If you’re above-average looking, personality/confidence matters

[JamesHowlett]

- You’re above Incel/Low-tier Normie level so you’re above most women’s looks threshold.
- But you’re below Chad, so you can’t go by purely on looks and women won’t regularly approach you.

Being above average is the sweet spot where game matters most and where I believe the most mentalcels are. I was much better with women when I was bluepilled/care-free.

Being a mentalcel or autist as an above average looking guy is honestly brutal.

EDIT: Basement dwellers will call this cope, but anyone who has a social circle and goes out to bars/clubs will know this is true. Incels will also call this cope because this doesn’t apply to them.

 

[Deleted member 5891]

water

 

[Got the hunter eyes]

water

Is

 

[PubertyMaxxer]

cope

either youre attractive or not

 

[Nosecel]

Not wet
Shit thread

 

[Deleted member 5891]

cope

either youre attractive or not

nigga you had one job

 

[Deleted member 1588]

So what should average guys do who have no large failos just average feature kill themselves or what

 

[JamesHowlett]

So what should average guys do who have no large failos just average feature kill themselves or what

I’m still trying to figure that out.

 

[PubertyMaxxer]

So what should average guys do who have no large failos just average feature kill themselves or what

there is always room to improve

 

[JamesHowlett]

@PubertyMaxxer @Nosecel Do you both have a big social circle or go out to clubs/bars?

 

[Deleted member 1588]

I’m still trying to figure that out.

Bcuz most guys i believe are in this situation only just average features nothing striking

 

[EverythingMattersCel]

It's true tbh. I have a chad friend that does not slay to his potential because he is not NT enough.

 

[Deleted member 5818]

ofc personality matters but I have a friend with 0 personality legit most boring guy but solid 6.5 psl and he gets girls effortlessly at every party we go to when he has almost 0 game or personality

 

[Nosecel]

@PubertyMaxxer @Nosecel Do you both have a big social circle or go out to clubs/bars?

OH BRO JUST TO A CLUB BRO
NO BRO
ITS JUST AS AMNESIA SAID
WOMEN DO APPROACH!
BECOME GIGACHAD THEN FOIDS WILL FOLLOW!
IF YOU ARE NOT GIGA/CHAD THEN GET SURGERIES TO BECOME ONE
IF YOU CANT BECOME GIGA/CHAD WITH SURGERIES - DIE
THERE IS NO POINT IN LIFE

 

[JamesHowlett]

OH BRO JUST TO A CLUB BRO
NO BRO
ITS JUST AS AMNESIA SAID
WOMEN DO APPROACH!
BECOME GIGACHAD THEN FOIDS WILL FOLLOW!
IF YOU ARE NOT GIGA/CHAD THEN GET SURGERIES TO BECOME ONE
IF YOU CANT BECOME GIGA/CHAD WITH SURGERIES - DIE
THERE IS NO POINT IN LIFE

But you only think this way because you don’t socialise.

ofc personality matters but I have a friend with 0 personality legit most boring guy but solid 6.5 psl and he gets girls effortlessly at every party we go to when he has almost 0 game or personality

If he slays purely with looks, by definition he is a chad.

 

[Deleted member 3043]

true

legit super true

 

[Deleted member 5187]

I made this thread before
I do better with girls now than some years ago
However I did get better looking

Confidence, personality and looks are heavily correlated in the end

 

[Entschuldigung]

yeah obviously everyone wants to be around nice ppl, if you're a nice chad you be most likely to get people to like you than a douchebag

 

[Deleted member 5760]

Not being NT ruins you more than a bad personality.

 

[Deleted member 3043]

I made this thread before
I do better with girls now than some years ago
However I did get better looking

Confidence, personality and looks are heavily correlated in the end

last sentence is utterly legit.
given you are not ugly.
it's not asked to be gl, just not ugly

 

[BonesAndHarmony]

As long as you look good don't act autistic and overly shy and you're fine tbh.

 

[JamesHowlett]

As long as you look good don't act autistic and overly shy and you're fine tbh.

Acting autistic and overly shy is the exact problem I’m talking about.

 

[middayshowers]

how many times do we have to see threads like this

let me say it slowly

EVERYTHING FUCKING MATTERS​

 

[JamesHowlett]

how many times do we have to see threads like this

let me say it slowly

EVERYTHING FUCKING MATTERS​

I know but people here still think that confidence/game doesn’t matter.

 

[tyronelite]

What’s your definition of game ?

 

[JamesHowlett]

What’s your definition of game ?

Combination of things, but mainly:
- Being confident
- Being witty/funny
- Being NT
- Knowing how to escalate

 

[Deleted member 5701]

Personality obviously matters to some extent, just not even 1% of 1% of how much the average normie thinks it does

 

[DrunkenSailor]

OH BRO JUST TO A CLUB BRO
NO BRO
ITS JUST AS AMNESIA SAID
WOMEN DO APPROACH!
BECOME GIGACHAD THEN FOIDS WILL FOLLOW!
IF YOU ARE NOT GIGA/CHAD THEN GET SURGERIES TO BECOME ONE
IF YOU CANT BECOME GIGA/CHAD WITH SURGERIES - DIE
THERE IS NO POINT IN LIFE

Jfl @ incels coping with the thought of surgeries transforming them into chads when it won’t happen if you’re not at least above average already

 

[YoungRichNigga]

SHIT THREAD KYS GREYCEL
YEAH "JUST BE CONFIDENT BRO"

THTAS WHY NIGGAS ARE HERE IN THE FIRST PLACE

 

[JamesHowlett]

SHIT THREAD KYS GREYCEL
YEAH "JUST BE CONFIDENT BRO"

THTAS WHY NIGGAS ARE HERE IN THE FIRST PLACE

Colourblind incel detected

 

[RAITEIII]

Looks attract people, personality makes them stay

 

[Furious Dingleberry]

I do better with girls now than some years ago

However I did get better looking

 

[ThreadMatters]

I remember when i was posting shit like this back in the day when i was coping with pua until a foid stacy called me ugly shit str8 in the face. That shit caused me brain damage till this day fuck that bitch man
Anyway i softmaxxed and throw all pua bullshit and got some iois but still need to do lefort.

 

[Pinhead]

This goes without saying and there's no convincing rotters, dumbcels or people who are legit fucked looks wise (who usually cope that this shit doesn't matter)

replay a scenario 1000 times with the following

Above average face, gymcel physique, normal height range guy who is neurotic, can't hold eye contact (dogs hold eye contact longer with humans than these people jfl) and has an internal database of male models, chads etc in their head.

Then replay this scenario with a guy who has all of the above physical traits but is laid back, low cortisol, has a solid friend group, is expressive, care free and has positive energy.

Put them both into a club. Who slays more?

Now ofc you can be full aspie and say shit like "but muh chad!!!" yeah no shit a legit top percentile male can act like a weirdo and still get laid. Doesn't mean they wouldn't find it EVEN EASIER w/appropriate behaviour.

Gets even worse when you're simply above average. Why? because you're nothing special. She can find a guy to replace you easily. So any deficiency elsewhere in you as a person = autoreject, especially when it's something uncommon in the real world (aspie neurotic high inhib weirdos)

And you should compare yourself to yourself.

Looksmax your face. Gymcel. Roid if you need to. Improve your status/friend circle. Acquire money. Legit don't give a fuck about women and treat the entire thing like a joke, because you don't care.

Now you mog your previous self and if you replay a scenario where you go to clubs once a week for two years you'll slay more than YOUR OLD SELF would, provided you actually look human enough to attract some girls in the first place.

Your looksmaxxed self on tinder. Say you get 500 matches. Take 10 on dates.

High inhib neurotic psl type poster overthinks things, acts like a simp/weirdo/mong, gets rejected by a larger % of those 10 girls.

Calm, non anxious, non neurotic you goes on 10 dates. Gets rejected by some of them most likely but not as large of a %

who wins?

that's the real black pill. Behaviour in many ways is even harder to change than looks too. And most people have an advantage over you on this by DEFAULT because they don't know about PSL/Chads/Black pill