Why are curry families such haters?

[FailedNormieManlet]

My cousins from one side of my family (all working in retail and shit jobs) are refusing to go to my graduation party. My mother claims it's because of jealousy as they've always looked down upon my family. Tbf I can't see how they can look down on anyone when they are the at the very bottom rung of society. One of my uncles was acting very pissy towards my mum and my mum just hung up the phone. Insane how these people just hate on you for doing somewhat okay in life and making minor strides.

Idk how they'll react when I further careermax and ascend tbh.

@Chadethnic101 @currylightskin @Chinacurry @Predeterminism @Tinydragon98 @TRUE_CEL

 

[Deleted member 20618]

Crab mentality. its very common imo

 

[Gengar]

It's true, South Asians hate on each other. Even within the family. It's insane. They don't want you to succeed and get jealous if you outperform their kids academically.

 

[FailedNormieManlet]

Crab mentality. its very common imo

Yeah 100%, I remember when my older bro was in a coma one of them criticised him for being too ambitious. I was pretty much just going to get up and beat the shit out of her tbh, but my dad had to stop me

 

[Deleted member 4430]

 

[sub5inchcel]

does your parents also have problem with you growing your hair out?

 

[FailedNormieManlet]

does your parents also have problem with you growing your hair out?

er when I was younger, but now? Not really, they don't care

 

[Jason Voorhees]

Crab mentality is very common in third world countries because of the lack of resources.

 

[FailedNormieManlet]

Crab mentality is very common in third world countries because of the lack of resources.

Honestly man, I've never acted arrogant or big-headed towards my cousins, have always been polite and shit. But they're just hating on me, it doesn't even improve their lives that they're hating tbh

 

[Deleted member 17829]

if u didnt go uni and was a retail donny forever

would u wanna go to ur cousins uni graduation party?

 

[FailedNormieManlet]

if u didnt go uni and was a retail donny forever

would u wanna go to ur cousins uni graduation party?

probably man because I'm not jealous or weird like that tbh. The thing is, these guys have always acted like pricks to my family and looked down on us jfl

 

[Deleted member 17829]

probably man because I'm not jealous or weird like that tbh. The thing is, these guys have always acted like pricks to my family and looked down on us jfl

Well good mindset ig, and lol why they look down on u?

 

[Deleted member 9670]

I wish I was Indian

I wish my mother made me dal and told me I'm handsome

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

I told you Indians are crazy lad

 

[hebbewem]

It probaly more to do they don't wanna go to the party

 

[JBcollector]

Europe was once a poor and
Thr irish has famine yet they don't have such toxic behavior

Crab mentality is very common in third world countries because of the lack of resources.

 

[FailedNormieManlet]

Well good mindset ig, and lol why they look down on u?

No clue tbh, probably cuz my mum was from a village and they’re from city. It’s stupid af tbh

I told you Indians are crazy lad

it’s a different breed tbh. Idk why they can’t just act normal

 

[Deleted member 20618]

Yeah 100%, I remember when my older bro was in a coma one of them criticised him for being too ambitious. I was pretty much just going to get up and beat the shit out of her tbh, but my dad had to stop me

Same bro im filipino so ill have all these random ass "relatives" "uncles" and "cousins" ive never met fucking messaging me asking for a fucking LOUIS VITTON bag like what the fuck nigga. One kid asked me for a fucking PS5 when it released like nigga my dad is an accountant and mom is a nurse u think we can afford that shit. In nova scotia where i live (like slightly out of town) those salaries combined can only buy a medium sized old ass house. Fucking filipino parasytes always asking for shit.

THESE NIGGERS ALWAYS COME OUT OF THE WOODWORK THE MOMENT THEY HEAR WE ARE COMING BACK. WHY DONT THEY FUCKING ASK MY UNCLE FOR FREEBIES HE STEALS LANDS AND IS RICH AS FUCK NIGGGA

 

[Chinacurry]

Logical

 

[Chinacurry]

Logical

 

[Gaia262]

Crab in a bucket mentality. Its extremely common amongst Indian families and friends/co-workers. They will do absolutely everything they can to pull you down.

You are on your own when you are trying to improve yourself with them around. By default your are a "sigma male" or what they call it.

Its tragic to see to be honest.

 

[Gonthar]

My cousins from one side of my family (all working in retail and shit jobs) are refusing to go to my graduation party.

What graduation party?
What exactly is this?

 

[Deleted member 16275]

continue ascending in every way and shut them up innit

 

[Gengar]

I wish I was Indian

I wish my mother made me dal and told me I'm handsome

Look at this dalkhor wanna-be @Shrek2OnDvD

 

[Deleted member 4362]

To be fair I wouldn’t go if it was me

 

[fauxfox]

My cousins from one side of my family (all working in retail and shit jobs) are refusing to go to my graduation party. My mother claims it's because of jealousy as they've always looked down upon my family. Tbf I can't see how they can look down on anyone when they are the at the very bottom rung of society. One of my uncles was acting very pissy towards my mum and my mum just hung up the phone. Insane how these people just hate on you for doing somewhat okay in life and making minor strides.

Idk how they'll react when I further careermax and ascend tbh.

@Chadethnic101 @currylightskin @Chinacurry @Predeterminism @Tinydragon98 @TRUE_CEL

Why don't you straight up call them failures/losers and say that they're jealous to their face? That's what I'd do

 

[justinzayn]

avoid them,and dont let them get in ur head,
my relatives/cousins do the same although they arent hindus or indians
they will llietrally put down a 2 year old child to confirm their ego,thats how desperate they are

 

[FailedNormieManlet]

Why don't you straight up call them failures/losers and say that they're jealous to their face? That's what I'd do

cuz it would cause too many arguments, my cousins are no lifes

avoid them,and dont let them get in ur head,
my relatives/cousins do the same
they will llietrally put down a 2 year old child to confirm their ego,thats how desperate they are

yeah I suppose I will have to tbh. Sad to see how fucked these people are

 

[fauxfox]

cuz it would cause too many arguments, my cousins are no lifes

yeah I suppose I will have to tbh. Sad to see how fucked these people are

Destroy their ego before you ghost them. Make them feel like absolute shit. They sound like people not involving yourself with so who cares. Unless of course you're forced to interact with them regularly

 

[looksmaxxed]

they're right, you're coping.

 

[Deleted member 8365]

My cousins from one side of my family (all working in retail and shit jobs) are refusing to go to my graduation party. My mother claims it's because of jealousy as they've always looked down upon my family. Tbf I can't see how they can look down on anyone when they are the at the very bottom rung of society. One of my uncles was acting very pissy towards my mum and my mum just hung up the phone. Insane how these people just hate on you for doing somewhat okay in life and making minor strides.

Idk how they'll react when I further careermax and ascend tbh.

@Chadethnic101 @currylightskin @Chinacurry @Predeterminism @Tinydragon98 @TRUE_CEL

 

[PrinceLuenLeoncur]

My cousins from one side of my family (all working in retail and shit jobs) are refusing to go to my graduation party. My mother claims it's because of jealousy as they've always looked down upon my family. Tbf I can't see how they can look down on anyone when they are the at the very bottom rung of society. One of my uncles was acting very pissy towards my mum and my mum just hung up the phone. Insane how these people just hate on you for doing somewhat okay in life and making minor strides.

Idk how they'll react when I further careermax and ascend tbh.

@Chadethnic101 @currylightskin @Chinacurry @Predeterminism @Tinydragon98 @TRUE_CEL

They are subhumans almost on par with nigs

 

[Chadethnic101]

Yah Bengalis in particular hate to see their relatives do well, unless it's your literal parents and siblings. Even then depending what you've achieved there can be friction.

Cousins and uncles, aunties etc are all haters
My uncles and aunties seeth inside if I do well and want me to fail in life lol
However my mum's side who are mixed race are happy for me- funny that non full Bengalis are happy jfl (quarter English)

All in all I've never met a curry family aside from one (my rich friend) whose not toxic

My theory is my rich mates family are all millionaires so there's no hate.
The hate comes from the potential of you making good money in future lol it's pathetic.

My cousins from one side of my family (all working in retail and shit jobs) are refusing to go to my graduation party. My mother claims it's because of jealousy as they've always looked down upon my family. Tbf I can't see how they can look down on anyone when they are the at the very bottom rung of society. One of my uncles was acting very pissy towards my mum and my mum just hung up the phone. Insane how these people just hate on you for doing somewhat okay in life and making minor strides.

Idk how they'll react when I further careermax and ascend tbh.

@Chadethnic101 @currylightskin @Chinacurry @Predeterminism @Tinydragon98 @TRUE_CEL

 

[UglyGod360]

Same bro im filipino so ill have all these random ass "relatives" "uncles" and "cousins" ive never met fucking messaging me asking for a fucking LOUIS VITTON bag like what the fuck nigga. One kid asked me for a fucking PS5 when it released like nigga my dad is an accountant and mom is a nurse u think we can afford that shit. In nova scotia where i live (like slightly out of town) those salaries combined can only buy a medium sized old ass house. Fucking filipino parasytes always asking for shit.

THESE NIGGERS ALWAYS COME OUT OF THE WOODWORK THE MOMENT THEY HEAR WE ARE COMING BACK. WHY DONT THEY FUCKING ASK MY UNCLE FOR FREEBIES HE STEALS LANDS AND IS RICH AS FUCK NIGGGA

They think money here in the west grows on trees