MakinItHappenReturn
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I don't care about how much terrifying cognitive dissonance this gives you
I don't care about how much this PAINS your feelings
BE TRIGGERED - ALL I CARE ABOUT IS REAL LIFE
THIS IS REAL LIFE RIGHT HERE
AMNESIA IN CONVERSATION WITH A GIRL ON INSTA
The NOTION that personality, social circle and being NT are only 'values' that women look for in boyfriends is false and has been proven so time and time again.
Here we have a top range Becky or makeup halo'ed Stacey lite that is rejecting Amnesia on the basis he lacks all three.
Here's the current state of the hookup market:
There are tons of good looking guys out there. There may not be tons of Amnesia's, but there are tons of good looking and chances are there are equally a fair amount of Chads, who let's remember, these chicks have slept with or even been in relationships with. So they are not mesmerised by a good looking 8+/10 any-longer. Pass that looks-threshold which for some may be 6/10 HTN (5'9 minimum height) and some may be Chadlite 7/10 (5'9 minimum height) and demonstrate how sort-after you are. How much the world values you etc. Getting a guy that IS VALUED by the world for a woman makes them feel like THEY are valued by the world. They are aroused when they see you as being valued. (With looks threshold met)
Truth is they see Amnesia types every day. Whether it's on social media in their DMs or real life. So they damn well can filter him. They know full-well another Chad at some point sooner or later will crop up on their radar wanting to smash again. So there is no-longer anything special about just looking special. Esp in this social media age. You gotta back it up with being a winner. Women are social creatures and the one thing that they don't want is 'feeling' like they are social outcasts.
And I'm sure there'll be many who say Amnesia looks good but he is 5'9 and lacks sex-appeal, so women will want him to demonstrate pretty boy personality traits and I accept that this might have some substance to it, however even if Amnesia was to take NT pics and have more social media status with likes etc and come across NT.... he could still even be rejected on the date(s) for not being a trendy NT guy.
The truth is for Amnesia to easily score with these women and successfully play the 'mysterious boy' card he has to dip down to girls that aren't anywhere in his looks-level. I'm talking middle range to low range Beckys. These chicks tend to be the ones most insecure about their own looks, so are completely flustered when in the presence of Chad and very forgiving of missing NTness as all they can focus on is being liked by Chad.
I'm sure Amnesia has smashed a fair amount of Stacey lites that are blonde and just down for his kind of look and he isn't a dumbass guy. He can hold a conversation, but the point is more big picture and that big picture is EVEN IF you look like Chad, are you a weirdo by default of your lack of NTness? I can honestly say from the way people post on here at least 70% are not NT and I would say less than 20% of the 70% are not normies facially.
If you re sub 6 then yes, absolutely, it's Looks, Looks & Looks
If you are 6+ though it's a lot more Looks, Money and Status however.
A lot of girls would rather hang-out, chill and cuddle-fuck with high tier normie that's super NT, fun, masculine and has a social identity she recognises and values than a Chad that's a sheer outcast and loner. All that matters is how they feel. Not saying there aren't bitches that are down to fuck an aspie Chad from the off, because there are, but they are very rarely in the Stacey leagues.
I know this will trigger many incels and fuck up their black and white belief systems. I know it will hurt their coping strategy today and going forward, but you need to face the facts. If you don't have friends, it doesn't matter what you look like. Sure you can still do it, by having the sigma-male charisma and being somebody that's got a career going for him etc... but I don't see many people on here who are like this. I saw a couple on Lookism and one who was HTN, tall, confident engineer and very high IQ... who slayed on tinder
Just a thing to note. While you are working on your looks, don't forget to work on other things.
I don't care about how much this PAINS your feelings
BE TRIGGERED - ALL I CARE ABOUT IS REAL LIFE
THIS IS REAL LIFE RIGHT HERE
AMNESIA IN CONVERSATION WITH A GIRL ON INSTA
The NOTION that personality, social circle and being NT are only 'values' that women look for in boyfriends is false and has been proven so time and time again.
Here we have a top range Becky or makeup halo'ed Stacey lite that is rejecting Amnesia on the basis he lacks all three.
Here's the current state of the hookup market:
There are tons of good looking guys out there. There may not be tons of Amnesia's, but there are tons of good looking and chances are there are equally a fair amount of Chads, who let's remember, these chicks have slept with or even been in relationships with. So they are not mesmerised by a good looking 8+/10 any-longer. Pass that looks-threshold which for some may be 6/10 HTN (5'9 minimum height) and some may be Chadlite 7/10 (5'9 minimum height) and demonstrate how sort-after you are. How much the world values you etc. Getting a guy that IS VALUED by the world for a woman makes them feel like THEY are valued by the world. They are aroused when they see you as being valued. (With looks threshold met)
Truth is they see Amnesia types every day. Whether it's on social media in their DMs or real life. So they damn well can filter him. They know full-well another Chad at some point sooner or later will crop up on their radar wanting to smash again. So there is no-longer anything special about just looking special. Esp in this social media age. You gotta back it up with being a winner. Women are social creatures and the one thing that they don't want is 'feeling' like they are social outcasts.
And I'm sure there'll be many who say Amnesia looks good but he is 5'9 and lacks sex-appeal, so women will want him to demonstrate pretty boy personality traits and I accept that this might have some substance to it, however even if Amnesia was to take NT pics and have more social media status with likes etc and come across NT.... he could still even be rejected on the date(s) for not being a trendy NT guy.
The truth is for Amnesia to easily score with these women and successfully play the 'mysterious boy' card he has to dip down to girls that aren't anywhere in his looks-level. I'm talking middle range to low range Beckys. These chicks tend to be the ones most insecure about their own looks, so are completely flustered when in the presence of Chad and very forgiving of missing NTness as all they can focus on is being liked by Chad.
I'm sure Amnesia has smashed a fair amount of Stacey lites that are blonde and just down for his kind of look and he isn't a dumbass guy. He can hold a conversation, but the point is more big picture and that big picture is EVEN IF you look like Chad, are you a weirdo by default of your lack of NTness? I can honestly say from the way people post on here at least 70% are not NT and I would say less than 20% of the 70% are not normies facially.
If you re sub 6 then yes, absolutely, it's Looks, Looks & Looks
If you are 6+ though it's a lot more Looks, Money and Status however.
A lot of girls would rather hang-out, chill and cuddle-fuck with high tier normie that's super NT, fun, masculine and has a social identity she recognises and values than a Chad that's a sheer outcast and loner. All that matters is how they feel. Not saying there aren't bitches that are down to fuck an aspie Chad from the off, because there are, but they are very rarely in the Stacey leagues.
I know this will trigger many incels and fuck up their black and white belief systems. I know it will hurt their coping strategy today and going forward, but you need to face the facts. If you don't have friends, it doesn't matter what you look like. Sure you can still do it, by having the sigma-male charisma and being somebody that's got a career going for him etc... but I don't see many people on here who are like this. I saw a couple on Lookism and one who was HTN, tall, confident engineer and very high IQ... who slayed on tinder
Just a thing to note. While you are working on your looks, don't forget to work on other things.
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