"Learn to take a joke" : An NT pill

[Deleted member 16288]

You all have probably heard this from most normies.

Lets actually break this down

Most incels get pretty defensive when someone insults them (let's say looks insult). Because deep down they know it's true and have been affected by it their entire life.
Probably bullied too. And on top of that, also failoed by being a bitch, insecure,non-NT when it is brought up again
Example, incel has a big forehead, it gets brought up in the friends group, incel gets insecure. Thinks about it the whole night. Can't sleep


On the other hand, someone who didn't have such negative experiences and feedback would take the insult in a more stoic and calm way which is a crucial aspect of being NT. Because deep down he knows it is not true and his overall life experience has been good despite. Despite people bringing it up.

Chad has a big forehead too, someone in the friends group jokes about it, Chad knows despite his big forehead, he has been considered attractive by girls and not treated worse, so he just laughs it off as a joke. Doesn't think about it much


This is so brutal

TLDR

NT == Environment (How you have been treated)

 

[Xangsane]

@Jova tbh

 

[bloomercel]

They are telling you to know your place. When normies used to tell me that, I would just "joke" with them right back and they'd suddenly get serious and try to start a fight.

 

[Deleted member 67900]

"learn to take a joke" until tyrone chimps out and drags his knuckles to your face, nt guys are bluepilled

 

[Deleted member 45794]

Make fun of the popular kid in the group overrall response will be different

even if lighthearted

 

[Deleted member 45780]

Tldr, dont be a bitch and let people disrepsect you even if its minor theyll use that as a foothold to disrespect you

 

[8incheer]

had to learn that the hard way

 

[soulless_npc]

It's still good practice tho to have that side of yourself that doesn't take yourself so serious and be able to joke around because women will throw shit like that at you to see how secure you are even if they like u

 

[Deleted member 42845]

You all have probably heard this from most normies.

Lets actually break this down

Most incels get pretty defensive when someone insults them (let's say looks insult). Because deep down they know it's true and have been affected by it their entire life.
Probably bullied too. And on top of that, also failoed by being a bitch, insecure,non-NT when it is brought up again
Example, incel has a big forehead, it gets brought up in the friends group, incel gets insecure. Thinks about it the whole night. Can't sleep


On the other hand, someone who didn't have such negative experiences and feedback would take the insult in a more stoic and calm way which is a crucial aspect of being NT. Because deep down he knows it is not true and his overall life experience has been good despite. Despite people bringing it up.

Chad has a big forehead too, someone in the friends group jokes about it, Chad knows despite his big forehead, he has been considered attractive by girls and not treated worse, so he just laughs it off as a joke. Doesn't think about it much


This is so brutal

TLDR

NT == Environment (How you have been treated)

Very true
You have to be able to take jokes and irony, but you have to defend yourself when joke becomes extremelly personal

I have a friend, he never understands any jokes or irony. He easily gets into fights with everybody or gets upset at them when they make small innocent joke on him. Most people think he's stupid. Also he's 5'5 and balding

 

[Latinus]

This is a very good thread. Also, many normies will bash, mock Incels, and when Incels fight back, they'll say: "it was just a joke, chill up."

They expect you to be a punch bag, so when you fight back, they pretend they were joking, and the consequence is that the Incel will be labeled as the boring/nervous guy that can't take a joke.