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After a day of waiting, my mum finally managed to get in a US-based "Are We Dating The Same Guy" group under an account that she had for 13 years. However, she was not using her real name. She has now left the group.
Screenshots weren't allowed, but we managed to capture some anyway, JFL.
As a family of four, we were looking at the content posted in these groups after Iftar.
The content was:
The userbase:
The men they were complaining about:
Screenshots weren't allowed, but we managed to capture some anyway, JFL.
As a family of four, we were looking at the content posted in these groups after Iftar.
The content was:
- 70% "why won't he commit"/"why is he talking to other women"/"he cheated on me"/"he only wanted sex" complaints, listed as "red flags" by the women
- 20% rape/sexual assault complaints (these, sadly seemed legit, but others also seemed one-sided as noted by my mum)
- 10% Chadfishing complaints
The userbase:
- The women were mostly PSL 3.75 - 4.75 in attractiveness.
- Most women had the "post-college sorority chick" pheno.
- They ranged from 20 years old upwards. Surprisingly, college/university students and fresh graduates were also prominent users of these groups.
- The most vocal of the women were 25 - 45 years old.
- The vast majority of the women were white women.
- The rarest ethnicities of foid users were MENA, Pakistani and northeast Asian, but a couple of them were there.
- The women always seemed extremely desperate and hungry for an LTR, including the younger ones.
- The vast majority of the women were white, white-collar, university-educated women who moved into a new city.
The men they were complaining about:
- The majority of the men they were complaining about were PSL 4 - 4.6 (non-black men) or PSL 3+ (black men).
- Most women seemed to go for the young professional man in a suit. These men were often found to have been dating multiple women at once, yet these women claimed these were red flags and called the men "toxic" because he was seeing other women before even becoming exclusive with her.
- A lot of black men were also posted by mostly white or Latina women. These black men seemed NT.
- Deadbeat, druggie types were also posted.
- Some MENA/South Asian men were posted, mostly by women with Slavic or Latina names. These women complained about these men treating them as "sex toys", were abusers, and spread STDs to every woman in the city.
- Some white women complained about MENA/South Asian men LARPing about their ethnicities, typically they'd LARP Latino/Jewish/Mediterranean.
- A noodlefoid (likely Northeast Asian based on her name) was kicked out of the group for "victim blaming", likely blaming women for promiscuity as the topic covered STDs affecting young women.
- Mum: "If these women learned to say no, and didn't give themselves up to random stinky men they don't know so quickly, they wouldn't be complaining on the internet. I am all for womankind, but I believe some of the pettier SA claims such as a man taking her to a bar and trying to touch/coerce her to have sex are also one-sided and fabricated, she must have said something to aggravate the man. She should have said NO to dates involving alcohol if she didn't want that to happen. I have never encountered SA and it is avoidable if they closed their legs and shut up. It is not a relationship if the couple are not married. They are legally SINGLE."
- Dad: "Good for them, they didn't want to listen to their families' instructions."
- Sister: "I'm so glad you're still here for me, Mum and Dad. I listened to you and you're here to protect me from evil men."
- Me: "I empathise with their concerns about SA and their abusers should be reported to the police, but aren't they also just doxxing other innocent men just for something petty like not talking to multiple women and not admitting you're exclusive?"
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