Why is it so hard to make friends?

[thebuffdon690]

Title. Imo probably a combination of looks, NTness and mental situation mostly. I feel like im mostly unmotivated to make friends due to a combination of those 3 reasons

 

[BrahminBoss]

wheres there even enivronment to make. Atleast UK has youth clubs, in india theres none . Raves in goa are the only way to meet other based youth (those people into metal and drugs which can be good way to bond)

 

[thebuffdon690]

wheres there even enivronment to make. Atleast UK has youth clubs, in india theres none . Raves in goa are the only way to meet other based youth (those people into metal and drugs which can be good way to bond)

What’s a youth club

 

[BrahminBoss]

What’s a youth club

youth zones in UK. A user said thats where he meets other young ppl

 

[thebuffdon690]

youth zones in UK. A user said thats where he meets other young ppl

You mean a university campus? I’ve never heard of a youth zone lol

 

[BrahminBoss]

Best places irl to meet new people

Title, I was in a boarding school for 2 years all my friends are in the army right now, not many people to hang out with, any suggestions of where to meet people? Young adults 18-21

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You mean a university campus? I’ve never heard of a youth zone lol

 

[thebuffdon690]

Best places irl to meet new people

Title, I was in a boarding school for 2 years all my friends are in the army right now, not many people to hang out with, any suggestions of where to meet people? Young adults 18-21

looksmax.org

Nah but what I meant is like not meeting people in different places but actually being motivated to do that, like due to mental health and negative reinforcement growing up etc, being non NT

 

[BrahminBoss]

Nah but what I meant is like not meeting people in different places but actually being motivated to do that, like due to mental health and negative reinforcement growing up etc, being non NT

yep impossible without drugs. but there are safer drugs like low dose lsd, white kratom, tianeptine etc than can want u to socialise.

 

[thebuffdon690]

yep impossible without drugs. but there are safer drugs like low dose lsd, white kratom, tianeptine etc than can want u to socialise.

Yeh will probably try at some point. Are psychedelics safe?

 

[BrahminBoss]

Yeh will probably try at some point. Are psychedelics safe?

Low dose lsd is definitely .

 

[The Grinch]

Just start working, you automatically become friends with the people you share the same misery with

 

[thebuffdon690]

Just start working, you automatically become friends with the people you share the same misery

I guess working can be fun for Chad tho

 

[The Grinch]

I guess working can be fun for Chad tho

It’s not, but it’s very hard not to become friends with co workers, especially if you are in the same room together for multiple hours a day

 

[RAITEIII]

I used to be hella likeable. Idk what's happening nowdays. Or wait, perhaps I do...

 

[<6PSLcel]

Title. Imo probably a combination of looks, NTness and mental situation mostly. I feel like im mostly unmotivated to make friends due to a combination of those 3 reasons

I just hate having to put on an act in front of normies, that’s what holding me back, I would like genuine friends which I can say whatever the fuck and they won’t be like “uhm bro that’s kinda weird bro”

 

[thebuffdon690]

It’s not, but it’s very hard not to become friends with co workers, especially if you are in the same room together for multiple hours a day

Well I mean it can cuz he can interact with girls if they are there, which they would be. Also will probably be more popular amongst com workers

 

[thebuffdon690]

I used to be hella likeable. Idk what's happening nowdays. Or wait, perhaps I do...

Same tbh. Idk either

 

[thebuffdon690]

I just hate having to put on an act in front of normies, that’s what holding me back, I would like genuine friends which I can say whatever the fuck and they won’t be like “uhm bro that’s kinda weird bro”

Don’t be friends with normies be friends with other autistic people or GL people who know what it’s like to not be GL

 

[<6PSLcel]

Don’t be friends with normies be friends with other autistic people or GL people who know what it’s like to not be GL

I have yet to meet another high functioning autists irl that wasn’t a complete fucking
Loser

 

[The Grinch]

Well I mean it can cuz he can interact with girls if they are there, which they would be. Also will probably be more popular amongst com workers

Yeah Chad impregnates all his female co workers and enslaves the men. You’re right, have a nice day.

 

[Almost Chadlite]

even if u gain the drive, others don't want to socialize anymore
they are all about instagram

 

[thebuffdon690]

I have yet to meet another high functioning autists irl that wasn’t a complete fucking
Loser

Lmao yeh it sounds counterintuitive but I feel like that’s what we are

 

[<6PSLcel]

Lmao yeh it sounds counterintuitive but I feel like that’s what we are

Ik, I’m diagnosed with ASD1 my nigga