11gaijin
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The only truth is that neither you are special nor the girl that you are obsessed with or dating/married to. The moment you start believing in monogamy, true love or any of that sissy bullshit, is the moment that you start treating the girl as someone special and ultimately start caring about her infidelity or her cheating on you. And if you are caring about those things you will never be happy or secure. The only way to not give a fuck about any of those things is to understand that people are corruptible and no girl is special and she is likely to leave you for another guy.
50% of marriages in US end with divorce. Why? It is because with time, women or men get bored with their SO. Attraction is just hormones and chemical reactions happening in your brain. Humans hate a lot of things and boredom ranks quite high in that list. And it isn't unlikely for those feelings that initially attracted you to each other to vanish.
If anyone spent time on Incel/looksmax forums and still all they want is a loving gf to spend the rest of their life with, then I think they never learnt anything.
50% of marriages in US end with divorce. Why? It is because with time, women or men get bored with their SO. Attraction is just hormones and chemical reactions happening in your brain. Humans hate a lot of things and boredom ranks quite high in that list. And it isn't unlikely for those feelings that initially attracted you to each other to vanish.
If anyone spent time on Incel/looksmax forums and still all they want is a loving gf to spend the rest of their life with, then I think they never learnt anything.