Why do I see ugly guys with pretty girlfriends?

[HeavyMetalcel]

So basically this one chick I liked has found a bf. The bf is by every definition subhuman (wide nigger nose, round head like a ball, slightly fat, bro is apparently white but looks native american). The only reason why I can see her being with him is because of the niche appeal (long hair, metal, punk, that sort of thing) and statusmaxxing. So are statusmaxxing and nichemaxxing a meme or what? Also, I'm not sure if the guy is tall or not, I think he is just a tad taller than her. I don't get it.

>inb4 "betabuxx"

The guy is either in his senior year of highschool or first year of college, there is no way he can be a betabuxx at that age.

>inb4 "you're probably just overrating the girl, they're looksmatched"

There is no way on this Earth they're looksmatched, the guy is clearly uglier.

 

[Orc]

he has a better personality than you do.

 

[RecessedCels]

Some people do actually care about personality. Can't deny it

 

[jjbomb]

ugly guys with attractive girlfriend doesn't hurt the BP it reinforces it, the BP isn't supposed to be 100% vro

 

[jjbomb]

Some people do actually care about personality. Can't deny it

the bluepilling begins, another lost brother

 

[lurking truecel]

Welcome to reality

 

[lurking truecel]

the bluepilling begins, another lost brother

It's def part of the equation but lms is of greater value

 

[RecessedCels]

the bluepilling begins, another lost brother

At some point you have to be realistic. Looks obviously matter a lot and most people don't really want to date ugly guys but that doesn't mean NOBODY cares about personality

 

[HeavyMetalcel]

he has a better personality than you do.

Thing is, I never talked to her directly, (outside of some Instagram messages) but I wasn't being flirty in any way, she couldn't really figure out my personality.

 

[jjbomb]

It's def part of the equation but lms is of greater value

remember a mans personality is mostly influenced by his looks, good looking man - gentle, caring, gentleman
ugly man - creep, pedo, abuser

 

[HeavyMetalcel]

Some people do actually care about personality. Can't deny it

I mean, of course it matters to an extent.

 

[jjbomb]

At some point you have to be realistic. Looks obviously matter a lot and most people don't really want to date ugly guys but that doesn't mean NOBODY cares about personality

Personality only matters if you want to seek a long term relation, which most of it doesnt matter

 

[RecessedCels]

I mean, of course it matters to an extent

Some care more than others

 

[HeavyMetalcel]

ugly guys with attractive girlfriend doesn't hurt the BP it reinforces it, the BP isn't supposed to be 100% vro

I mean I get that there will always be outliers, but this is just too brutal.

 

[motiascension]

Pete davidsonmaxxed and he‘s funny or she likes the idea of being w an ugly dude
Some foids want their boyfriend to be chopped it‘s fucked but it‘s true
Probs a fetish thing

 

[HeavyMetalcel]

Some care more than others

Yeah... I guess I'm just coping

 

[zharupodrugu]

cuz u are an ugly lonely indian. He's nt eventhough he's subhuman

 

[RecessedCels]

Personality only matters if you want to seek a long term relation, which most of it doesnt matter

Yes that's true for most cases. Doesn't mean there aren't people who GENUINELY care about personality the most. Exceptions always exist. Just like most people don't care about trains but to some autistic guy is the most important part of his life

 

[RecessedCels]

Yeah... I guess I'm just coping

Not really coping. Your own personality is also out of your control

 

[HeavyMetalcel]

cuz u are an ugly lonely indian. He's nt eventhough he's subhuman

Not to inflate my own ego, but I mog that guy in every single aspect (and I'm white)

 

[jjbomb]

Not really coping. Your own personality is also out of your control

Not true, people can easily shape their personality to fit what somebody wants, you can 'train' it to please others, that's what most humans have done

 

[jjbomb]

cuz u are an ugly lonely indian. He's nt eventhough he's subhuman

Brutal casual racism against indian bros hope a indian does dirty deeds to u

 

[HeavyMetalcel]

Not really coping. Your own personality is also out of your control

I don't wanna sound like those reddit tier "I'm a nice guy bro" guys, but I don't think my personality is awful, the only problem I have is that I'm introverted as fuck and I overthink a lot.

 

[RecessedCels]

Not true, people can easily shape their personality to fit what somebody wants, you can 'train' it to please others, that's what most humans have done

Yes you can somewhat change it but your actual baseline personality and decision making is shaped by early life experiences and genetics. Whether you want to change your personality or not is dependant on the baseline personality. An ignorant person does not want to change

 

[swagstar]

ugly guys with attractive girlfriend doesn't hurt the BP it reinforces it, the BP isn't supposed to be 100% vro

bp just isnt true
lookism on the other hand is

 

[jjbomb]

bp just isnt true
lookism on the other hand is

lookism is one of the main aspects of BP, the BP is literally biological how can it be not true

 

[RecessedCels]

I don't wanna sound like those reddit tier "I'm a nice guy bro" guys, but I don't think my personality is awful, the only problem I have is that I'm introverted as fuck and I overthink a lot.

Introverted is brutal . The chances of even meeting a person who cares about personality in dating is small

 

[lurking truecel]

remember a mans personality is mostly influenced by his looks, good looking man - gentle, caring, gentleman
ugly man - creep, pedo, abuser

I mean you took the extremes, but personality matters when the looks difference is not that high. And for most people subchad and over ltn, you need to have good interest and values to get a girl.

 

[Orc]

Thing is, I never talked to her directly, (outside of some Instagram messages) but I wasn't being flirty in any way, she couldn't really figure out my personality.

being able to talk to others is part of your personality.

you will never find a girlfriend if you don't open your mouth and aren't able to hold a conversation.

 

[HeavyMetalcel]

Introverted is brutal . The chances of even meeting a person who cares about personality in dating is small

Yeah... I open up pretty fast if the person I'm talking to has the same/similar interests as me though, so it's not completely over.

 

[jjbomb]

I mean you took the extremes, but personality matters when the looks difference is not that high. And for most people subchad and over ltn, you need to have good interest and values to get a girl.

girls don't want to date norms nor their looksmatches

 

[RecessedCels]

Yeah... I open up pretty fast if the person I'm talking to has the same/similar interests as me though, so it's not completely over.

I'm severely addicted to the internet so I can only talk to people online

 

[HeavyMetalcel]

being able to talk to others is part of your personality.

you will never find a girlfriend if you don't open your mouth and aren't able to hold a conversation.

You're right, I guess a huge part of my problem is being passive and shy.

 

[HeavyMetalcel]

I'm severely addicted to the internet so I can only talk to people online

Broootal man...

 

[lurking truecel]

girls don't want to date norms nor their looksmatches

You are retarded, even if you don't date your looks match their will be a lot of other guys in the same level as you either way. If you are not cl+ which I doubt. Then you need a personality.

 

[jjbomb]

You are retarded, even if you don't date your looks match their will be a lot of other guys in the same level as you either way. If you are not cl+ which I doubt. Then you need a personality.

You didn't make any arguments, girls do not want to date their looksmatches, keyword WANT, they want to date attractive men and they can, men cannot be afforded the same luxury as we need to LOWER our standards and foids need to INCREASE their standards, read the graph

 

[lurking truecel]

You didn't make any arguments, girls do not want to date their looksmatches, keyword WANT, they want to date attractive men and they can, men cannot be afforded the same luxury as we need to LOWER our standards and foids need to INCREASE their standards, read the graph

Yes that is what I am saying also. You need to have top tier looks and be interesting and have a personality also. And I can for sure say that there are some good looking people that are uninteresting and with the current competitiveness among every looks level you don't get away with anything. I think we have the same thoughts but you just neglect personality totally which is not according to blackpill either. You need everything, looks, brain, status etc. You can compensate if you have really high in one but then you still drop in the hierarchy a little bit.

 

[esoterik]

phenotype, he has a ugly skull but hes from Sweden dawg

 

[zharupodrugu]

Brutal casual racism against indian bros hope a indian does dirty deeds to u

shutfuckup dalit. Its nt to be racist to indians in 2024

I don't wanna sound like those reddit tier "I'm a nice guy bro" guys, but I don't think my personality is awful, the only problem I have is that I'm introverted as fuck and I overthink a lot.

if you can't hold a conversation you do have an awful personality. The personality of an abused dog, pussy who is too shy to talk to others, a paralyzed little kid who overthinks everything meanwhile low inhib niggas just act and get bitches

 

[HeavyMetalcel]

shutfuckup dalit. Its nt to be racist to indians in 2024

if you can't hold a conversation you do have an awful personality. The personality of an abused dog, pussy who is too shy to talk to others, a paralyzed little kid who overthinks everything meanwhile low inhib niggas just act and get bitches

I hate that you're probably right.

 

[zharupodrugu]

I hate that you're probably right.

lose probably we both know I'm right.

 

[HeavyMetalcel]

lose probably we both know I'm right.

How do I unpussify myself then?

 

[zharupodrugu]

How do I unpussify myself then?

easy fucked up method:
Drugs and alcohol - fake confidence

hard methods:
being as social as possible
participate in every event and talk to strangers
constantly pushing urself into social situations, the same as gymcelling progressive overload u will gradually lower your inhibition
physical activities are a must
consider therapy and meditation

 

[HeavyMetalcel]

easy fucked up method:
Drugs and alcohol - fake confidence

hard methods:
being as social as possible
participate in every event and talk to strangers
constantly pushing urself into social situations, the same as gymcelling progressive overload u will gradually lower your inhibition
physical activities are a must
consider therapy and meditation

Thanks G

 

[Deusmaximus]

I give you the correct answer:
Some girls are smart enough to realize that hot guys above her level will not stay with them and only use them for pump and dump. Since girls cant stay alone, they them look for a regular normie. Usually they then avoid intense and often sex and use their bfs as a emotional/financial support.

 

[JarvisMogger]

he has a better personality than you do.

how to know if your attractive or not?

 

[HeavyMetalcel]

I give you the correct answer:
Some girls are smart enough to realize that hot guys above her level will not stay with them and only use them for pump and dump. Since girls cant stay alone, they them look for a regular normie. Usually they then avoid intense and often sex and use their bfs as a emotional/financial support.

Hmmm, that's an interesting theory, from my personal experience I've seen hot girls date pretty average or below average guys but those relationships didn't last long. Still, at least those guys got something...

 

[orangomango2003]

ugly guys with attractive girlfriend doesn't hurt the BP it reinforces it, the BP isn't supposed to be 100% vro

personality is part of BP. personality is determined by genetics and environment which are both out of your control. personality is even harder to improve than appearance, especially after reaching adulthood.

it's very complicated to improve personality because it's not as straight-forward as looks. there's no concrete steps or goals when it comes to personality. it's all about talking to the right people and gaining the right experiences. you can't copy-paste charisma.

by improving your appearance you automatically improve your personality because more people talk with you and you gain more confidence.

 

[CookieGuy]

Some average dudes may fit their specific type.

Obviously they can’t be like Mid LTN and Lower but especially in younger years High LTN-High MTN may have some leeway depending on the person.

PSL isn’t a definitive score, while it is great. Sometimes a physique tall boneless semi pizza face with a good phenotype and averageness is able to be seen as good looking to a girl

 

[swagstar]

lookism is one of the main aspects of BP, the BP is literally biological how can it be not true

the bo is mich more radical grey