Update on my family situation: my parents made an agreement with my sister to not live with us permanently anymore

[HerpDerpson]

I'm slav

So you're an ethnic.

 

[Deleted member 3828]

So you're an ethnic.

You utter retard
Ever heared of white ethnicity?
we're all ethnics

 

[Xangsane]

You utter retard
Ever heared of white ethnicity?
we're all ethnics

European

 

[Deleted member 16110]

do you love her anymore?

 

[Prettyboy]

Brutal

Your sister is NT and conformist , she tries to blend into the mainstream

While you are the exact opposite of her

Truly shows the difference between female and male mindset

 

[fauxfox]

Snitching on your siblings is cringe

 

[Xangsane]

do you love her anymore?

I managed to tactfully talk to her just now, she's calmed down quite a bit. I'm offering to drive her around my town and nearby towns and villages, and take her on a walk about to observe the beauty and subhumanity of all races as an eye opener. She has agreed to it.

 

[Xangsane]

Brutal

Your sister is NT and conformist , she tries to blend into the mainstream

While you are the exact opposite of her

Truly shows the difference between female and male mindset

Would you say the female mindset is more conformist and is more likely to follow trends compared to the male mindset?

I hate to blend in but most of us do.

 

[HerpDerpson]

Snitching on your siblings is cringe

I love snitching.
Snitching=bad is what criminals want you to believe

 

[Xangsane]

I love snitching.
Snitching=bad is what criminals want you to believe

I managed to tactfully talk to her just now, she's calmed down quite a bit. I'm offering to drive her around my town and nearby towns and villages, and take her on a walk about to observe the beauty and subhumanity of all races as an eye opener. She has agreed to it.

 

[HerpDerpson]

I managed to tactfully talk to her just now, she's calmed down quite a bit. I'm offering to drive her around my town and nearby towns and villages, and take her on a walk about to observe the beauty and subhumanity of all races as an eye opener. She has agreed to it.

That's good, hopefully she won't stop talking with your parents when she moves out.

 

[fauxfox]

I love snitching.
Snitching=bad is what criminals want you to believe

For actually crimes yes snitching is good I'll snitch without hesitation to save myself. But on small things like this it's better to just keep it between siblings. Like if you had a brother who just got a gf but he didn't want to tell the family about it, you would just keep it between the two of you right?

 

[HerpDerpson]

Would you say the female mindset is more conformist and is more likely to follow trends compared to the male mindset?

I believe rejecting society comes from society rejecting you, therefore it's impossible for a woman to be non-conformist because they can't be rejected from society due to the blackpill.

 

[Xangsane]

That's good, hopefully she won't stop talking with your parents when she moves out.

I want to train her to change her mindset and not to completely sever her ties with our family because I really want to protect her from vultures out to get her if she's uncaged.

 

[HerpDerpson]

Like if you had a brother who just got a gf but he didn't want to tell the family about it, you would just keep it between the two of you right

Yeah, but it's not like he's doing anything bad.

 

[Xangsane]

I believe rejecting society comes from society rejecting you, therefore it's impossible for a woman to be non-conformist because they can't be rejected from society due to the blackpill.

In my case do you think it's cultural and being non NT/personality?

 

[fauxfox]

Yeah, but it's not like he's doing anything bad.

He broke his sister's trust imo, but not in a major way

 

[HerpDerpson]

In my case do you think it's cultural and being non NT/personality?

Yeah, I think you feel some degree of alienation due to cultural differences, even if you're not being discriminated against, you feel yourself as different so you can't quite feel like you're fitting in even if you're not being pushed out (although didn't you say people treated you differently just from learning your first name?), being introverted might be a consequence of that.

 

[HerpDerpson]

He broke his sister's trust imo, but not in a major way

He didn't directly snitch thought, he just wasn't careful with the secret, which isn't that bad.
Also I do believe that in his sister's specific situation coming out clean is for the best, so I see that as helpful rather than harmful.

 

[Xangsane]

Yeah, I think you feel some degree of alienation due to cultural differences, even if you're not being discriminated against, you feel yourself as different so you can't quite feel like you're fitting in even if you're not being pushed out (although didn't you say people treated you differently just from learning your first name?), being introverted might be a consequence of that.

I definitely feel that, on top of my personality traits and interests. People have treated me differently after I introduced myself to them, and started acting more lukewarm towards me.

I also don't look like most Muslims here either, and many took note of that especially at school where I even got alienated by them.

 

[Xangsane]

He didn't directly snitch thought, he just wasn't careful with the secret, which isn't that bad.
Also I do believe that in his sister's specific situation coming out clean is for the best, so I see that as helpful rather than harmful.

I know this is for the better for her. Now I'm trying to build up that trust between us so her relationship with our family doesn't sever if she ever goes away.

 

[Deleted member 4362]

No, not just that. She dated 3 guys (unsuccessfully) and she was forced to own up. She also said some pretty horrific things about colonialisation to me over the phone.

What did she say about colonisation?

 

[Xangsane]

What did she say about colonisation?

My sister told me over the phone that "Britain colonised the wrong Muslim countries". What does this mean?

My sister will be coming home from university next week as Semester 2 is over. Me and Dad will be driving for hours to go pick her up. I had a discussion with her over the phone yesterday and I can't really describe how I feel about this, what she meant and whether she was being discriminatory...

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[Deleted member 16110]

I managed to tactfully talk to her just now, she's calmed down quite a bit. I'm offering to drive her around my town and nearby towns and villages, and take her on a walk about to observe the beauty and subhumanity of all races as an eye opener. She has agreed to it.

miring the amount of honesty you have with your family

my whole life feels like a web of lies

 

[Xangsane]

miring the amount of honesty you have with your family

my whole life feels like a web of lies

Thank you. I think it's the best way forward if you want the ties to remain strong till death do us part.

 

[Prettyboy]

Would you say the female mindset is more conformist and is more likely to follow trends compared to the male mindset?

I hate to blend in but most of us do.

Yes girls are very comformist by nature , aspie males are the opposite , they do everything to not comfort to mainstream society

 

[Xangsane]

Yes girls are very comformist by nature , aspie males are the opposite , they do everything to not comfort to mainstream society

As you can see, they're the ones always hopping on a new trend.

They're always the ones who prefer to be more conformist:

 

[ballskin]

Fighting with your parents and especially leaving them on bad terms leads directly to satanism, atheism, drug and alcohol abuse, degeneracy and mental illness. Nearly all criminals, drag queens and even prostitutes originaged the same way.

So it’s a very bad mistake to let her go she’ll just resent her family and do the opposite of what you stand for in spite.

 

[Deleted member 18522]

Based father.

But now your sister definitely hates you.

What did OP do besides tell his parents they are ayrab?

Also OP, link all the thread pls in chronical order i need something to read while I'm pretending to be coding

 

[Xangsane]

What did OP do besides tell his parents they are ayrab?

Also OP, link all the thread pls in chronical order i need something to read while I'm pretending to be coding

My sister got upset over halal chicken and the fact her white uni friends saw my father.

So, we're currently waiting for the (very heavily marinated and seasoned) chicken to fry in the pan and the chips to cook in the oven before me, dad, my sister and her roommates sit down and watch Love Island together (one of my sister's friends have asked us to specifically do this). Her 3...

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My sister told me that she thinks her housemates don't want anything to do with her anymore.

She was visibly upset while talking to me in the car while driving her home about how her housemates she lived with didn't want to talk to her anymore, and removed her from the house group chat. She also expressed her fear of her friends telling their friends and acquaintances about what she...

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Both of my parents are having a shouting match between themselves and my sister in her bedroom for her racist behaviour recently while I'm watching YT

Backstory: https://looksmax.org/threads/my-sister-got-upset-over-halal-chicken-and-the-fact-her-white-uni-friends-saw-my-father.516078/ https://looksmax.org/threads/so-my-sister-just-cussed-me-out-for-exposing-her-while-we-were-making-halal-fried-chicken.516199/...

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[closedplatecel]

So she’s ok with leaving y’all?

 

[Xangsane]

So she’s ok with leaving y’all?

Indifferent it seems but I'm scared the vultures will eat her up when she's uncaged. I'm trying to build up the relationship between me and her so she doesn't completely sever ties with the family.

 

[traveler]

she'll end up doing onlyfans and porn for $

 

[ItsOVERBuddyBoyos]

Would you say the female mindset is more conformist and is more likely to follow trends compared to the male mindset?

I hate to blend in but most of us do.

Yes, of course

 

[Xangsane]

Yes, of course

As you can see, they're the ones always hopping on a new trend.

They're always the ones who prefer to be more conformist:

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[ItsOVERBuddyBoyos]

Women are highly attuned to social status, and so they tend to just follow whatever the majority popular opinion/trend is currently.
You see this in their political beliefs, fashion to even things like acceptable hobbies/media consumption.


What has your sister said since your parents told her this? didn't she start raging and blaming you?

 

[Xangsane]

Women are highly attuned to social status, and so they tend to just follow whatever the majority popular opinion/trend is currently.
You see this in their political beliefs, fashion to even things like acceptable hobbies/media consumption.


What has your sister said since your parents told her this? didn't she start raging and blaming you?

Surprisingly she took it very well with me, and really wanted to build back ties with our parents. So I offered to help her. She agreed to have a drive about with me when I have the time, and I will drive her around town and nearby small towns to show her how both beauty and subhumanity is present in all races and that she shouldn't just put down entire groups of people.

 

[ItsOVERBuddyBoyos]

Surprisingly she took it very well with me, and really wanted to build back ties with our parents. So I offered to help her. She agreed to have a drive about with me when I have the time, and I will drive her around town and nearby small towns to show her how both beauty and subhumanity is present in all races and that she shouldn't just put down entire groups of people.

You should keep trying to maintain a bond wit her.

However, you need to aware that she's likely to just give your parents an "apology" claiming she's seen the error of her ways while just deciding to hide her true feelings and be more secretive with this sort of stuff in the future. You want her to really think about the things she's been doing and saying, but its likely she's just viewing herself as the victim here and missing why your parents would be so upset.

 

[HerpDerpson]

Reminder that it all happened because of a spicy chicken.

 

[PapaGremlin]

Based whitemaxxed sister gets freedom from muh ethnic family virtues.
It's gonna be a good life

 

[Xangsane]

Based whitemaxxed sister gets freedom from muh ethnic family virtues.
It's gonna be a good life

How is this a good thing?

 

[PapaGremlin]

How is this a good thing?

How is it not?
She can literally do all she wants once living separately.
Idk about you, I strive for a life in the West without cucked ethnic family virtues holding me back. I'd be gymcelling, fucking shaniquas and eating ham all day

 

[Deleted member 17872]

Brutal

Your sister is NT and conformist , she tries to blend into the mainstream

While you are the exact opposite of her

Truly shows the difference between female and male mindset

> NT

> Inferiority complex about her background and lies about it to her liberal friends

Pick one

 

[Deleted member 3828]

I love snitching.
Snitching=bad is what criminals want you to believe

snitching is dark triad af imo

 

[HerpDerpson]

snitching is dark triad af imo

Caging at scumbags breaking the rules, then getting upset at some unspoken rule of not snitching being broken.

 

[Deleted member 3828]

Caging at scumbags breaking the rules, then getting upset at some unspoken rule of not snitching being broken.

perfect way to stay in business while eliminating competition
only retards are shocked when they hear
the most based criminal in city has been snitching all along

 

[Rt-Rust1]

For me, doing what they wanted, lead to social suicide. Which has been extremely detrimental to my social life, mental health and as a consequence, also my future carreer/dating perspectives.

In the end it's about deciding what you think is best for you. For you and your sister, those were different things. You both have different experiences, different brain-wiring and therefore different ideas of what kind of life you want to live.

My brother kept with my parents lifestyle mostly. He finished medschool at 3PSL, virgin at 26yo. Now he is working/learning to become a trauma surgeon. He recently got a 3PSL fat girlfriend and works 60 hours a week. I know that he hates his life though, he told me, but he copes with some forms of luxury/wealth which we were never given by our cheapskate parents in our youth. Going to restaurants every week, etc.

For me, I have distanced myself from my family and am now basically an orphan. The rest of my family was never close to me, and after having to leave my parents/brother behind, I don't have any family left. It's a very mentally unhealthy situation to not have a support network like that.

I hope you can be supportive to your sister even if you disagree with her and even if your family is distancing themselves from her.

Nigga. Im sorry

 

[Deleted member 4430]

I dont get how most people here eat this chap laprs about his family or that he was pegged.

Yeah someone who does med school and works in a hospital will definitely gather over 42,000 posts on the internet.

 

[Marco Polo]

Will you accept your sister, even if she comes back with a 30+ body count?

 

[Eren]

For me, doing what they wanted, lead to social suicide. Which has been extremely detrimental to my social life, mental health and as a consequence, also my future carreer/dating perspectives.

In the end it's about deciding what you think is best for you. For you and your sister, those were different things. You both have different experiences, different brain-wiring and therefore different ideas of what kind of life you want to live.

My brother kept with my parents lifestyle mostly. He finished medschool at 3PSL, virgin at 26yo. Now he is working/learning to become a trauma surgeon. He recently got a 3PSL fat girlfriend and works 60 hours a week. I know that he hates his life though, he told me, but he copes with some forms of luxury/wealth which we were never given by our cheapskate parents in our youth. Going to restaurants every week, etc.

For me, I have distanced myself from my family and am now basically an orphan. The rest of my family was never close to me, and after having to leave my parents/brother behind, I don't have any family left. It's a very mentally unhealthy situation to not have a support network like that.

I hope you can be supportive to your sister even if you disagree with her and even if your family is distancing themselves from her.

the "social suicide" hits hard. Basically the same. I "fled" my parent's house for uni (i went the farthest possible in the same country). They are not mean, they provide for me but they just do not understand. If i do waht they want, i'm doomed. Unironically i think it might have saved his sister because she will be free at least

Remember to do what you can with what you have before things get better