E
everythingmatters
Silver
- Joined
- Aug 16, 2020
- Posts
- 631
- Reputation
- 564
DISCLAIMER
This is an essay and has very valuable content (at least for me), please stay away from here lazycels, lowiqcels, normiecels, hatecels, NPCcels and botcels.
I AM FINALLY ABLE TO SEE THE LIGHT AT THE END OF THE TUNNEL
PART 1
I have spent the last 3 years searching intensely every day on how to solve my problems and how to have a better life. I don't think there has been a single day that I haven't thought about it. In the past I made tons of mistakes thanks to the bluepill (and a few crazy hits), then I went through the stage of the redpill / mgtow / pua, I literally took all the red pills. In the end I ended up concluding that most of the things that were talked about were cope and only a few things were legit.
At the end of this stage, the only good thing that left me is that I learned how to make money and that I learned the true feminine nature (which at that time I hated, but now I no longer care or affect me).
So, at that time I obsessed about how to make money, all my energy and time was dedicated to that because I thought that it was going to "ascend" me. Finally, after thousands of headaches and learning, I managed to achieve my financial freedom to the point that I no longer depended on anyone at all, and I was free to do whatever I wanted. But after reaching that goal that I had dreamed of so much, I realized that it really was not what I had imagined, I had a lot of free time, not many friends, little life experience, my physical and mental state were screwed up due to the long hours of study and obsessiveness , at that moment was when I took the money pill (and I did not take it because I read it in a forum on the internet, it was from my own real life experience).
I have to clarify that I did not become a millionaire, and maybe I was not earning so much money for someone from the West, but I was earning at least 10 times more than a normie earns in my country, and also in my country everything is extremely cheap, you can have breakfast away from home with $2. That was enough for me and for anyone down to earth. But at that time my mentality was to get rich because of all the shit I had seen on the internet, and I realized that wanting to be rich is a gigacope, that's shit that youtubers sell you. There comes a point that it is not worth doing what you have to do to earn more money (law of diminishing benefits), the objective is simply to free yourself enough so that you can fuck your boss if you want, not depend on anyone and To be able to have the freedom to buy your looksmaxting things, to be able to buy some experiences, such as traveling, getting drunk with friends, going out to party, buying clothes. But that's it. You don't need to give up your life to get rich.
PART 2
After this, I took the blackpill and realized the importance of what it is to have a social life while you are young, I always knew it but not from a blackpill point of view. The problem with the redpill is that it sells you the idea that you have to focus on getting rich while you are young and then enjoy that money after your 30s (because for the redpill you are still very young as in your 20s). So I was trying to resume my social life, and I realized that it was really super difficult, I made many mistakes and went through many embarrassments but I managed to meet some people and made some friends, to the point that I could go out every weekend to socialize if I wanted.
But even so my physique was still shit and I felt mentally and physically like shit, in addition to being invisible to women. I was 22 kg overweight and in the first stage of obesity.
So this is when I decided to go deeper into blackpill to fix my physique, and that moment is exactly the date I joined this forum.
So I've spent the last couple of months thoroughly researching all about looksmaxing, and I've lost my sources of income because I was already tired of that shit, it's very stressful and also because I felt mentally screwed up to deal with it. These months have been a period of time for money, for people, and I have only devoted myself to studying all this because I have the savings to live for a while without moneymaxing.
PART 3
So, here is my conclusion of everything I have learned so far (bluepill, redpill, blackpill, real life pill):
-Moneymaxing a necessary evil, you only need to generate enough to not depend on anyone and live comfortably, you do NOT need and you do NOT have to become rich. (Law of diminishing benefits).
-You don't need to become a chad (that won't happen), that mentality is stupid and it comes from virgin internet people with zero experience of the real world. High tier normie is enough to have a satisfying life in the real world (and that should be your goal in terms of looksmaxing because it's realistic). Here is the summary of what he learned about looksmaxing:
-If you want to get out of inceldom, you MUST fix your METABOLISM, this is the main cause of inceldom along with LOOKISM. Metabolism is not basal metabolic rate, keto diet, intermittent fasting, or some other internet fad. Metabolism is the set of all the processes within your body that create energy for your body (ATP). If you have your metabolism screwed up like most modern men, you will feel tired all day, weak, you will have low t, high e, you will be obese, with depression and anxiety, screwed up mental state. Why? Because your body will not be able to create the energy (ATP) necessary for the body systems to work properly. I have a thread talking about it but I will do more threads soon:
-Expose yourself exponentially to social situations to fix your "autism". Keep in mind that this will be a not very pleasant path and that it will be full of failures, rejections, teasing, etc. But over time you will be polishing, learning from failures until you become a "normal" person. 20 years of social isolation will not be fixed in a day or going out 1-2 days a week, it must be a hardcore approach. You must go out at least 3-4 days a week and the first months will be days full of rejections.
Don't always do the same with the same people, this has ZERO impact on your life. VARIATION and NOVELTY are the pillars of your socialmaxing path. Focus on doing new things every week, meet new places and different people every month, your life should revolve around social 24/7, every hobby, everything you do should be with the objective of meeting new people.
I will share with you the two most important mentalities that you must adopt in order going from zero friends to tons of friends:
Please don't shitpost to motivate me to do more threads like this.
Users who liked my other threads, Tell me if you want me to tag you in other threads.:
@Stare
@St. Wristcel
@Swagwaffle
@IncelWithNoLuck
@Proex
@Bronze8
@kjsbdfiusdf
@TurboFixer
@Posmo
@PYT
@Muktar
@Username
@ang3l
@sasha777
This is an essay and has very valuable content (at least for me), please stay away from here lazycels, lowiqcels, normiecels, hatecels, NPCcels and botcels.
I AM FINALLY ABLE TO SEE THE LIGHT AT THE END OF THE TUNNEL
PART 1
I have spent the last 3 years searching intensely every day on how to solve my problems and how to have a better life. I don't think there has been a single day that I haven't thought about it. In the past I made tons of mistakes thanks to the bluepill (and a few crazy hits), then I went through the stage of the redpill / mgtow / pua, I literally took all the red pills. In the end I ended up concluding that most of the things that were talked about were cope and only a few things were legit.
At the end of this stage, the only good thing that left me is that I learned how to make money and that I learned the true feminine nature (which at that time I hated, but now I no longer care or affect me).
So, at that time I obsessed about how to make money, all my energy and time was dedicated to that because I thought that it was going to "ascend" me. Finally, after thousands of headaches and learning, I managed to achieve my financial freedom to the point that I no longer depended on anyone at all, and I was free to do whatever I wanted. But after reaching that goal that I had dreamed of so much, I realized that it really was not what I had imagined, I had a lot of free time, not many friends, little life experience, my physical and mental state were screwed up due to the long hours of study and obsessiveness , at that moment was when I took the money pill (and I did not take it because I read it in a forum on the internet, it was from my own real life experience).
I have to clarify that I did not become a millionaire, and maybe I was not earning so much money for someone from the West, but I was earning at least 10 times more than a normie earns in my country, and also in my country everything is extremely cheap, you can have breakfast away from home with $2. That was enough for me and for anyone down to earth. But at that time my mentality was to get rich because of all the shit I had seen on the internet, and I realized that wanting to be rich is a gigacope, that's shit that youtubers sell you. There comes a point that it is not worth doing what you have to do to earn more money (law of diminishing benefits), the objective is simply to free yourself enough so that you can fuck your boss if you want, not depend on anyone and To be able to have the freedom to buy your looksmaxting things, to be able to buy some experiences, such as traveling, getting drunk with friends, going out to party, buying clothes. But that's it. You don't need to give up your life to get rich.
PART 2
After this, I took the blackpill and realized the importance of what it is to have a social life while you are young, I always knew it but not from a blackpill point of view. The problem with the redpill is that it sells you the idea that you have to focus on getting rich while you are young and then enjoy that money after your 30s (because for the redpill you are still very young as in your 20s). So I was trying to resume my social life, and I realized that it was really super difficult, I made many mistakes and went through many embarrassments but I managed to meet some people and made some friends, to the point that I could go out every weekend to socialize if I wanted.
But even so my physique was still shit and I felt mentally and physically like shit, in addition to being invisible to women. I was 22 kg overweight and in the first stage of obesity.
So this is when I decided to go deeper into blackpill to fix my physique, and that moment is exactly the date I joined this forum.
So I've spent the last couple of months thoroughly researching all about looksmaxing, and I've lost my sources of income because I was already tired of that shit, it's very stressful and also because I felt mentally screwed up to deal with it. These months have been a period of time for money, for people, and I have only devoted myself to studying all this because I have the savings to live for a while without moneymaxing.
PART 3
So, here is my conclusion of everything I have learned so far (bluepill, redpill, blackpill, real life pill):
-Moneymaxing a necessary evil, you only need to generate enough to not depend on anyone and live comfortably, you do NOT need and you do NOT have to become rich. (Law of diminishing benefits).
-You don't need to become a chad (that won't happen), that mentality is stupid and it comes from virgin internet people with zero experience of the real world. High tier normie is enough to have a satisfying life in the real world (and that should be your goal in terms of looksmaxing because it's realistic). Here is the summary of what he learned about looksmaxing:
- Leanmax - This is the best looksmaxing if you are overweight. The problem is that 99% of the information on the Internet is wrong about how to lose weight. If you do what the yotuber tell you about eating less and counting calories, you're going to screw up your hormonal system and metabolism. Below I will put a link where I talk about it (BUT you must read every comment I made in that thread).
- Skincare/haircare - Along with the leanmax are the most important softmaxings. These three will give you 80% of the softmaxing results. The problem is that this forum is still bluepilled on this topic (no longer for skin care thanks @benignice) but it is still bluepilled for haircare. I can't believe that people think that haircare is as easy as quitting shampoo. Hair products are your friends, not your enemies, but you must learn to use them correctly. Forget about homemade products in general, that's bluepill af.
Here I talk a little about it.
- Steroids - It is one of the most legitimate medium maxing, but I would not recommend it to people who are not blackpilled regarding the metabolism, and have not managed to maximize their metabolism naturally previously (not because you should not do it before, but because that means that you do not have the knowledge to do it with steroids). So if you are bluepilled on this issue, you are going to screw up your hormone system probably for life and this is the last thing you want to do.
- Hairloss - I am not balding yet so I am not and I have researched it thoroughly. There is a lot of controversy about it but when I start to investigate the issue, I am sure that I will find the definitive solution. What makes me think that people have side effects with finasteride is that they do not know how their body works internally or how hormones work, I suspect that the key is to know for sure all the internal mechanism that finasteride entails. But definitely if you are already bald, the best option is the hair system/hair transplant. In 2020 you should NOT feel depressed about baldness. Check @Gaia262 threads. Fixing your hair is the best mediummaxing you can do.
- Orthognathic surgery / orthodontic treatments - After a few months, I have no doubt that the best medical procedures are Lefort / BSSO / IMDO / Genioplasty. These are the first and best step to hardmaxing. These procedures will change your life if done with the correct knowledge and with a blackpilled surgeon. Other orthodontic procedures such as MSE, cause a lot of controversy if it is worth it, from what I have seen I can say that it has almost 0 impact on your SMV and very little impact on PSL, but it is very worth it if you have a narrow palate because it can do your better smile, slightly wider zygos, what I have no doubt is that the functional results are insane, I would even dare to say that you could have an improvement in your appearance and your mind indirectly because you can breathe better, so you will have better oxygenation in the cells and therefore better metabolism, easier to lose weight, etc. According to realsurgerymax, MSDO has no impact on PSL, but it can be useful if the front of your lower jaw is very narrow.
- Implants - There are certain things that orthognathic surgery cannot achieve, this is when the importance of implants comes. The best hardmaxing of all comes when you combine orthognathic surgery along with implants.
- Cosmetic eye surgeries - Almond eye surgery is probably the best hardmaxing existing after orthognathic surgery (Although obviously it will depend on each case).
-If you want to get out of inceldom, you MUST fix your METABOLISM, this is the main cause of inceldom along with LOOKISM. Metabolism is not basal metabolic rate, keto diet, intermittent fasting, or some other internet fad. Metabolism is the set of all the processes within your body that create energy for your body (ATP). If you have your metabolism screwed up like most modern men, you will feel tired all day, weak, you will have low t, high e, you will be obese, with depression and anxiety, screwed up mental state. Why? Because your body will not be able to create the energy (ATP) necessary for the body systems to work properly. I have a thread talking about it but I will do more threads soon:
-Expose yourself exponentially to social situations to fix your "autism". Keep in mind that this will be a not very pleasant path and that it will be full of failures, rejections, teasing, etc. But over time you will be polishing, learning from failures until you become a "normal" person. 20 years of social isolation will not be fixed in a day or going out 1-2 days a week, it must be a hardcore approach. You must go out at least 3-4 days a week and the first months will be days full of rejections.
Don't always do the same with the same people, this has ZERO impact on your life. VARIATION and NOVELTY are the pillars of your socialmaxing path. Focus on doing new things every week, meet new places and different people every month, your life should revolve around social 24/7, every hobby, everything you do should be with the objective of meeting new people.
I will share with you the two most important mentalities that you must adopt in order going from zero friends to tons of friends:
- Internal destruction - You must destroy yourself internally. What I mean by this is that you must expose yourself to the things that scare you (especially socially) in order to destroy those fears that are controlling your life. At first you should not socialize for fun, you do it to put yourself in a very uncomfortable area that you hate but that helps you destroy yourself to be reborn as a new person.
- Be grateful for loneliness - Loneliness has cornered you so much in life that you have no choice but to get out of your comfort zone since you have NOTHING to lose, this situation is what will lead you to do crazy things that will change your life for ever, like an obscure doctor in a totally unknown country split your face in two. This loneliness is what will force you to change to go live in a new unknown city. This loneliness is what will force you to go to bars and parties only where you don't know anyone to make new friends and get bitches. And all of this is growth that normies will never experience.
Please don't shitpost to motivate me to do more threads like this.
Users who liked my other threads, Tell me if you want me to tag you in other threads.:
@Stare
@St. Wristcel
@Swagwaffle
@IncelWithNoLuck
@Proex
@Bronze8
@kjsbdfiusdf
@TurboFixer
@Posmo
@PYT
@Muktar
@Username
@ang3l
@sasha777
Last edited: