MaghrebGator
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You can't have both sides of the coin and pretend that you are playing for Barcelona and Madrid at the same time. As a non NT person you are pretty much screwed if you keep caring this much about how you look.
You should focus your overthinking in other matters. Definetly this is easier said than done but one way to achieve this is to avoid women your age altogether for a month or two and filling your time with all possible means apart from acts involving your hand and genitals. Impossible also not to train during this time, since pain will make you even more NT.
I'm speaking from experience and fruitful knowledge, deprival and lower resources are the best ways to make you get out of this state of inceldom and mental weakness. It is like when you have a back pain or your teeth hurt a lot, you stop caring for some time about any other thing, including the hours/days after the pain has ceased which are the true joys of the experience. The dopamine spike happens there. There are methods to deprive yourself without reaching the suffering barrier yet at the same time you forget about "Muh looks muh i'm non NT muh". That should be the true sweetspot to reach.
You should focus your overthinking in other matters. Definetly this is easier said than done but one way to achieve this is to avoid women your age altogether for a month or two and filling your time with all possible means apart from acts involving your hand and genitals. Impossible also not to train during this time, since pain will make you even more NT.
I'm speaking from experience and fruitful knowledge, deprival and lower resources are the best ways to make you get out of this state of inceldom and mental weakness. It is like when you have a back pain or your teeth hurt a lot, you stop caring for some time about any other thing, including the hours/days after the pain has ceased which are the true joys of the experience. The dopamine spike happens there. There are methods to deprive yourself without reaching the suffering barrier yet at the same time you forget about "Muh looks muh i'm non NT muh". That should be the true sweetspot to reach.