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I feel the exact same way. When new years came I couldn't sleep due to the anxiety of time passing. It's so much easier to self-isolate, but at the same time, doing that means you're not progressing. I've fallen far behind my peers.

The last 3-4 years of my life was a total waste, as I had started looksmaxing and fixing mental issues, but then went back to uni and destroyed my mental health, got fat and started balding. Now I'm just trying to get back to where I was 3-4 years ago.
 
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You can always start again bro, you just need to drop your retarded standards and get real. Your dating pool is going to be non virgins, any 20 year old you attract is going to be mentally ill/looking for financial security
 
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I feel the exact same way. When new years came I couldn't sleep due to the anxiety of time passing. It's so much easier to self-isolate, but at the same time, doing that means you're not progressing. I've fallen far behind my peers.

The last 3-4 years of my life was a total waste, as I had started looksmaxing and fixing mental issues, but then went back to uni and destroyed my mental health, got fat and started balding. Now I'm just trying to get back to where I was 3-4 years ago.

How u got fat?
 
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How u got fat?
Why the JFL react? Hair loss sneaks up on you then - boom, it's suddenly noticeable within a year.

I got fat from eating terribly at uni combined with anti-depressants. Come to think of it, I couldn't have been higher than 20%, but I have really bad lower third growth, so in order to look lean facially I have to be around 10-12% or so.
 
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Why the JFL react? Hair loss sneaks up on you then - boom, it's suddenly noticeable within a year.

I got fat from eating terribly at uni combined with anti-depressants. Come to think of it, I couldn't have been higher than 20%, but I have really bad lower third growth, so in order to look lean facially I have to be around 10-12% or so.

I was nw 1.5-2 from 14-15 to 21 then got a bald spot on top at 22 and was nw 5 or 6 at 23 then back to nw 1.5 - 2 at 23.5 from fin, min, keto and dermaroller then got to nw 0 by means of a hair transplant at 24.
 
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Turning 29 last month set alarm bells off.

Most people around me have moved on with life - except me. What bothers me isn't the fact I'm single, but the fact that I had opportunities but never took them. The fact that major milestones of my life and prime time to meet someone and enjoy your youth won't return. I don't mind being this age, I just regret the uneventful path I've taken to get here.

It's like I was holding out for something, expecting someone, but they never came. I was sold the myth there is someone for everyone, and that everything will be fine at the end of the day. I've been told I'm in a better position than most people, and if uglier, poorer, shorter people are married and living a good life, I'll have no problems. All of this meant I never really even cared about being single nor actively did anything about it. Everyone around me suddenly found someone, it should happen to me right? Except it didn't. Nothing has changed. I'm still the same person, in the same situation. At one point I was told I'll find someone, next point I'm told time has pretty much ran out. My life ended at 18, just when it was supposed to get going. I did nothing but rot and the natural consequence is life got flash-forwarded. You create no memories, your thoughts and routine are cyclically inane and meaningless.

If I read what I just wrote above in my late teens I'd be in so much fear and denial it could ever happen. What I thought wouldn't happen has happened. It's the opposite of a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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You’re a man so “time hasn’t” ran out. If you were down HOEJABI then yes it would be GG and I’d have 0 sympathy for you

Then again your fucking curry go arrange marriage max. Even the paki I used to fuck said she can go get that arranged marriage if she wants lmfao just do that. You curries found the cheat code for reproduction

It’s also not your fault, I tried to slay in 2022-2023 I failed I gave up I realised it’s impossible I won’t look back with regret because I know I tried, if anything I’ll look back with contempt towards women for not allowing me to have that fun when young
 
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I see he oppisite, the women around me are always looking for an older man. You have a good chance of getting the girl if you are not more than 8 years older. However, you must seek out some traditional wives.
Only virgins can be traditional wife
 
just give it up and go hookers way. Don't settle for foid who is not virgin and you are not attracted to. You will just be more miserable. Grass is always greener on other side. How as non-nt, u crave having nt life maybe. Then when you have nt life, you are tired of it and rather rot n do your own thing.
 
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You can always start again bro, you just need to drop your retarded standards and get real. Your dating pool is going to be non virgins, any 20 year old you attract is going to be mentally ill/looking for financial security
What standards? I just want MTB and tbh I can get them in my ethnicity. I had over 100+ likes on Muzz when I rejoined after first month. I matched back with about 8 literally all of them ghosted, blocked or took 3-4 business days to reply. Most of them were as gl as curry (Bengali esp) gets. Not bragging just saying.

I'm not matching back with a femcel or LTB. I can't get even get a single MENA femcel. Or any other ethnic for that matter. Muzz limits my pool by ethnicity. I can't join any other app.

Virgins 25+ are possible. But prospects are better abroad.

You’re a man so “time hasn’t” ran out. If you were down HOEJABI then yes it would be GG and I’d have 0 sympathy for you

Then again your fucking curry go arrange marriage max. Even the paki I used to fuck said she can go get that arranged marriage if she wants lmfao just do that. You curries found the cheat code for reproduction

It’s also not your fault, I tried to slay in 2022-2023 I failed I gave up I realised it’s impossible I won’t look back with regret because I know I tried, if anything I’ll look back with contempt towards women for not allowing me to have that fun when young
As I've mentioned multiple times I won't go down this route. I've always been put off by arranged marriages and made that clear to my parents.
 
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I'm 23 rn and feel like I'm on the same path like you, I think tho most important things in life are looks and money, if I got those two, then I would be fine... I think


Say you were my age, what are things that if you could, you would do differently?
 
Just betabuxxx to BBC addicted LTB white girl
 
What standards? I just want MTB and tbh I can get them in my ethnicity. I had over 100+ likes on Muzz when I rejoined after first month. I matched back with about 8 literally all of them ghosted, blocked or took 3-4 business days to reply. Most of them were as gl as curry (Bengali esp) gets. Not bragging just saying.

I'm not matching back with a femcel or LTB. I can't get even get a single MENA femcel. Or any other ethnic for that matter. Muzz limits my pool by ethnicity. I can't join any other app.

Virgins 25+ are possible. But prospects are better abroad.


As I've mentioned multiple times I won't go down this route. I've always been put off by arranged marriages and made that clear to my parents.
So you’re a self hating faggot that refuses to date other bengali women?
 
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I wish I was married at 18.

So you’re going to marry someone your own age?

The nikkah ceremony is an Islamic wedding, but weddings are meant to celebrate the wedding. It’s not a mushrikeen custom, it’s just cultural. I like weddings but wouldn’t want to be in the spotlight myself.

Good for him!
to be married at 18 you gotta be giga rich
 
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So you’re a self hating faggot that refuses to date other bengali women?
Did you read my post? I said I matched with top tier curry and most were top tier Bengalis. But I was just on the back burner for them, while they were chasing chaddam.
 
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just give it up and go hookers way. Don't settle for foid who is not virgin and you are not attracted to. You will just be more miserable. Grass is always greener on other side. How as non-nt, u crave having nt life maybe. Then when you have nt life, you are tired of it and rather rot n do your own thing.
paying for hookers doesnt make his situation any better
 
Don't need to ask me. Just take a look around. See how many people are in your position. See how many of them ascend the next year. And then the year after that, and after that one too. Sooner or later, one by one, all of them get hitched, some have kids, you're the last one standing.
Man im witnessing this rn i needa get outta here 😔
 
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paying for hookers doesnt make his situation any better
Yes it does if it get him to stop chasing women or trying the idealistic scenario. He is just gonna get cheated on or divorce raped.
 
Yes it does if it get him to stop chasing women or trying the idealistic scenario. He is just gonna get cheated on or divorce raped.
having sex with a hooker is sad as fuck, u know its not real
 
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Yes it does if it get him to stop chasing women or trying the idealistic scenario. He is just gonna get cheated on or divorce raped.
What's the difference between jerking off and hiring a hooker? Both are just outlets for sexual relief. The latter an expensive one.
 
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just give it up and go hookers way. Don't settle for foid who is not virgin and you are not attracted to. You will just be more miserable. Grass is always greener on other side. How as non-nt, u crave having nt life maybe. Then when you have nt life, you are tired of it and rather rot n do your own thing.
This without the hookers because haram. Just jack off
 
having sex with a hooker is sad as fuck, u know its not real
Nor is the sex with your trad wife who will turn the moment chad shows up
 
What's the difference between jerking off and hiring a hooker? Both are just outlets for sexual relief. The latter an expensive one.
Yes as long as u can do it to no porn. its better alternative. But i just said hookers because i have seen many cases on forum where the guy become addicted to hookers and like it more. Ambitious moneymaxxers so they can bang hookers
 
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Nor is the sex with your trad wife who will turn the moment chad shows up
chad wont go for mtb so no reason to worry about
 
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chad wont go for mtb so no reason to worry about
Yep but u will always be option. or someone she settled for. Don't be blinded by the illusion because chad did not hit on your trad wife. Reality is when he tries, he will have it lot easier than u did getting your "trad wife" while you will be forgotten.
 
It depends, jacking off to porn is 100% but you’re sex drive has to be satisfied somehow
Keep coping. it is haram, no exceptions
 
Yep but u will always be option. or someone she settled for. Don't be blinded by the illusion because chad did not hit on your trad wife. Reality is when he tries, he will have it lot easier than u did getting your "trad wife" while you will be forgotten.
just escortmax theory
 
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just escortmax theory
Because alternative of loyal, good looking, simping virgin wife is not available anymore. Just escortmax is legit when the options available are ugly old used-up hag who will be bitter and "you better be grateful to have her"
 
Because alternative of loyal, good looking, simping virgin wife is not available anymore. Just escortmax is legit when the options available are ugly old used-up hag who will be bitter and "you better be grateful to have her"
is it over for me at 20?
 
is it over for me at 20?
Idk look at your options. Can you get good looking virgin wife who will simp for you? If no, its over
 
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Can't relate.

I am 28yo and care less about sex/relationships than ever before.

The thing I regret is not MGTOW-maxing earlier. Not using drugs earlier.
Not going on cool trips, getting rich, social circles, fun, learning new skills, hobby-maxxing, and so on.


women are largely a giant waste of time, energy, money and potential.

I will fuck a woman here and there, do some fwb or something, if the opportunity comes. But I don't chase that shit anymore.
 
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to be married at 18 you gotta be giga rich
Not necessarily, but yes, you do need some sort of an income. But there's more ways around this.
 
Can't relate.

I am 28yo and care less about sex/relationships than ever before.

The thing I regret is not MGTOW-maxing earlier. Not using drugs earlier.
Not going on cool trips, getting rich, social circles, fun, learning new skills, hobby-maxxing, and so on.


women are largely a giant waste of time, energy, money and potential.

I will fuck a woman here and there, do some fwb or something, if the opportunity comes. But I don't chase that shit anymore.
What's your situation? You are white right? It's fine for you (and culture). Starting a family and having children is frowned. Do you live alone? If you did the impact and necessity to find someone would be more pressing.
 
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You’re a man so “time hasn’t” ran out. If you were down HOEJABI then yes it would be GG and I’d have 0 sympathy for you

Then again your fucking curry go arrange marriage max. Even the paki I used to fuck said she can go get that arranged marriage if she wants lmfao just do that. You curries found the cheat code for reproduction

It’s also not your fault, I tried to slay in 2022-2023 I failed I gave up I realised it’s impossible I won’t look back with regret because I know I tried, if anything I’ll look back with contempt towards women for not allowing me to have that fun when young
Of course the poojeeta won't say she got done by a nigger, so she will larp as a pious virgin to trick the men. Sad but true.
 
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Time is not running out bro, you haven't even reached your prime yet as a male (85 years old)
 
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If I was a villager in Bangladesh fine. But in today's soyciety that's still young. I'm not saying there's anything inherently "wrong". I'm saying in today's soyciety life is just beginning.
It's not young, that's kafir thinking.
No I think mine 3-5 years is ideal. But at 23 I wouldn't have minded my age.

Women age far worse than men especially after 25 (water). Since I'm older I really don't want older than 27 tbh... It's suifeul looking at how descended women are my age.
Depends on the woman. Some age worse than others.
Fuck weddings I'm never having one.
Lol, good luck finding a woman who doesn't want a wedding.

Pro-tip: They all do. The wedding day is meant for the bride, not for the groom.

Otherwise you can enjoy your single life.
 
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Not necessarily, but yes, you do need some sort of an income. But there's more ways around this.
is life over at 20?
 
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Pro-tip: They all do. The wedding day is meant for the bride, not for the groom.

Otherwise you can enjoy your single life.
You gonna marry bhai?
 
Turning 29 last month set alarm bells off.

Most people around me have moved on with life - except me. What bothers me isn't the fact I'm single, but the fact that I had opportunities but never took them. The fact that major milestones of my life and prime time to meet someone and enjoy your youth won't return. I don't mind being this age, I just regret the uneventful path I've taken to get here.

It's like I was holding out for something, expecting someone, but they never came. I was sold the myth there is someone for everyone, and that everything will be fine at the end of the day. I've been told I'm in a better position than most people, and if uglier, poorer, shorter people are married and living a good life, I'll have no problems. All of this meant I never really even cared about being single nor actively did anything about it. Everyone around me suddenly found someone, it should happen to me right? Except it didn't. Nothing has changed. I'm still the same person, in the same situation. At one point I was told I'll find someone, next point I'm told time has pretty much ran out. My life ended at 18, just when it was supposed to get going. I did nothing but rot and the natural consequence is life got flash-forwarded. You create no memories, your thoughts and routine are cyclically inane and meaningless.

If I read what I just wrote above in my late teens I'd be in so much fear and denial it could ever happen. What I thought wouldn't happen has happened. It's the opposite of a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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It's not young, that's kafir thinking.

Depends on the woman. Some age worse than others.
Teenagers matured earlier. Ofc it was acceptable to get married at 14 at one point, so even 18 was late by pre modern standards.

It's got nothing to do with religion it's simply changing norms and cultures. Staying in education til 21/22 is a very recent thing.
Lol, good luck finding a woman who doesn't want a wedding.

Pro-tip: They all do. The wedding day is meant for the bride, not for the groom.

Otherwise you can enjoy your single life.
Yh that's true mfers want to waste £30k in one night on taking pictures.
 
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why do people think it's this easy? JUST because you're ethnically curry people say "just get an arranged marriage" unironically regardless of where you live and your family
 
No, not at all. 20 is still young.
i have not progressed since 18, and my future doesnt look good aswell, is it over ?
 
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What's your situation? You are white right? It's fine for you (and culture). Starting a family and having children is frowned. Do you live alone? If you did the impact and necessity to find someone would be more pressing.
I live alone, but in a student-dorm type situation.
I am not white, I am slav.
Starting a family/children isn't something you do here until your mid/late thirties as a man I guess. But most people my age go childless now.

Demography collapse is coming.
 
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