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I’ve been thinking more about the nt pill and how much do your social skills really affect your life. I’ve come to the conclusion that unless you are giga autistic it is nearly impossible to be haloed by your ntness and social skills.
I use to be much fatter than I am right now (I am more skinny fat tbh) and the way people treated me before and after losing weight was much different. There was also no change in my social skills since the time between the two periods was less than a year. However, I was treated much better than I was prior. People that I use to interact with on a daily basis were nicer to me (most were very quiet when talking to me) and I started to have what I would deem as normal interactions with people.
@AscendingHero can confirm that I looked much different between now and when I was fatter. Another time i had this drastic change in the way people treated me was when I grew my hair out to a normal length (basically up until high school my parents made me get a buzzcut). I also vaguely remember people started treating me differently after I got glasses in the second grade. It was as if they put me into a different level on the social hierarchy.
Now what all these examples have in common is a change in my appearance. Not a change in social skills. My social skills are pretty average so I wouldn’t say they failo me at all besides the fact that I had no social media up until a couple weeks ago and that really didn’t even hinder me much tbh.
So with all of this in mind and what I understand of lookism and the blackpill, your social level in society is really determined by your looks (unless you’re rich, being rich is a little different) and not how social you or nt you are.
One example of this is my 5’ 8” Chinese friend who is an incel in the states but pretty average over in china where he was able to get a few slays. My friend is extremely good at talking to people (very low inhib, doesn’t run out of things to say, charismatic, etc) but he was still at a lower end of the social hierarchy at my old high school than compared to me. He cold approached probably like 50 different girls, ranging from low tier Becky to high tier Becky of varying races which all rejected him. While I have been asked out by girls that I’ve known in class multiple times and never cold approached in my life lmao. I’ve also been invited to more parties than he has by kids and so on. Basically I was at a much higher end of the social hierarchy compared to him even though I was much less nt and had worse social skills. The only difference being I’m a tall white normie and he’s a short ethnic sub5.
So moral of the story is that unless you don’t speak or are giga autistic it is extremely hard to be failoed by your social skills and ntness. And it’s the same with being haloed, all the old people I know with great social skills use to be goodlooking and I am 100 percent certain they get treated differently after the age pill has destroyed their collagen.
I use to be much fatter than I am right now (I am more skinny fat tbh) and the way people treated me before and after losing weight was much different. There was also no change in my social skills since the time between the two periods was less than a year. However, I was treated much better than I was prior. People that I use to interact with on a daily basis were nicer to me (most were very quiet when talking to me) and I started to have what I would deem as normal interactions with people.
@AscendingHero can confirm that I looked much different between now and when I was fatter. Another time i had this drastic change in the way people treated me was when I grew my hair out to a normal length (basically up until high school my parents made me get a buzzcut). I also vaguely remember people started treating me differently after I got glasses in the second grade. It was as if they put me into a different level on the social hierarchy.
Now what all these examples have in common is a change in my appearance. Not a change in social skills. My social skills are pretty average so I wouldn’t say they failo me at all besides the fact that I had no social media up until a couple weeks ago and that really didn’t even hinder me much tbh.
So with all of this in mind and what I understand of lookism and the blackpill, your social level in society is really determined by your looks (unless you’re rich, being rich is a little different) and not how social you or nt you are.
One example of this is my 5’ 8” Chinese friend who is an incel in the states but pretty average over in china where he was able to get a few slays. My friend is extremely good at talking to people (very low inhib, doesn’t run out of things to say, charismatic, etc) but he was still at a lower end of the social hierarchy at my old high school than compared to me. He cold approached probably like 50 different girls, ranging from low tier Becky to high tier Becky of varying races which all rejected him. While I have been asked out by girls that I’ve known in class multiple times and never cold approached in my life lmao. I’ve also been invited to more parties than he has by kids and so on. Basically I was at a much higher end of the social hierarchy compared to him even though I was much less nt and had worse social skills. The only difference being I’m a tall white normie and he’s a short ethnic sub5.
So moral of the story is that unless you don’t speak or are giga autistic it is extremely hard to be failoed by your social skills and ntness. And it’s the same with being haloed, all the old people I know with great social skills use to be goodlooking and I am 100 percent certain they get treated differently after the age pill has destroyed their collagen.
