont even have interest in girls in rl or relationships, therefore i dont need that shit anyway.
Stop the cope, there is a reason you are on this forum
 
wtf are you talking about bro lmao. You don’t have to “fight” for nothing just upload a pic every 2 weeks of a social event or something and engage with other followers. Nigga acting like I said you have to go to war or something lmao.
Going to war is actually easier than having a decent Instagram account, at least for non NT niggas like me
 
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Going to war is actually easier than having a decent Instagram account, at least for non NT niggas like me
yea man this NT shit is really something our parents should have engrained in us from young. I don’t know why my parents didn’t take action when they saw how quiet/shy I was and wasn’t socialising as much as my peers
 
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yea man this NT shit is really something our parents should have engrained in us from young. I don’t know why my parents didn’t take action when they saw how quiet/shy I was and wasn’t socialising as much as my peers
You either are NT or you are not, there is nothing to learn. if you are a legit diagnosed Aspie or Autist its over for you
 
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Chit but what do I even post on instagram bro I have nothing interesting to do
 
You either are NT or you are not, there is nothing to learn. if you are a legit diagnosed Aspie or Autist its over for you
I do think social problems can be corrected before puberty if your parents are smart enough to spot it early and you haven’t been diagnosed with autism or anything of the kind but if you’re genuinely born with autism then yeah it’s over
 
I do think social problems can be corrected before puberty if your parents are smart enough to spot it early and you haven’t been diagnosed with autism or anything of the kind but if you’re genuinely born with autism then yeah it’s over
I was diagnosed as kid with Aspergers and ADD, its over:feelscry:
 
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better late than never don't make excuses, start socializing more and make more friends, get ur follower count up and start posting.
You NT fags will never understand. I have only 1 friend who is also a loser like me, i am short, ugly, diagnosed autist and have basically no social status. Why would anyone want to have something to do with a short, ugly man who has nothing to offer ?
 
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Chit but what do I even post on instagram bro I have nothing interesting to do
The key is when you DO have something interesting to do you have to post it on your social straight away. That’s why people call it a “highlight reel”. You don’t have to post every second of your life. Just your highlights. Everyone has at least one interesting thing they do in their life even if it’s just a trip to the museum.

That’s where I fucked up I didn’t post my highlights of my life. There were times where I went to bbqs, family parties, school trips, cinema with friends as kid/teenager and I didn’t post any of it cause of my low confidence in my looks.
 
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yeeyeeslayer
 
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if ur both ugly and autistic it might be over for u socially and status wise i won't lie to u but i'd still try.

But its defo possible to have status while being ugly and NT i've seen it IRL in school and uni some of the most subhuman niggas were popular af
I have to hardmaxx, with my current looks i have 0 confidence and i legit want to kill myself when i look into the mirror
 
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Reminder: Jeremy Meeks became a millionaire celebrity just from one mugshot posted on Facebook. Even with his good looks without that social media platform he would be NOTHING. Social media is LIFE.
oh fuck ur right need to go make an instagram page NOW
 
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ik its easier said then done but try not to let ur subhumanity hold you back from socializing and making friends, one of the most popular and respected guys at my uni is an obese guy with as ub 5 face, typical discord mod pheno. big nose, glasses, borderline cross eyed. Looks like utter dog shit, yet he's NT and funny so has many friends.
Thats the difference, he is NT and i am not and there is no cure for non NT
 
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The key is when you DO have something interesting to do you have to post it on your social straight away. That’s why people call it a “highlight reel”. You don’t have to post every second of your life. Just your highlights. Everyone has at least one interesting thing they do in their life even if it’s just a trip to the museum.

That’s where I fucked up I didn’t post my highlights of my life. There were times where I went to bbqs, family parties, school trips, cinema with friends as kid/teenager and I didn’t post any of it cause of my low confidence in my looks.
Yah this sounds bluepilled af
 
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Instagram is everything for normies.Over if you don't have nt pics,500+ followers and 200+ likes
 
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Everything matters, everything. Autists.org need to realize life is not black and white, always talking in extremes. Fuck y’all niggas, I am out.
 
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tbh your social media matters more than your actual social life in this clown world. My "highlight reel" would actually mog tf out of normies if I took more pictures of the interesting shit I've done. But since I rarely post they assume they're better than me.
 
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Too long but I agree.
 
Yup 💯 I don’t think it’s cope. @quemirasmanv2 is the perfect example. He maintains his social connections whilst still using this forum. Granted he is a Chadlet and lives in a more social focused country in Latin America so it’s no surprise.
yeah this
 
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Anybody denying this is an idiot who lives under a rock, status is a huge part of SMV and shit like having a ton of followers and connections on Instagram, Snapchat, YouTube, TikTok etc mogs hard not only to foids but to other guys as well
 
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Anybody denying this is an idiot who lives under a rock, status is a huge part of SMV and shit like having a ton of followers and connections on Instagram, Snapchat, YouTube, TikTok etc mogs hard not only to foids but to other guys as well
Exactly. When I first tried tinder a few years ago I realised I literally had NO good pictures of myself apart from autistic selfies. I wouldn’t have that problem if I had a good social media profile with tons of pics. All I would have needed to do was connect insta or fb to tinder and choose my best pics and 100% know I would have got at least a couple of decent matches. Guess it’s my own fault that I didn’t prioritise my social life and now I’m dealing with the consequences.

I wrote this thread to warn the young bucks on here that if they don’t start prioritising their social life now, it will be a lot harder to catch up to your peers. Not just with girls but with job/business opportunities as well. But hey they don’t wanna listen and want to cope with their surgeries whilst they’ll have no connections as they get older.

It is what it is I guess, they’ll learn
 
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Yeah maybe if you're talking about girls from the ages of 12-19. I'm talking about grown women who are 20+ not children.
Yeah, woman 20+ don't care much for your social media.
But keep in mind this is mostly teenage indian forum.
 
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Yeah, woman 20+ don't care much for your social media.
But keep in mind this is mostly teenage indian forum.
Don’t know what 20+ women you’re talking to but I’m 24 and girls in my age range pretty much do care about your social media. Maybe you’re talking about older millennials.
 
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Don’t know what 20+ women you’re talking to but I’m 24 and girls in my age range pretty much do care about your social media. Maybe you’re talking about older millennials.
Your posts reek of PUA shit cope. And I can't stand PUA.
 
Even without interest in girls (I know you’re copping with that mgtow bs anyway) you still need to maintain healthy connections with brothers and create a brotherhood. How long is playing video games and doing everything by yourself going to last? Eventually you’ll go insane or lose it.
where do u find brotherhood tho not on instragram
 
Your posts reek of PUA shit cope. And I can't stand PUA.
I’m literally just telling people the importance of uploading more frequently on socials to maintain connections and it got everyone trigged lmao. The state of this forum. What did anything I said got to do with PUA.
 
where do u find brotherhood tho not on instragram
Yea and it’s defo not gonna be from rotting in a man cave all day. You gotta start from somewhere and in this day and age social media is the best place to start to find like minded people.
 
I’m literally just telling people the importance of uploading more frequently on socials to maintain connections and it got everyone trigged lmao. The state of this forum. What did anything I said got to do with PUA.
You are deviating from looks theory which is the mainstream on this forum.
And I have a question for you, if you think otherwise, why don't you leave looksmax.org and go somwhere else?
This way you are something like radical leftist on right wing forum, or vice versa.
There is no point of you posting here in that case.
 
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You are deviating from looks theory which is the mainstream on this forum.
And I have a question for you, if you think otherwise, why don't you leave looksmax.org and go somwhere else?
This way you are something like radical leftist on right wing forum, or vice versa.
There is no point of you posting here in that case.
LMS is apart of blackpill 101 lmao, it isn’t redpilled PUA cope that have MS puts in an entirely different league of life, it’s relatively easy to looksmax once you understand the foundations of what women are attracted to, and you have ample resources to gymmax, looksmax, and or get surgeries

However for money and status, most people don’t have the IQ nor the genetics to gain either of them
Exactly. When I first tried tinder a few years ago I realised I literally had NO good pictures of myself apart from autistic selfies. I wouldn’t have that problem if I had a good social media profile with tons of pics. All I would have needed to do was connect insta or fb to tinder and choose my best pics and 100% know I would have got at least a couple of decent matches. Guess it’s my own fault that I didn’t prioritise my social life and now I’m dealing with the consequences.

I wrote this thread to warn the young bucks on here that if they don’t start prioritising their social life now, it will be a lot harder to catch up to your peers. Not just with girls but with job/business opportunities as well. But hey they don’t wanna listen and want to cope with their surgeries whilst they’ll have no connections as they get older.

It is what it is I guess, they’ll learn
@forevergymcelling made a thread like this earlier
 
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This isn't blackpill.org but looksmax.org.
You aren't following.
 
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This isn't blackpill.org but looksmax.org.
You aren't following.
This is like going into Burger King and not getting any sides or drinks because it’s called Burger King which means eating burgers only. Wtf is logic lmao. If everyone thought like this society would still be stuck in the Stone Age.
 
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good thread. so many idiots in the responses. my instagram has barely 20 followers + 0 posts and i have an extremely low snap score therefore it is over for me. if you couldn’t tell by my avi i live in the uk (shit country where even the ugliest retards possible get laid if they are popular). meanwhile if you are decent looking but 0 social media she will see you as a freak and move on. i swear these guys have no idea how the real dating world works, its not all about one bone or facial measurement, if its fully over for you like it is for me then you have more issues than face

these surgery idiots are dumb, i could get every surgery possible and still be incel, due to things that actually matter of being a non nt rotter and 0 social media
i am in a similar position, i have an IG but only like 10 followers (some are bots too jfl). when someone asks for your IG, do you give it to them or just say you dont use social media? sometimes when ppl ask i tell them i dont have social media just so they dont see my low follower count
 
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i am in a similar position, i have an IG but only like 10 followers (some are bots too jfl). when someone asks for your IG, do you give it to them or just say you dont use social media? sometimes when ppl ask i tell them i dont have social media just so they dont see my low follower count
no one asks for my social media, i only have 3-4 friends, havent talked to a girl since 2018/19
 
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This thread is brutal
My insta is dogshit, i have no pics posted nor social proof @ElTruecel
 
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This thread is brutal
My insta is dogshit, i have no pics posted nor social proof @ElTruecel
I didn’t use an insta during my MS/Hs I had an insta when I was 10 that got to 500 followers but haven’t used it for other purposes than cooming since 2016.
 
i am in a similar position, i have an IG but only like 10 followers (some are bots too jfl). when someone asks for your IG, do you give it to them or just say you dont use social media? sometimes when ppl ask i tell them i dont have social media just so they dont see my low follower count
Just give it to them, just say you only use IG to look at other peoples shit nobody will care
 
Cope, looks and NT irl >>>> social media

I know plenty of chads/academics/entrepreneurs who ghost people on social media but have infinite AMV compared to someone who lives on Snapchat quick add with no purpose
 
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Cope, looks and NT irl >>>> social media

I know plenty of chads/academics/entrepreneurs who ghost people on social media but have infinite AMV compared to someone who lives on Snapchat quick add with no purpose
AMV?
 
You mean avi? Massimo Di Sante HAPA Chang
Nah JFL I meant AMV cuz that’s what it said in your sentence but I figured it was a typo and u meant SMV
 
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I remember hearing this from a faceandlms stream and it’s so true. Your social media IS your dating profile. Just lol if you think just because a girl isn’t on tinder or bumble she isn’t actively looking for potential partners. All she needs is an insta, SC or a facebook and from there she can see EVERYTHING about man’s life. Whether he’s neurotypical or not, his past relationships, how often he goes out, his social status etc. It basically becomes your CV at that point and if you have several gaps in it i.e barely any pics, low followers, non existent social it is OVER. And if you don’t have social media at all? It NEVER began. If you haven’t established and maintained an active healthy social media from middle/high school It’s OVER. If you have started one now or recently and you’re over the age of 16 you’re basically playing catch up at that point. All you’re peers will have hundreds of pics of their social life and experience meanwhile you’ll just have a couple of autistic selfies you took in your man cave. Females will see this as an INSTANT red flag. They will think “what has he been doing all this years” especially if they know you in real life. No amount of looksmaxing or buying followers will compensate for a non existent social media especially in this digital age we are going into. And the real blackpilling aspect of this all? As you guessed it most of it comes down to genetics that will make or break you when creating a success social media profile. It’s either your tall and good looking which creates a positive feedback loop therefore boosting your confidence and making it easier to post pics and your life because experiences are coming to YOU. Or it’s you’re ugly creating a negative feedback loop making it harder to post pics and your life because you’re getting NO experiences coming to you no matter how hard you chase them. Even if you do try a good looking guy will get 10x more the amount of likes than any pic you post.

My advice to the boys under 16 on this forum. Get the fuck out this forum and start building a healthy social media ASAP and MAINTAIN your social life. Where I fucked up is that I didn’t even try making a good social media because I was too self conscious about my looks. I went and played with my gaming friends online rather than posting on social media and I believe that’s one the main reasons behind my inceldom.

Trust me when I say if you don’t do prioritise social connections at an early age you will regret it severely when you’re older. Because at the end of the day if you’re sub 6 and cannot get girls those social connections and friendships may be the difference between being able to cope with your inceldom and living a miserable life with not only no girls but also no friends.

@Kamui @forevergymcelling @MoggerGaston @Pikabro @disillusioned @GetShrekt @tyronelite @FaceandBBC @PrinceLuenLeoncur @Ricky212 @dimorphism @Luffymaxxing @Nick.Harte @Lebgfinal @Blackgymmax @Amnesia @averagejoe @Sprinkles
my guy can u give more tips, nt, social tips. I would love to hear what you say, although I don’t rot on this forum and NT maxxed, im usually still to shy with girls tbh I can only be confident with MTB and below and not my crush who might actually like me lol
 
my guy can u give more tips, nt, social tips. I would love to hear what you say, although I don’t rot on this forum and NT maxxed, im usually still to shy with girls tbh I can only be confident with MTB and below and not my crush who might actually like me lol
and can I tell u some other stuff if u can help me out with it, u seem like u have high IQ. Looks not really an issue im not too bad looking or anything prolly a strong mtn I can also show what I look like foids say im cute and I hear im handsome sometimes as a compliment
 
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Social media status (unless a celebrity) is only declining in relevance. It peaked late 2010s from what I've seen. I keep seeing more and more vids along the lines of "When he has no pfp, 16 followers, and zero pictures", never the opposite. Also videos with the idea of a man being sexually inexperienced and "never felt the touch of a woman" as being attractive. Unless they plan to date a celebrity, they enjoy the idea of the man being socially exclusive to her, fuckboys with 1k+ followers are seen as unstable now.
 
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I remember hearing this from a faceandlms stream and it’s so true. Your social media IS your dating profile. Just lol if you think just because a girl isn’t on tinder or bumble she isn’t actively looking for potential partners. All she needs is an insta, SC or a facebook and from there she can see EVERYTHING about man’s life. Whether he’s neurotypical or not, his past relationships, how often he goes out, his social status etc. It basically becomes your CV at that point and if you have several gaps in it i.e barely any pics, low followers, non existent social it is OVER. And if you don’t have social media at all? It NEVER began. If you haven’t established and maintained an active healthy social media from middle/high school It’s OVER. If you have started one now or recently and you’re over the age of 16 you’re basically playing catch up at that point. All you’re peers will have hundreds of pics of their social life and experience meanwhile you’ll just have a couple of autistic selfies you took in your man cave. Females will see this as an INSTANT red flag. They will think “what has he been doing all this years” especially if they know you in real life. No amount of looksmaxing or buying followers will compensate for a non existent social media especially in this digital age we are going into. And the real blackpilling aspect of this all? As you guessed it most of it comes down to genetics that will make or break you when creating a success social media profile. It’s either your tall and good looking which creates a positive feedback loop therefore boosting your confidence and making it easier to post pics and your life because experiences are coming to YOU. Or it’s you’re ugly creating a negative feedback loop making it harder to post pics and your life because you’re getting NO experiences coming to you no matter how hard you chase them. Even if you do try a good looking guy will get 10x more the amount of likes than any pic you post.

My advice to the boys under 16 on this forum. Get the fuck out this forum and start building a healthy social media ASAP and MAINTAIN your social life. Where I fucked up is that I didn’t even try making a good social media because I was too self conscious about my looks. I went and played with my gaming friends online rather than posting on social media and I believe that’s one the main reasons behind my inceldom.

Trust me when I say if you don’t do prioritise social connections at an early age you will regret it severely when you’re older. Because at the end of the day if you’re sub 6 and cannot get girls those social connections and friendships may be the difference between being able to cope with your inceldom and living a miserable life with not only no girls but also no friends.

@Kamui @forevergymcelling @MoggerGaston @Pikabro @disillusioned @GetShrekt @tyronelite @FaceandBBC @PrinceLuenLeoncur @Ricky212 @dimorphism @Luffymaxxing @Nick.Harte @Lebgfinal @Blackgymmax @Amnesia @averagejoe @Sprinkles
Most guys in my school don’t even post and if they do they only keep a few up around three. A massive backlog catalog is a failo ngl.
 
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