Being socially awkward is what keeps you from slaying [HIGH EFFORT THREAD]

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"You don't have to be good looking to interact with people."

Huh? I'm 6'3, lean, good looking.. why do girls choose to date MTN 5'10 guys over me?
Oh! He's probably rich! Or his dick is 7 inches long!:feelsthink:

You can keep coping as much as you want, my little boyo,
but the truth is very simple..
He is socially active - you aren't.



And I'm talking from my own experience here. I haven't had any consistent social interactions with people until I started socialmaxxing and I am not even bad looking myself. And the one who pushed me to do it was my brother. He's 27, LMTN, kinda fat, but he is socialmaxxed and is getting laid constantly.

"What am I doing wrong? Why does that fatso gets bitches and I don't?!:feelswhy:" - thought my 18-year-old retarded self

And that's when he said those words that I will never forget: "Stop being a retard, nigga." And then it hit me. In order to have sex with people, you need to interact with them first.



WHY BEING SOCIALMAXXED IS LAW

People tend to be in groups. Even back in the day, when we hunted mammoths, people did so in groups. You are not going to survive in this world alone. You need to find yourself people you're interested in hanging out with.

At school/university your social score is everything. You need to have friends in order to build reputation, because if you don't have any, people won't hang out with you. Imagine youself sitting in the classroom, you have a group project, the teacher tells you to find a partner, and everyone jumps up and sprints to their friend. And you just stand there, like you just shit yourself. You look around, in the hope that that one guy you occasionally interact with would choose you, but no, he's already sitting with his friend that he would pick over you any day.

Shit like this is pure ropefuel and that happened to me numerous times:feelswah:. That's why it's important to start building reputation as soon as possible once you enter a new space.

"You don't have to be good looking to interact with people."



HOW TO STOP BEING INVISIBLE

Do you have friends at school? Yes? Good. Let them know that you're free this weekend. Tell them that you want to hang out. Invite them to go bowling, play billiards, whatever. Ask them if any of their friends also want to pull up, so you could expand your circle.
No? Approach people. Yes, if you randomly approach a group you probably will look autistic, but guess what? It's better to be autistic with bitches, than to be autistic without bitches:bigbrain:. You're not loosing anything at this point anyway. If you want to hang out with normies, you will have to act cringy sometimes in order to fit in, just don't make a fool of yourself.


Here are also few great threads that might help you:


This is basically an "ultimate" guide. If you're actually autistic and have zero understanding in how to be a part of sociaty - this is for you. Thread covers all basic topics you might struggle with.


Another good thread, simpler than the first one.



SOCIAL MEDIA

These days, it’s impossible to build a social circle without social media. You need to have an Instagram/Snapchat account in order to meet new people and maintain relationships.
Without a social media account, you won't be able to do online dating either. Girls need to see you online first before they'll agree to meet you in person. Without an account, they won't be able to make sure you're not some kind of creep who just wants to rape them.


This is my favorite guide on how to build a successful Instagram account. You can find other threads on this topic, but they are all very similar and say pretty much the same stuff.



OTHER STUFF

Other threads that might be helpful:






This is the stuff that had helped me overcome my autism and made me become part of society.
That’s pretty much it from me.
I might write my own, proper guide at some point,
but right now I'm just a stupid grey, so no one would read it anyway:feelsbadman:

and remember...

"You don't have to be good looking to interact with people."

Bad looks shoudn't keep you from building a good reputation.
Do that, and improve your looks along the way.


Good luck everyone!
 
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bump nigga I didn't write this for nothing:feelswah:
 
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Have a pity reply lil bro
 
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I just can’t tell if girls look at me because I’m ugly or gl
I was chilling in the library and this mulatto kept staring at me over and over, there’s a lot more instances of this happening
but you never know man
I miss stuff like that from years of negative reinforcement
 
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I just can’t tell if girls look at me because I’m ugly or gl
I was chilling in the library and this mulatto kept staring at me over and over, there’s a lot more instances of this happening
but you never know man
I miss stuff like that from years of negative reinforcement

It's 99% that they do that because they find you attractive, unless you have some kind of malformation. Girls don't want to look at ugly guys.
 
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DNR, but respect the effort
 
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Yeah NT is law
 
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Last bump for today:feelsautistic:
 
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morning bump:feelshah:
 
"You don't have to be good looking to interact with people."

Huh? I'm 6'3, lean, good looking.. why do girls choose to date MTN 5'10 guys over me?
Oh! He's probably rich! Or his dick is 7 inches long!:feelsthink:

You can keep coping as much as you want, my little boyo,
but the truth is very simple..
He is socially active - you aren't.



And I'm talking from my own experience here. I haven't had any consistent social interactions with people until I started socialmaxxing and I am not even bad looking myself. And the one who pushed me to do it was my brother. He's 27, LMTN, kinda fat, but he is socialmaxxed and is getting laid constantly.

"What am I doing wrong? Why does that fatso gets bitches and I don't?!:feelswhy:" - thought my 18-year-old retarded self

And that's when he said those words that I will never forget: "Stop being a retard, nigga." And then it hit me. In order to have sex with people, you need to interact with them first.



WHY BEING SOCIALMAXXED IS LAW

People tend to be in groups. Even back in the day, when we hunted mammoths, people did so in groups. You are not going to survive in this world alone. You need to find yourself people you're interested in hanging out with.

At school/university your social score is everything. You need to have friends in order to build reputation, because if you don't have any, people won't hang out with you. Imagine youself sitting in the classroom, you have a group project, the teacher tells you to find a partner, and everyone jumps up and sprints to their friend. And you just stand there, like you just shit yourself. You look around, in the hope that that one guy you occasionally interact with would choose you, but no, he's already sitting with his friend that he would pick over you any day.

Shit like this is pure ropefuel and that happened to me numerous times:feelswah:. That's why it's important to start building reputation as soon as possible once you enter a new space.

"You don't have to be good looking to interact with people."



HOW TO STOP BEING INVISIBLE

Do you have friends at school? Yes? Good. Let them know that you're free this weekend. Tell them that you want to hang out. Invite them to go bowling, play billiards, whatever. Ask them if any of their friends also want to pull up, so you could expand your circle.
No? Approach people. Yes, if you randomly approach a group you probably will look autistic, but guess what? It's better to be autistic with bitches, than to be autistic without bitches:bigbrain:. You're not loosing anything at this point anyway. If you want to hang out with normies, you will have to act cringy sometimes in order to fit in, just don't make a fool of yourself.


Here are also few great threads that might help you:


This is basically an "ultimate" guide. If you're actually autistic and have zero understanding in how to be a part of sociaty - this is for you. Thread covers all basic topics you might struggle with.


Another good thread, simpler than the first one.



SOCIAL MEDIA

These days, it’s impossible to build a social circle without social media. You need to have an Instagram/Snapchat account in order to meet new people and maintain relationships.
Without a social media account, you won't be able to do online dating either. Girls need to see you online first before they'll agree to meet you in person. Without an account, they won't be able to make sure you're not some kind of creep who just wants to rape them.


This is my favorite guide on how to build a successful Instagram account. You can find other threads on this topic, but they are all very similar and say pretty much the same stuff.



OTHER STUFF

Other threads that might be helpful:






This is the stuff that had helped me overcome my autism and made me become part of society.
That’s pretty much it from me.
I might write my own, proper guide at some point,
but right now I'm just a stupid grey, so no one would read it anyway:feelsbadman:

and remember...

"You don't have to be good looking to interact with people."

Bad looks shoudn't keep you from building a good reputation.
Do that, and improve your looks along the way.


Good luck everyone!
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