Why every single person on this forum can get into LTR

[Deleted member 20216]

If an alien were to browse this forum he would come to the conclusion that majority of male population are incels because 50% of males would be 4PSL or below. This is simply not true, most men in real life know how to talk to women and sex ratio is not that heavily skewed in the females favour. For example Tinder has 80/20 ratio of men to women, so where are the excess women who are not on dating apps? They are meeting guys inside of their social circle.

So lets hit some math - if you have no friends, don't socialise at bars or restaurants and don't talk to girls at school or work then automatically majority of the female population is inaccessible to you. Now factor in that your looksmatch is probably not on tinder since you are ugly then you quickly see you are a volcel. By no means is this your fault though, most teen incels here are neurodivergent or suffer from bdd.

So what can you do to find these "ghost women"? Well for starters, build a social circle and work on becoming more low inhibition. Delete tinder if you are not HTN at minimum, you will only get the scraps. Here is a low inhib guide I found that summarises the basics and some ntmaxxing

Low Inhib Max Guide (very long list)

I remember this thread got so much hate from the other site for "being bluepilled/redpilled" but this has worked for me. There was also so much strawmen that I was saying being low inhib = ascension for everyone, which is nonsense. If you are still trying to ascend, being low inhib is important...

looksmax.org

The truth is that most of you here will never get a stacy who is loyal to you unless you are HTN+. Humans biologically want to reproduce and women know subconsicouly they will never get a Chad to stay loyal to them. The general rule is that women date 1 up, so if you are MTN expect that your SMV match is a LTB. If you're a LTN expect that for your partner to stay loyal she must be subhuman. Brutal but true, you have to be better than your woman or you are risk of being cucked.

Overall though if you can looksmaxx to 3.5 PSL and become low inhib/NT then you can live a somewhat fulfilling life and have kids. Anyone who says otherwise is just lying to you and listening to autistic PSL theories will make you depressed and suicidal.

 

[Deleted member 17311]

Ratio sadly

 

[Deleted member 17829]

True but I wouldn’t say girls who aren’t on tinder only get dates via social circle.

Imo 99% of dating outside of dating apps is via Instagram.

 

[Deleted member 20216]

True but I wouldn’t say girls who aren’t on tinder only get dates via social circle.

Imo 99% of dating outside of dating apps is via Instagram.

Only 40% of couples meet online. Instagram counts as online.

 

[ChristianChad]

Good thread!

 

[forevergymcelling]

Just build a social circle from thin air bro

It's easy

 

[HerpDerpson]

Overall though if you can looksmaxx to 3.5 PSL and become low inhib/NT then you can live a somewhat fulfilling life and have kids.

This is based on a presupposition that the person in question has the same definition of "fulfilling" or wants children.
You're basically advocating for oofy doofy, but one can't force yourself to become one - you have to be blissfully ignorant for it to work. If you're aware that primal attraction exists and your partner doesn't have it for you (because you're not physically attractive), then a lot of people would rather have nothing.

 

[Deleted member 20216]

Just build a social circle from thin air bro

It's easy

Speak to people, most people want to be approached. If you can't bring yourself to do that then its over

 

[forevergymcelling]

Speak to people, most people want to be approached. If you can't bring yourself to do that then its over

Everyone in 2022 just wants to sit in the house and watch netflix or cope with their LTR

Nobody does anything anymore

Creating a social circle from scratch post uni at 26 is near impossible unless you get lucky with your job or you live in a house share

 

[LightSkinNoob]

Gonna approach a skinny fat HTB JB at my work, 80% I become the creppy guy at work, 10% I get fired, 10% chance she tells me she has boyfriend.

 

[HerpDerpson]

Creating a social circle from scratch post uni at 26 is near impossible

I created a social circle, but I got 0 female attention from it. Face is still the king.

 

[zharupodrugu]

Just build a social circle from thin air bro

It's easy

You can build social circle as an adult only through gatherings like job or hobby clubs.
Extraverted people built social circles out thin air in any place. Its easy but for autists like us almost "impossible"

Speak to people, most people want to be approached. If you can't bring yourself to do that then its over

People wont accept bitter truth

 

[Zer0/∞]

How about if you're autistic?

 

[Deleted member 15827]

How about if you're autistic?

No autism for obesity

 

[LightSkinNoob]

How about if you're autistic?

You can still approach, I’ve done it (diagnosed), most girls except weird ones will reject you tho.

 

[Tenshi]

Socialcirclemaxxing for most guys (sub5) is basically lucking out, but that's what most normies do. They don't "try" to get girls, they get what fate hands them.

the blackpill though is that as non-chad men we always have to make shit happen, otherwise you'll aways be at the hands of fate and when you have no social circle that means inceldom.

whatever you decide to do, whether build up a social circle, cold approach, hop on tinder, whatever. You'll evaluate which one will works better for you. But you HAVE to do something

 

[Lawton88]

Female hypergamy is just getting worse and it's why male virginity is going through the roof. If a 5/10 male finds himself single post college age he is becoming virtually invisible to the post college females. A 5/10 female past college has no issue sleeping occasionally with a higher tier male and staying single rather than settling for a 5/10 male.

 

[Aladin]

If an alien were to browse this forum he would come to the conclusion that majority of male population are incels because 50% of males would be 4PSL or below. This is simply not true, most men in real life know how to talk to women and sex ratio is not that heavily skewed in the females favour. For example Tinder has 80/20 ratio of men to women, so where are the excess women who are not on dating apps? They are meeting guys inside of their social circle.
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So lets hit some math - if you have no friends, don't socialise at bars or restaurants and don't talk to girls at school or work then automatically majority of the female population is inaccessible to you. Now factor in that your looksmatch is probably not on tinder since you are ugly then you quickly see you are a volcel. By no means is this your fault though, most teen incels here are neurodivergent or suffer from bdd.

So what can you do to find these "ghost women"? Well for starters, build a social circle and work on becoming more low inhibition. Delete tinder if you are not HTN at minimum, you will only get the scraps. Here is a low inhib guide I found that summarises the basics and some ntmaxxing

Low Inhib Max Guide (very long list)

I remember this thread got so much hate from the other site for "being bluepilled/redpilled" but this has worked for me. There was also so much strawmen that I was saying being low inhib = ascension for everyone, which is nonsense. If you are still trying to ascend, being low inhib is important...

looksmax.org

The truth is that most of you here will never get a stacy who is loyal to you unless you are HTN+. Humans biologically want to reproduce and women know subconsicouly they will never get a Chad to stay loyal to them. The general rule is that women date 1 up, so if you are MTN expect that your SMV match is a LTB. If you're a LTN expect that for your partner to stay loyal she must be subhuman. Brutal but true, you have to be better than your woman or you are risk of being cucked.

Overall though if you can looksmaxx to 3.5 PSL and become low inhib/NT then you can live a somewhat fulfilling life and have kids. Anyone who says otherwise is just lying to you and listening to autistic PSL theories will make you depressed and suicidal.

how about you shit in your hand and smash your face in it you dumb fuck
i literally coomed on a flower in forest once cuz my family was home and that thing had more IQ than you

you cant force people to be attracted to you. thats why its called ATTRACTION, it ATTRACTS
if you are not ATTRACTING you are being ATTRACTED aka you have the shit end of the stick and you will have to work to keep the ATTRACTIVE person interested and that attractive person will attract other people than you too.
You are telling people to enter a loosing battle, a sisyphean struggle that gets harder as you age.

also looks dont keep women around. even chads get cheated on. If women wanted LTR, which they dont, we would just see chads with harems by now that are in LTR like its Ottoman empire in 1600s. We dont.

you cant become more low inhib because you are ugly and being low inhib gets you punished, which is why you are high inhib in first place.

Facial attractiveness as a moderator of the association between social and physical aggression and popularity in adolescents

This study examined the relations between facial attractiveness, aggression, and popularity in adolescence to determine whether facial attractiveness …

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Aggression was associated with a reduction in popularity for adolescents low on facial attractiveness. However, popularity did not decrease as a function of aggression for adolescents high on facial attractiveness.

you cant build a social circle, thats retarded. People naturally gravitate to each other. If you have to manual shit yourself through social life, youre already fucked and have autism.

idk, im kinda too fucked up, but OP, please committ sui, low iq thread, die

 

[Chintuck22]

how about you shit in your hand and smash your face in it you dumb fuck
i literally coomed on a flower in forest once cuz my family was home and that thing had more IQ than you

you cant force people to be attracted to you. thats why its called ATTRACTION, it ATTRACTS
if you are not ATTRACTING you are being ATTRACTED aka you have the shit end of the stick and you will have to work to keep the ATTRACTIVE person interested and that attractive person will attract other people than you too.
You are telling people to enter a loosing battle, a sisyphean struggle that gets harder as you age.

also looks dont keep women around. even chads get cheated on. If women wanted LTR, which they dont, we would just see chads with harems by now that are in LTR like its Ottoman empire in 1600s. We dont.

you cant become more low inhib because you are ugly and being low inhib gets you punished, which is why you are high inhib in first place.

Facial attractiveness as a moderator of the association between social and physical aggression and popularity in adolescents

This study examined the relations between facial attractiveness, aggression, and popularity in adolescence to determine whether facial attractiveness …

www.sciencedirect.com

you cant build a social circle, thats retarded. People naturally gravitate to each other. If you have to manual shit yourself through social life, youre already fucked and have autism.

idk, im kinda too fucked up, but OP, please committ sui, low iq thread, die

I invited many girls on dates, cinema, shopping, drink... The closest i've ever got is kiss. I'm putting the effort in, and i'm always being friendzoned

If you are good looking you will not have to put effort and you will get everything you want, i just wasted my time by betabuxing a girl which doesn't even like me

This is your fate as truecel. Inevitable suffering

 

[bara]

Only 40% of couples meet online. Instagram counts as online.

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I would not extrapolate so heavily from 1 survey even if N = 5000.

Surveys tend to lack depth and can suffer from bias.

Obviously, running this survey will have different results wherever you conduct it, etc.

Not to say this isn’t accurate, but just for future reference be cautious of survey studies.

 

[Deleted member 20216]

you cant build a social circle, thats retarded. People naturally gravitate to each other. If you have to manual shit yourself through social life, youre already fucked and have autism.

idk, im kinda too fucked up, but OP, please committ sui, low iq thread, die

Screaming at me to die while you are an incel. I built good social circle of friends by talking to people and to live a good life, we are social creatures after all. I may not be 8PSL gigalord but at least I have regular sex which is fine for me.

I invited many girls on dates, cinema, shopping, drink... The closest i've ever got is kiss. I'm putting the effort in, and i'm always being friendzoned

Then clearly your doing something wrong, blaming your face is just avoiding other flaws. You can't change your face so why focus on it?

 

[Aladin]

I invited many girls on dates, cinema, shopping, drink... The closest i've ever got is kiss. I'm putting the effort in, and i'm always being friendzoned

If you are good looking you will not have to put effort and you will get everything you want, i just wasted my time by betabuxing a girl which doesn't even like me

This is your fate as truecel. Inevitable suffering

if you have to work for it, give up, you are already putting yourself at disadvantage.
Life is deterministic. There is only very very few things that you should struggle for.
But for the majority of things, if you struggle, just give up, unironically.
Look at your life, ignore your ego, everything you want to believe. Look at your actions, the things you always come back to, naturally. Thats what you are supposed to do.
If you are not getting relationships and sex, it was not meant to be.
If you are trying to learn something new and you are not not doing already without thinking about it, give up.

Look at your childhood. Your path is already visible there. I cant see a single time in my life where i was normal, different. There is not a single point in time where i "changed" and went down a different path.

- A man's heart deviseth his way: but the Lord directeth his steps, proverbs 16:9 kjv

Its a huge relief to give up. Yes, you cant shake your desire to fuck and shit, but you cant do anything else either.
Look at childhood, theres probably some shit you did without thinking about it. Just do that to cope and distract yourself.

You just have to align yourself with the path that you were given and thats where you will feel the least pain. Its like you were given a bicycle and youre driving on a country road next to a highway. On the highway are other people in cars doing 300mph. You go like, hey, i wish i could do that, and you enter the highway. Eventually you end up back on the country road, if youre lucky with your bicycle intact.

 

[Aladin]

Screaming at me to die while you are an incel. I built good social circle of friends by talking to people and to live a good life, we are social creatures after all. I may not be 8PSL gigalord but at least I have regular sex which is fine for me.

Then clearly your doing something wrong, blaming your face is just avoiding other flaws. You can't change your face so why focus on it?

lol at using incel as insult OK FOID
no you didnt do shit. You cant generate attraction, i am sorry honey. The people you talked already signaled availability to you before you even talked to them, or you wouldnt have felt safe in approaching them.
I can also illustrate the opposite from a personal example. This dude in HS saw me during orientation in 5th grade. Later he told me to my face that when he saw me, he hoped he wouldnt end up in a class with me.

Thats how it works. First glance, youre put in a box. You have no control over your social life, I am sorry, but you are coping hard.
You got these things because you were good looking enough to get them and you provided these people with some kind of value with your looks. When people look at a face that pleases them, it literally releases feel good hormones in their body, even in newborn infants. So, there is a spectrum and if you are ugly, your face literally makes people disgusted by releasing stress hormones in them, like with me.

also, your language is odd, "gigalord" very weird.

@rightfulcel did you leave something in the oven? it smells weird in here

 

[Deleted member 20216]

lol at using incel as insult OK FOID

Thats how it works. First glance, youre put in a box. You have no control over your social life, I am sorry, but you are coping hard.

Look at my old posts before you say some stupid shit faggot greycel. Learn to type too, I can't read your word vomit

How I slayed arab girls and how you can too

This guide is only for looksmaxxed or above average looking men. Incels and fags please leave, PSL autists too. To preface, you must know arab men have lowest SMV. They are no taller than 5'9 on average at best, average arab male penis size ranges from 4-5 inches. Now, add in a raging obesity...

looksmax.org

6 day cold approach experiment in Scandinavia, results

:feelsgood:IS COLD APPROACH RETARDED IF YOUR ETHNIC? In last week not including today, I cold approached 4 girls each day, 2 omw to work, 2 coming back. 4x6= 24 girls. After recording the stats, here are results. I made sure to approach specifically only white foids, both ugly and goodlooking...

looksmax.org

how do I keep this nordic stacylite after fucking her?

Yes its the girl from my cold approach experiment . She wants something casual (cuz im ethnic probably) but I need her nordic genes for my offspring if any of you have translated a one night stand into relationship how did you do it? this is her JFL

looksmax.org

This is a looskmaxxing forum so if you can't handle being mogged then please delete your 6 day old accounts and move to .is

 

[ROTTING]

if you have to work for it, give up, you are already putting yourself at disadvantage.
Life is deterministic. There is only very very few things that you should struggle for.
But for the majority of things, if you struggle, just give up, unironically.
Look at your life, ignore your ego, everything you want to believe. Look at your actions, the things you always come back to, naturally. Thats what you are supposed to do.
If you are not getting relationships and sex, it was not meant to be.
If you are trying to learn something new and you are not not doing already without thinking about it, give up.

Look at your childhood. Your path is already visible there. I cant see a single time in my life where i was normal, different. There is not a single point in time where i "changed" and went down a different path.

- A man's heart deviseth his way: but the Lord directeth his steps, proverbs 16:9 kjv

Its a huge relief to give up. Yes, you cant shake your desire to fuck and shit, but you cant do anything else either.
Look at childhood, theres probably some shit you did without thinking about it. Just do that to cope and distract yourself.

You just have to align yourself with the path that you were given and thats where you will feel the least pain. Its like you were given a bicycle and youre driving on a country road next to a highway. On the highway are other people in cars doing 300mph. You go like, hey, i wish i could do that, and you enter the highway. Eventually you end up back on the country road, if youre lucky with your bicycle intact.

Just give up theorem

 

[Deleted member 2729]

I had friends and still was incel

 

[Aladin]

Just give up theorem

thats not what i said.
i said, give up on things that are obviously not going to work.
do what works. thats it.

Look at my old posts before you say some stupid shit faggot greycel. Learn to type too, I can't read your word vomit

How I slayed arab girls and how you can too

This guide is only for looksmaxxed or above average looking men. Incels and fags please leave, PSL autists too. To preface, you must know arab men have lowest SMV. They are no taller than 5'9 on average at best, average arab male penis size ranges from 4-5 inches. Now, add in a raging obesity...

looksmax.org

6 day cold approach experiment in Scandinavia, results

:feelsgood:IS COLD APPROACH RETARDED IF YOUR ETHNIC? In last week not including today, I cold approached 4 girls each day, 2 omw to work, 2 coming back. 4x6= 24 girls. After recording the stats, here are results. I made sure to approach specifically only white foids, both ugly and goodlooking...

looksmax.org

how do I keep this nordic stacylite after fucking her?

Yes its the girl from my cold approach experiment . She wants something casual (cuz im ethnic probably) but I need her nordic genes for my offspring if any of you have translated a one night stand into relationship how did you do it? this is her JFL

looksmax.org

This is a looskmaxxing forum so if you can't handle being mogged then please delete your 6 day old accounts and move to .is

interesting that you think i feel mogged by you. very foid tier insult.

your threads are meaningless and prove my point.
You get sex.
Because you are good looking.
Post your face and it would be obvious. If you are afraid of doxxing you can just post a vocaroo, the sound of your voice will instantly make it evident that you have good or bad facial development.
Additionally, you can take a photo on your phone, go into the gallery app, just trace your head and show the shape, again proving that you are either good or bad looking.
I assume you will not be willing to do these things because you are a woman and an infiltrator on this forum.

Furthermore, I have qualms about looksmaxxing if it works. Which it obviously does.
However, NT-maxxing does not work. Relationships are based on self-interest and if you provide nothing of value to others, they will not want to be with you. If you dont have looks, then what are you providing? Entertainment? There you go, now you are jestermaxxing, which is universally understood to be pathetic.

Ok, lets say you and your friends provide each other with mutual entertainment, great, now you are hanging out with jestermaxxers.

What you are suggesting is that we develop social skills and either to compensate for our looks or to stop being deluded about being ugly (which is what you are implying, that reality is merely perception and many of us are underrating ourselves and wasting time on these forums - an approach straight from CBT therapy).

Now, I want to ask you one simple thing, please, if you may, define social skills for me. Explain what they are, lay it out and then point me to some resource where I can learn about them. And before you point at your threads, there is nothing in there that answers this question.
What are social skills? Define it please.

 

[Chintuck22]

Look at your childhood. Your path is already visible there. I cant see a single time in my life where i was normal, different. There is not a single point in time where i "changed" and went down a different path.

My childhood is one big blur with bad memories because i suffer from extreme mental illness and it has ruined my entire life. But hey, i am just 20, i cannot judge the rest of my life because i am crippled, and i decided to open up about my issue only recently to a medical supervision, and now we are working to fix it

Look at childhood, theres probably some shit you did without thinking about it. Just do that to cope and distract yourself.

I was afraid to leave the house until 12 years old, i had such a shit childhood, and i feel like i am baby trapped in the body of an adult, i tried to end it several times in my life. All people complain how bad is it to live as truecel, but you don't know how bad is it to live with extreme shizoprenia or such, you have not been in my skin so you wouldn't know that

 

[Deleted member 17997]

Look at my old posts before you say some stupid shit faggot greycel. Learn to type too, I can't read your word vomit

How I slayed arab girls and how you can too

This guide is only for looksmaxxed or above average looking men. Incels and fags please leave, PSL autists too. To preface, you must know arab men have lowest SMV. They are no taller than 5'9 on average at best, average arab male penis size ranges from 4-5 inches. Now, add in a raging obesity...

looksmax.org

6 day cold approach experiment in Scandinavia, results

:feelsgood:IS COLD APPROACH RETARDED IF YOUR ETHNIC? In last week not including today, I cold approached 4 girls each day, 2 omw to work, 2 coming back. 4x6= 24 girls. After recording the stats, here are results. I made sure to approach specifically only white foids, both ugly and goodlooking...

looksmax.org

how do I keep this nordic stacylite after fucking her?

Yes its the girl from my cold approach experiment . She wants something casual (cuz im ethnic probably) but I need her nordic genes for my offspring if any of you have translated a one night stand into relationship how did you do it? this is her JFL

looksmax.org

This is a looskmaxxing forum so if you can't handle being mogged then please delete your 6 day old accounts and move to .is

It use to be a looksmaxxing forum until people like you came in saying its all about personality and being NT

 

[Deleted member 4430]

It use to be a looksmaxxing forum until people like you came in saying its all about personality and being NT

this is not a looksmaxxing forum

 

[Xangsane]

If an alien were to browse this forum he would come to the conclusion that majority of male population are incels because 50% of males would be 4PSL or below. This is simply not true, most men in real life know how to talk to women and sex ratio is not that heavily skewed in the females favour. For example Tinder has 80/20 ratio of men to women, so where are the excess women who are not on dating apps? They are meeting guys inside of their social circle.
View attachment 1795735

So lets hit some math - if you have no friends, don't socialise at bars or restaurants and don't talk to girls at school or work then automatically majority of the female population is inaccessible to you. Now factor in that your looksmatch is probably not on tinder since you are ugly then you quickly see you are a volcel. By no means is this your fault though, most teen incels here are neurodivergent or suffer from bdd.

So what can you do to find these "ghost women"? Well for starters, build a social circle and work on becoming more low inhibition. Delete tinder if you are not HTN at minimum, you will only get the scraps. Here is a low inhib guide I found that summarises the basics and some ntmaxxing

Low Inhib Max Guide (very long list)

I remember this thread got so much hate from the other site for "being bluepilled/redpilled" but this has worked for me. There was also so much strawmen that I was saying being low inhib = ascension for everyone, which is nonsense. If you are still trying to ascend, being low inhib is important...

looksmax.org

The truth is that most of you here will never get a stacy who is loyal to you unless you are HTN+. Humans biologically want to reproduce and women know subconsicouly they will never get a Chad to stay loyal to them. The general rule is that women date 1 up, so if you are MTN expect that your SMV match is a LTB. If you're a LTN expect that for your partner to stay loyal she must be subhuman. Brutal but true, you have to be better than your woman or you are risk of being cucked.

Overall though if you can looksmaxx to 3.5 PSL and become low inhib/NT then you can live a somewhat fulfilling life and have kids. Anyone who says otherwise is just lying to you and listening to autistic PSL theories will make you depressed and suicidal.

I talked to Mum. She told me prettier girls are more likely to be degenerate because of attention. Do I have to settle with a LTB if I want purity?

She told me prettier girls of all races and faiths especially at universities are more likely to be degenerate because of all the male attention they get (and in the case of ethnic religious women, denounce their religion behind their parents temporarily to hook up with white men at...

looksmax.org

 

[Deleted member 20216]

It use to be a looksmaxxing forum until people like you came in saying its all about personality and being NT

Cause you get no pussy I slay more than you ever will even if you surgerymaxx nigga. Deal with it whore

thats not what i said.
i said, give up on things that are obviously not going to work.
do what works. thats it.

interesting that you think i feel mogged by you. very foid tier insult.

your threads are meaningless and prove my point.
You get sex.
Because you are good looking.
Post your face and it would be obvious. If you are afraid of doxxing you can just post a vocaroo, the sound of your voice will instantly make it evident that you have good or bad facial development.
Additionally, you can take a photo on your phone, go into the gallery app, just trace your head and show the shape, again proving that you are either good or bad looking.
I assume you will not be willing to do these things because you are a woman and an infiltrator on this forum.

Furthermore, I have qualms about looksmaxxing if it works. Which it obviously does.
However, NT-maxxing does not work. Relationships are based on self-interest and if you provide nothing of value to others, they will not want to be with you. If you dont have looks, then what are you providing? Entertainment? There you go, now you are jestermaxxing, which is universally understood to be pathetic.

Ok, lets say you and your friends provide each other with mutual entertainment, great, now you are hanging out with jestermaxxers.

What you are suggesting is that we develop social skills and either to compensate for our looks or to stop being deluded about being ugly (which is what you are implying, that reality is merely perception and many of us are underrating ourselves and wasting time on these forums - an approach straight from CBT therapy).

Now, I want to ask you one simple thing, please, if you may, define social skills for me. Explain what they are, lay it out and then point me to some resource where I can learn about them. And before you point at your threads, there is nothing in there that answers this question.
What are social skills? Define it please.

Keep writing essays greycel you are neurodivergent as fuck. Face matters yes, water is wet but you need to be nt to keep slaying.

 

[Lars]

Just build a social circle from thin air bro

It's easy

get into sports, go to a place where other people are also search for friends, even yubo works

 

[Deleted member 15302]

Speak to people, most people want to be approached. If you can't bring yourself to do that then its over

i’m repulsive and scare people away

 

[Rt-Rust1]

I

If an alien were to browse this forum he would come to the conclusion that majority of male population are incels because 50% of males would be 4PSL or below. This is simply not true, most men in real life know how to talk to women and sex ratio is not that heavily skewed in the females favour. For example Tinder has 80/20 ratio of men to women, so where are the excess women who are not on dating apps? They are meeting guys inside of their social circle.
View attachment 1795735

So lets hit some math - if you have no friends, don't socialise at bars or restaurants and don't talk to girls at school or work then automatically majority of the female population is inaccessible to you. Now factor in that your looksmatch is probably not on tinder since you are ugly then you quickly see you are a volcel. By no means is this your fault though, most teen incels here are neurodivergent or suffer from bdd.

So what can you do to find these "ghost women"? Well for starters, build a social circle and work on becoming more low inhibition. Delete tinder if you are not HTN at minimum, you will only get the scraps. Here is a low inhib guide I found that summarises the basics and some ntmaxxing

Low Inhib Max Guide (very long list)

I remember this thread got so much hate from the other site for "being bluepilled/redpilled" but this has worked for me. There was also so much strawmen that I was saying being low inhib = ascension for everyone, which is nonsense. If you are still trying to ascend, being low inhib is important...

looksmax.org

The truth is that most of you here will never get a stacy who is loyal to you unless you are HTN+. Humans biologically want to reproduce and women know subconsicouly they will never get a Chad to stay loyal to them. The general rule is that women date 1 up, so if you are MTN expect that your SMV match is a LTB. If you're a LTN expect that for your partner to stay loyal she must be subhuman. Brutal but true, you have to be better than your woman or you are risk of being cucked.

Overall though if you can looksmaxx to 3.5 PSL and become low inhib/NT then you can live a somewhat fulfilling life and have kids. Anyone who says otherwise is just lying to you and listening to autistic PSL theories will make you depressed and suicidal.

I just read the titles and skimmed some words but you made me :')

 

[oldcelloser]

majority of male population are incels because 50% of males would be 4PSL or below

correct; even more than that, by now

 

[KDA Player]

Only 40% of couples meet online. Instagram counts as online.

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Now separate by age, this is taking into account baldcells and trashlandwhalewhores of 40+ yo

 

[Danish_Retard]

thats not what i said.
i said, give up on things that are obviously not going to work.
do what works. thats it.

interesting that you think i feel mogged by you. very foid tier insult.

your threads are meaningless and prove my point.
You get sex.
Because you are good looking.
Post your face and it would be obvious. If you are afraid of doxxing you can just post a vocaroo, the sound of your voice will instantly make it evident that you have good or bad facial development.
Additionally, you can take a photo on your phone, go into the gallery app, just trace your head and show the shape, again proving that you are either good or bad looking.
I assume you will not be willing to do these things because you are a woman and an infiltrator on this forum.

Furthermore, I have qualms about looksmaxxing if it works. Which it obviously does.
However, NT-maxxing does not work. Relationships are based on self-interest and if you provide nothing of value to others, they will not want to be with you. If you dont have looks, then what are you providing? Entertainment? There you go, now you are jestermaxxing, which is universally understood to be pathetic.

Ok, lets say you and your friends provide each other with mutual entertainment, great, now you are hanging out with jestermaxxers.

What you are suggesting is that we develop social skills and either to compensate for our looks or to stop being deluded about being ugly (which is what you are implying, that reality is merely perception and many of us are underrating ourselves and wasting time on these forums - an approach straight from CBT therapy).

Now, I want to ask you one simple thing, please, if you may, define social skills for me. Explain what they are, lay it out and then point me to some resource where I can learn about them. And before you point at your threads, there is nothing in there that answers this question.
What are social skills? Define it please.

While I somewhat agree with you your questions are rather easily answered.

What are social skills? Define it please.

a set of learned abilities that enable an individual to interact competently and appropriately in a given social context.

As an example of someone with no (human) social skills you can look at some of the rare case studies of humans raised by animals from a young age, they never developed human social skills and by the time they're found their neuroplasticity is too low to do so. They lack the understanding of verbal and non-verbal rules and how they change depending on the change of the relationship etc.



Personally, the resources that have helped me the most on gaining or improving my social skills has firstly been this website: https://www.succeedsocially.com/
His book is very good too.

Tho you'll most likely want one that takes a different approach if you're autistic, then read this book: Improve Your Social Skills (Daniel Wendler)

Furthermore, I have qualms about looksmaxxing if it works. Which it obviously does.
However, NT-maxxing does not work. Relationships are based on self-interest and if you provide nothing of value to others, they will not want to be with you. If you dont have looks, then what are you providing? Entertainment? There you go, now you are jestermaxxing, which is universally understood to be pathetic.

Why is it better that a platonic male friendship is based on looks rather than your personality?

 

[Aladin]

While I somewhat agree with you your questions are rather easily answered.


a set of learned abilities that enable an individual to interact competently and appropriately in a given social context.

As an example of someone with no (human) social skills you can look at some of the rare case studies of humans raised by animals from a young age, they never developed human social skills and by the time they're found their neuroplasticity is too low to do so. They lack the understanding of verbal and non-verbal rules and how they change depending on the change of the relationship etc.



Personally, the resources that have helped me the most on gaining or improving my social skills has firstly been this website: https://www.succeedsocially.com/
His book is very good too.

Tho you'll most likely want one that takes a different approach if you're autistic, then read this book: Improve Your Social Skills (Daniel Wendler)


Why is it better that a platonic male friendship is based on looks rather than your personality?

Your Mowgli/Junglebook example is lacuster at best. These children experienced complete deprivation and lack of stimulation, which literally shrinks your brain. Idk how this proves the validity of social skills lmfao, its akin to comparing someone born without legs to a long distance runner.

If its all about social skills, why does cold approaching not work? Why are there studies that show that people judge autistic people negatively from 1 second audio clips, or one frame of a video, but have no negative intent when just reading a transcript of what the person said? Can they magically ascertain the lack of social skills in the autistic person based on very limited data?

Here, across three studies, we find that first impressions of individuals with ASD made from thin slices of real-world social behavior by typically-developing observers are not only far less favorable across a range of trait judgments compared to controls, but also are associated with reduced intentions to pursue social interaction. These patterns are remarkably robust, occur within seconds, do not change with increased exposure, and persist across both child and adult age groups. However, these biases disappear when impressions are based on conversational content lacking audio-visual cues, suggesting that style, not substance, drives negative impressions of ASD. Collectively, these findings advocate for a broader perspective of social difficulties in ASD that considers both the individual’s impairments and the biases of potential social partners.

Neurotypical Peers are Less Willing to Interact with Those with Autism based on Thin Slice Judgments - Scientific Reports

Individuals with autism spectrum disorder (ASD), including those who otherwise require less support, face severe difficulties in everyday social interactions. Research in this area has primarily focused on identifying the cognitive and neurological differences that contribute to these social...

www.nature.com

How do you explain things like this:

A survey of Fortune 500 CEO height revealed that they were on average 6 ft 0 in (1.83 m) tall, which is approximately 2.5 inches (6.4 cm) taller than the average American man.
About 30 per cent were 6 ft 2 in (1.88 m) tall or more; in comparison only 3.9 per cent of the overall United States population is of this height. Similar surveys have uncovered that less than 3 per cent of CEOs were below 5 ft 7 in (1.70 m) in height. Ninety percent of CEOs are of above average height.

Why many CEOs are tall people? The height of the matter, By Bisi Daniels

“The CEOs of Fortune 500 companies were three inches taller than the average male.”

www.premiumtimesng.com

From my personal life, there are many anecdotes of people getting away with behaviors that do not fit any criteria of "good social skills" and in fact would be classified as maybe psychotic even. For instance, while I got reprimanded by my teacher for reading books during recess that were "not appropriate for my age," another student, one year later, took his own feces, smeared them over the door knobs and on the walls in a hallway outside the toilet, and was subsequently heralded a legend among his peers.
He would make teachers cry. He stole liquor from stores and burned down a vehicle. He had also spent time in juvenile detention. Yet people worshiped the ground he walked on. He had success with girls. I remember vividly how I left the classroom one day during recess and he was standing there with a girl, she was on her toes, and they kissed.

Now, you may discount this as a singular example but it is simply undeniable, from countless anecdotes that you can procure from any person you want and the scientific literature, that looks rain supreme in the social context.

Another example:

Facial attractiveness as a moderator of the association between social and physical aggression and popularity in adolescents

This study examined the relations between facial attractiveness, aggression, and popularity in adolescence to determine whether facial attractiveness …

www.sciencedirect.com

Aggression was associated with a reduction in popularity for adolescents low on facial attractiveness. However, popularity did not decrease as a function of aggression for adolescents high on facial attractiveness.

Nothing you can learn will change that. The framework within which your behavior matters is strictly prohibited by your looks. If learning so called social skills works for a person, it most likely is to be inferred that they were simply behaving under their looks-appropriate level beforehand, aka underestimating themselves. However, as most children and teenagers test their social boundaries, it stands to reason that the social status they accrue by the time they reach maturity is indeed the perfect equilibrium of what they can get away with behavior wise in accordance to their looks level. Thus, if they end up being a rotting perma-failure, this is also a demonstration of good social judgement, since they reacted correctly to constant social rebuttal. Thus, the person that decides to not interact, though it is pleasurable for all people to interact, does so out of sheer need for survival. People pick the road of the least resistance. And if isolating yourself lowers the pain level to the most acceptable degree, that is where they inevitably end up.


Regarding the last part, you are twisting my words on purpose, typical strawman.
I never said looks are better. In fact, it is fucking pathetic that looks is what social interaction and "friendships" breaks down to.
When you have looks, you dont need to do anything. The medium IS the message. Its now what is said, but WHO says it. This is easily observed.

On what will your platonic friendship be based on if I may ask? Will you jump in a longboat and raid English Villages together?
What you are referring to does not exist. For example, The "teasing" between males that is being propagated as being normal is just a form of mogging and constantly sizing each other up. It comes down to self-interest. If you do not present a source of validation for the others self-interest, no interaction will take place, simple as that. People don't live in hunter gatherer style wolf packs anymore where you wander around and survival becomes a shared purpose. Your friends have no reason to hang out with you outside of experiencing pleasure. If you have spent any time listening to men in public, most of it is retarded bragging and tall tales.

Therefore, platonic friendship does not exist. Test your friends. Pretend to do something truly horrific. How many would be loyal to you? Most would ditch you in a heart beat. Their affection for you is conditional. And how can anything conditional and temporary be worth engaging in? The fact that it is temporary and conditional makes it worthless.

So why do it? For your own pleasure? So its no platonic then, its about you, alright. That's exactly what I said, you are a dirty little opportunistic little shit who feigns certain behaviors to illicit favors from other men. Pretty Gay if you ask me. And exactly what I said earlier, its all about self interest, for you, and your friends. The fucking Sun has more actual love and investment in your fellow humans than you have, at least it shines on you and every other piece of shit out there indiscriminately, every day, for eternity, no matter what they do. Can you claim the same?


TLDR:
you're a bluepilled liar and I hope you die in a fire

 

[Deleted member 17997]

Your Mowgli/Junglebook example is lacuster at best. These children experienced complete deprivation and lack of stimulation, which literally shrinks your brain. Idk how this proves the validity of social skills lmfao, its akin to comparing someone born without legs to a long distance runner.

If its all about social skills, why does cold approaching not work? Why are there studies that show that people judge autistic people negatively from 1 second audio clips, or one frame of a video, but have no negative intent when just reading a transcript of what the person said? Can they magically ascertain the lack of social skills in the autistic person based on very limited data?

Neurotypical Peers are Less Willing to Interact with Those with Autism based on Thin Slice Judgments - Scientific Reports

Individuals with autism spectrum disorder (ASD), including those who otherwise require less support, face severe difficulties in everyday social interactions. Research in this area has primarily focused on identifying the cognitive and neurological differences that contribute to these social...

www.nature.com

How do you explain things like this:

Why many CEOs are tall people? The height of the matter, By Bisi Daniels

“The CEOs of Fortune 500 companies were three inches taller than the average male.”

www.premiumtimesng.com

From my personal life, there are many anecdotes of people getting away with behaviors that do not fit any criteria of "good social skills" and in fact would be classified as maybe psychotic even. For instance, while I got reprimanded by my teacher for reading books during recess that were "not appropriate for my age," another student, one year later, took his own feces, smeared them over the door knobs and on the walls in a hallway outside the toilet, and was subsequently heralded a legend among his peers.
He would make teachers cry. He stole liquor from stores and burned down a vehicle. He had also spent time in juvenile detention. Yet people worshiped the ground he walked on. He had success with girls. I remember vividly how I left the classroom one day during recess and he was standing there with a girl, she was on her toes, and they kissed.

Now, you may discount this as a singular example but it is simply undeniable, from countless anecdotes that you can procure from any person you want and the scientific literature, that looks rain supreme in the social context.

Another example:

Facial attractiveness as a moderator of the association between social and physical aggression and popularity in adolescents

This study examined the relations between facial attractiveness, aggression, and popularity in adolescence to determine whether facial attractiveness …

www.sciencedirect.com

Nothing you can learn will change that. The framework within which your behavior matters is strictly prohibited by your looks. If learning so called social skills works for a person, it most likely is to be inferred that they were simply behaving under their looks-appropriate level beforehand, aka underestimating themselves. However, as most children and teenagers test their social boundaries, it stands to reason that the social status they accrue by the time they reach maturity is indeed the perfect equilibrium of what they can get away with behavior wise in accordance to their looks level. Thus, if they end up being a rotting perma-failure, this is also a demonstration of good social judgement, since they reacted correctly to constant social rebuttal. Thus, the person that decides to not interact, though it is pleasurable for all people to interact, does so out of sheer need for survival. People pick the road of the least resistance. And if isolating yourself lowers the pain level to the most acceptable degree, that is where they inevitably end up.


Regarding the last part, you are twisting my words on purpose, typical strawman.
I never said looks are better. In fact, it is fucking pathetic that looks is what social interaction and "friendships" breaks down to.
When you have looks, you dont need to do anything. The medium IS the message. Its now what is said, but WHO says it. This is easily observed.

On what will your platonic friendship be based on if I may ask? Will you jump in a longboat and raid English Villages together?
What you are referring to does not exist. For example, The "teasing" between males that is being propagated as being normal is just a form of mogging and constantly sizing each other up. It comes down to self-interest. If you do not present a source of validation for the others self-interest, no interaction will take place, simple as that. People don't live in hunter gatherer style wolf packs anymore where you wander around and survival becomes a shared purpose. Your friends have no reason to hang out with you outside of experiencing pleasure. If you have spent any time listening to men in public, most of it is retarded bragging and tall tales.

Therefore, platonic friendship does not exist. Test your friends. Pretend to do something truly horrific. How many would be loyal to you? Most would ditch you in a heart beat. Their affection for you is conditional. And how can anything conditional and temporary be worth engaging in? The fact that it is temporary and conditional makes it worthless.

So why do it? For your own pleasure? So its no platonic then, its about you, alright. That's exactly what I said, you are a dirty little opportunistic little shit who feigns certain behaviors to illicit favors from other men. Pretty Gay if you ask me. And exactly what I said earlier, its all about self interest, for you, and your friends. The fucking Sun has more actual love and investment in your fellow humans than you have, at least it shines on you and every other piece of shit out there indiscriminately, every day, for eternity, no matter what they do. Can you claim the same?


TLDR:
you're a bluepilled liar and I hope you die in a fire
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My thoughts exactly tbh you should make a thread on this

 

[to be human]

How about if you're autistic?

Bro I'm curious have you really been diagnosed with autism or are you just assuming for whatever reason

 

[Zer0/∞]

Bro I'm curious have you really been diagnosed with autism or are you just assuming for whatever reason

I can't afford a psychologist to evaluate me and get NEETbux.