WOMEN keep FLAKING on IG - Why the fuck are they like this?

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I have a few girls that constantly give me clear IOIs in the gym, or whenever I see them out at parties or random stuff around my city.

I have even been smiled by them and talked to by a few just briefly. :aheago:

So I decided to pick two of them and sent them a friend request of Instagram since they are private. Keep in mind my IG is perfectly normal, we have a lot of mutuals, I post a good variety of pics, my profile pic is a really good pic of me (similar to the one in my AVI, but obv a bit worse :lul:) and I don’t post too much to the point it looks narcy.

Anyways, this was like 4 days ago and they won’t accept my shit. I’ve even seen one of them yesterday and she switched up lol, whereas before she made her intentions clear. This happened with another girl a few months ago and I never got accepted. :feelswhy::feelswhy:

Why tf would this make any sense? She might have a bf now or something and doesn’t want me to appear in her followers since my profile pic is too visible. But since it happened with the other one too idk what’s going on.

They are followed by many of my way uglier friends and they don’t think twice about that. Makes no sense honestly, I get way more attention than my friends IRL but whenever I try to follow them on social media they treat me like shit compared to them.

Might have to delete my profile and just run with in person stuff forever.


Tagging experienced users, maybe one can give feedback: @Amnesia @Prettyboy @chadisbeingmade @6ft4 @PsychoDsk
 
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Nah I need help fr hahaha

I don’t know what’s going on. Women are another fucking world we don’t understand
 
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Nah I need help fr hahaha

I don’t know what’s going on. Women are another fucking world we don’t understand
They liked you because you were mysterious. When you asked to follow them on ig,you lost your mysterious aura to them. They expected you to just one day start a conversation after asking how many sets do they have left
 
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@Evgeniy291 @spectrumaesthetics2
 
LTB/MTB/HTB ? And how much do you know eachothers ?
 
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They liked you because you were mysterious. When you asked to follow them on ig,you lost your mysterious aura to them.

Ok this might be a good response.

They expected you to just one day start a conversation after asking how many sets do they have left

I have never had to use that line. One of them asked me what people typically use for tricep extensions when she’s been doing upper body for 1 year lmao. I’ve seen her all this time 😂. I told her and she gave me some ‘fuck me’ eyes. I sound delusional writing this though
 
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Ok this might be a good response.



I have never had to use that line. One of them asked me what people typically use for tricep extensions when she’s been doing upper body for 1 year lmao. I’ve seen her all this time 😂. I told her and she gave me some ‘fuck me’ eyes. I sound delusional writing this though
If they approach you with those kind of questions you got a won case. But never follow them,because they will think your a creep for finding their ig without asking them
 
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Screenshot your IG Profile or pm it if you prefer
 
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LTB/MTB/HTB ? And how much do you know eachothers ?
These two I’m talking about are attractive girls. Most of the dudes in the city know about them. I’d say they are HTB.

I never get attention from LTB/MTB. They act like I don’t exist. I’m a HTN prettyboy (similar vibes to my avi but worse looking, that’s why I chose him)

And actual Stacies don’t exist where I live, I feel like they only exist on IG lol.
 
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But never follow them,because they will think your a creep for finding their ig without asking them
I thought about this, but then again, we have a lot of mutuals. They can all tell me about them.

When I go to the gym with my friends these girls know some of my friends. It’s not like I am some random stalker.

They probably did want the IRL approach instead of the IG request, but still, no reason to fucking not accept it I think.
 
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I have a few girls that constantly give me clear IOIs in the gym, or whenever I see them out at parties or random stuff around my city.

I have even been smiled by them and talked to by a few just briefly. :aheago:

So I decided to pick two of them and sent them a friend request of Instagram since they are private. Keep in mind my IG is perfectly normal, we have a lot of mutuals, I post a good variety of pics, my profile pic is a really good pic of me (similar to the one in my AVI, but obv a bit worse :lul:) and I don’t post too much to the point it looks narcy.

Anyways, this was like 4 days ago and they won’t accept my shit. I’ve even seen one of them yesterday and she switched up lol, whereas before she made her intentions clear. This happened with another girl a few months ago and I never got accepted. :feelswhy::feelswhy:

Why tf would this make any sense? She might have a bf now or something and doesn’t want me to appear in her followers since my profile pic is too visible. But since it happened with the other one too idk what’s going on.

They are followed by many of my way uglier friends and they don’t think twice about that. Makes no sense honestly, I get way more attention than my friends IRL but whenever I try to follow them on social media they treat me like shit compared to them.

Might have to delete my profile and just run with in person stuff forever.


Tagging experienced users, maybe one can give feedback: @Amnesia @Prettyboy @chadisbeingmade @6ft4 @PsychoDsk
“If he’s this attractive and doesn’t have a girlfriend he must be autistic or weird”
 
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These two I’m talking about are attractive girls. Most of the dudes in the city know about them. I’d say they are HTB.
Their SMV must be insanely high so maybe now they got in the phase where they get careful on who they add on their IG for peace (that doesn't mean they find you unattractive) .
And I think they accepted your friends in IG because they know it's just for some friendship with them nothing romantic.

I would suggest you to approach them IRL and show your intentions.
 
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I thought about this, but then again, we have a lot of mutuals. They can all tell me about them.

When I go to the gym with my friends these girls know some of my friends. It’s not like I am some random stalker.

They probably did want the IRL approach instead of the IG request, but still, no reason to fucking not accept it I think.

Pm your IG profile and I will easily break down specifically whats going on it isnt rocket science
 
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I thought about this, but then again, we have a lot of mutuals. They can all tell me about them.

When I go to the gym with my friends these girls know some of my friends. It’s not like I am some random stalker.

They probably did want the IRL approach instead of the IG request, but still, no reason to fucking not accept it I think.

Womens feelings change every day. Most of them have burnt out dopamine receptors from constant stimuli and validation.

If they really like you, they'll accept the request and carry on. You don't want a relationship with a girl who doesn't even know what she wants one day and the next.

If you just wanted to fuck, you just have to put up with these silly games, because they've got 100s of other guys who want to fuck too. So they have no reason to treat you as special.
 
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They are followed by many of my way uglier friends and they don’t think twice about that.
Wowwwwwww… Dude I thought you told me I was handsome when I wanted to approach that obese low tier becky from the club that was grinding on me and reeked of cheap lattafa perfume spray
 
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I have a few girls that constantly give me clear IOIs in the gym, or whenever I see them out at parties or random stuff around my city.

I have even been smiled by them and talked to by a few just briefly. :aheago:

So I decided to pick two of them and sent them a friend request of Instagram since they are private. Keep in mind my IG is perfectly normal, we have a lot of mutuals, I post a good variety of pics, my profile pic is a really good pic of me (similar to the one in my AVI, but obv a bit worse :lul:) and I don’t post too much to the point it looks narcy.

Anyways, this was like 4 days ago and they won’t accept my shit. I’ve even seen one of them yesterday and she switched up lol, whereas before she made her intentions clear. This happened with another girl a few months ago and I never got accepted. :feelswhy::feelswhy:

Why tf would this make any sense? She might have a bf now or something and doesn’t want me to appear in her followers since my profile pic is too visible. But since it happened with the other one too idk what’s going on.

They are followed by many of my way uglier friends and they don’t think twice about that. Makes no sense honestly, I get way more attention than my friends IRL but whenever I try to follow them on social media they treat me like shit compared to them.

Might have to delete my profile and just run with in person stuff forever.


Tagging experienced users, maybe one can give feedback: @Amnesia @Prettyboy @chadisbeingmade @6ft4 @PsychoDsk
See the amnesia thread “there is no consistency with women” , he made this thread (audio message) FOR ME when I was asking about some similar stuff. He’s chad, would have super high interest girls give their number and then never respond haha. So:

The only mistake is trying to backwards-analyze rationally what happened when you are specifically dealing with non-rational creatures
Women compared to men, it’s closer to man to child than man to man. They are driven by unspecified emotional sense-impressions. These are not rational calculations.
You have to never think twice about this stuff or it drives you nuts. Ie, whether a bird lands on spot A or spot B isn’t something we can be concerned with or seek an explanation for; it’s just base instinct driven behavior

Thoughts?

-thinking rational explanations can be achieved in this case is taking way too high a view of the female mind


 
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See the amnesia thread “there is no consistency with women” , he made this thread (audio message) FOR ME when I was asking about some similar stuff. He’s chad, would have super high interest girls give their number and then never respond haha. So:

The only mistake is trying to backwards-analyze rationally what happened when you are specifically dealing with non-rational creatures
Women compared to men, it’s closer to man to child than man to man. They are driven by unspecified emotional sense-impressions. These are not rational calculations.
You have to never think twice about this stuff or it drives you nuts. Ie, whether a bird lands on spot A or spot B isn’t something we can be concerned with or seek an explanation for; it’s just base instinct driven behavior

Thoughts?

Amnesia's Dating Threads are golden like I always eagerly look forward to them.Honestly a shame he stopped posting
although dont really blame him considering most of the comments he gets are childish drivel like "why dont you go
start a family aMneSIA" or other unrelated ad hominems
 
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Amnesia's Dating Threads are golden like I always eagerly look forward to them.Honestly a shame he stopped posting
although dont really blame him considering most of the comments he gets are childish drivel like "why dont you go
start a family aMneSIA" or other unrelated ad hominems
The natalist stuff is the most irritating. It comes down to how optimistic people want to have kids without thinking twice (selfish decision, they have kids for their own sake, ofc you can’t do something to benefit someone who does NOT yet exist). But people who have a more lucid view of the scam of life are too ethical to force another human thru it, let alone without great genetics
 
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And I think they accepted your friends in IG because they know it's just for some friendship with them nothing romantic.
Yeah idk, this could be somewhat true but they do still follow some of the good looking dudes in my city. Could have been a long time ago but still
I would suggest you to approach them IRL and show your intentions.
I don’t have any intentions right now, just wanted to keep them on the side so I knew what they were up to. And also so they could see more of me instead of just randomly seeing me somewhere once every 1/2 months.

To keep them close kinda thing
 
“If he’s this attractive and doesn’t have a girlfriend he must be autistic or weird”
I am autistic, but only on the forum I think hahaha

I always am talking to other dudes or girls so they can’t think I’m weird man 😔

Maybe after I add 10kg of muscle they start acting different, we’ll see bro.
 
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Wowwwwwww… Dude I thought you told me I was handsome when I wanted to approach that obese low tier becky from the club that was grinding on me and reeked of cheap lattafa perfume spray
Keem them coming thuggy, this was funny.

Al haramain or death though, fucking obese bitch
 
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good thread

i recently matched with a girl on hinge, her first message was calling me a prettyboy. She mentioned she was ready to meet too

Set up a location and everything. Asked her when she's free. Ghosted

:lul::lul:

Fuck foids man, they are literally the most illogical incomprehensible creatures

See the amnesia thread “there is no consistency with women” , he made this thread (audio message) FOR ME when I was asking about some similar stuff. He’s chad, would have super high interest girls give their number and then never respond haha. So:

The only mistake is trying to backwards-analyze rationally what happened when you are specifically dealing with non-rational creatures
Women compared to men, it’s closer to man to child than man to man. They are driven by unspecified emotional sense-impressions. These are not rational calculations.
You have to never think twice about this stuff or it drives you nuts. Ie, whether a bird lands on spot A or spot B isn’t something we can be concerned with or seek an explanation for; it’s just base instinct driven behavior

Thoughts?

-thinking rational explanations can be achieved in this case is taking way too high a view of the female mind


Amnesia's Dating Threads are golden

Do you guys have any other threads like this? Glad to know Im not the only one who deals with this bs.
 
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See the amnesia thread “there is no consistency with women” , he made this thread

Yeah I actually tagged him too in the thread because I read some of the stories regarding this topic. I would love to know if he got anywhere with his IG since he had trouble with it for some time @Amnesia

I’m below him in looks, but the difference in treatment from one day to another is just too much to make any sense and I feel like it’s greater when you are in a certain percentile of looks. Women are solely driven by emotions, they take unpredictable decisions all the time. Right place right time is definitely real, I’ve seen some crazy shit over the years.
 
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good thread

i recently matched with a girl on hinge, her first message was calling me a prettyboy. She mentioned she was ready to meet too

Set up a location and everything. Asked her when she's free. Ghosted

:lul::lul:

Fuck foids man, they are literally the most illogical incomprehensible creatures




Do you guys have any other threads like this? Glad to know Im not the only one who deals with this bs.

I hope this is lifefuel for you guys


https://looksmax.org/threads/chads-facing-rejection-and-flaking.738014/

https://looksmax.org/threads/if-you-think-you-are-not-goodlooking-enough-gtfih.501356/

https://looksmax.org/threads/about-women-sexual-availability.486446/

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@Yliaster in case you find value in this also
 
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What the gospels are to the Bible, Amneisas old posts and comments are to this forum
 
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Damn.

This is fucking facts, I have thought about this for a long long time, and even seen it first hand.
It’s kinda just brutal man, works well if you aren’t wired for LTR since helps you stay detached, but I can’t imagine the dissonance of knowing what I know and trying to be blue pilled in a relationship
 
So I decided to pick two of them and sent them a friend request of Instagram since they are private
Have you taken into consideration that they might not even bother to check inside your profile, right? They probably take a quick glance at the pfp and decide whether to accept. If your cl face isn't in it, chances are they don't give a damn because they can't know it's the cl from the gym, party, or whatnot.
 
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Have you taken into consideration that they might not even bother to check inside your profile, right? They probably take a quick glance at the pfp and decide whether to accept. If your cl face isn't in it, chances are they don't give a damn because they can't know it's the cl from the gym, party, or whatnot.
My IG is private so yeah the profile doesn’t even matter in this case, but they can see I have a good following and lots of mutuals.

My profile pic shows very clearly that it’s me, so that’s not a problem. And I’m very easily recognizable, I’m very unique.

So if they gave me that treatment IRL I would hope a different outcome with this, but it’s not the case for some reason we will never understand.
 
My IG is private
That's supposed to be a plus because it adds to the mysterious aura.
My profile pic shows very clearly that it’s me, so that’s not a problem. And I’m very easily recognizable, I’m very unique.
It's legitimately very weird. You should try asking for the foid's IG in person, because from your op I assume you looked up the names of those 2 to send a request.
 
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waterrrrrrrrrr , we all know women have millions of options online , u didnt get a text bc there was someone else , u just cant compete with them , its irl approach or nothing . Playing a game u cant win online without major status to ur name or a blue check . Just mogging ur competiton w looks isnt enough
 
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It's legitimately very weird. You should try asking for the foid's IG in person, because from your op I assume you looked up the names of those 2 to send a request.
Yeah I’ll test this out with another girl soon. It’s summer so hopefully I’ll run into them soon.

I could have have gotten them recommended by IG in people you might know. I didn’t, but it could have happened :lul: it’s not that stalker-ish to send them that request, anyone could have told me about them and it just made me curious.

But as I said I’ll ask another girl in person soon, will report back as always 😛
 
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Playing a game u cant win online without major status to ur name or a blue check
It depends on the target's status level. Trivially, the number of followers she has.
 
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Pm your IG profile and I will easily break down specifically whats going on it isnt rocket science
sometimes it is rocket science lol , u can never know why . But i bet op mogs hard and those girls are dealing w dudes that look worse than him , guaranteed.
 
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sometimes it is rocket science lol , u can never know why . But i bet op mogs hard and those girls are dealing w dudes that look worse than him , guaranteed.
I did PM my profile.

He told me he doesn’t know wtf is going on. Hahahaha I don’t either 🤣

its irl approach or nothing
I fell for the IG pill, wanted to get more status on there but it’s not doing anything in my favor. I’ll just look like a narcy fuck if I post myself too much.

I guess IRL is everything and escalating should be done there too.
 
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It depends on the target's status level. Trivially, the number of followers she has.
Similar level to me.

Some have a bit more, some a bit less. Seen the same results.
 
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sometimes it is rocket science lol , u can never know why . But i bet op mogs hard and those girls are dealing w dudes that look worse than him , guaranteed.

Yeah he actually is attractive like typical med pretty boy I would say and his IG isn't bad either has a lot of Lifemaxxing
pics of himself traveling etc.

@powerliftercoco you can pm @edodalic29 for further perspective on the situation if you like,hes a trusted user
 
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Yeah he actually is attractive like typical med pretty boy I would say and his IG isn't bad either has a lot of Lifemaxxing
pics of himself traveling etc.

@powerliftercoco you can pm @edodalic29 for further perspective on the situation if you like,hes a trusted user
I lurked upon a forum where women spill their tea about men and i see a common tactic they make the man believe they are looking at him or giving him choosing signals then disregarding him if he does make that approach , sometimes they just want attention from chads or the chance to reject him for their own ego boost , not necessarily to sleep with him .. idk just my two cents its a confusing situation as it is for many others , again this is just a theory from what i seen or read online .
 
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I lurked upon a forum where women spill their tea about men and i see a common tactic they make the man believe they are looking at him or giving him choosing signals then disregarding him if he does make that approach , sometimes they just want attention from chads or the chance to reject him for their own ego boost , not necessarily to sleep with him .. idk just my two cents its a confusing situation as it is for many others , again this is just a theory from what i seen or read online .
Damn wtf

They be playing with us :feelswhy::feelswhy:
 
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