Anyone who lost their virginity to a hooker: What effect did it have on your mental health?

[thegoat]

I'm 21 LTN and virgin despite like 50 approaches at clubs, I think its time to get this shit out of the way. Im hyperfixating on my incel status and its causing me to be depressed and self-sabotage in other areas.

 

[Deleted member 16501]

I lost my virginity just after I turned 19 to a hooker in Bangkok

Had no effect on my mental health whatsoever

I banged 2 non-hooker women afterwards at 19

Do it, just don't get addicted to hookers

 

[Daqirius]

getting a hooker wont solve your problems man

 

[prettyboislime]

It won’t give you relief because you want to lose your virginity due to the sentimental attachments to it, not because you simply want to coom. You’ll regret it later on, maybe even soon/right after, and the brutality of your situation will compound when you are able to really process what you did and you can’t take it back.

 

[BugeyeBigNoseCurry]

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[ezio6]

Pussy is pussy

 

[Deleted member 16501]

It won’t give you relief because you want to lose your virginity due to the sentimental attachments to it, not because you simply want to coom. You’ll regret it later on, maybe even soon/right after, and the brutality of your situation will compound when you are able to really process what you did and you can’t take it back.

Easy for a slayer like you to say, but if the guy doesn't believe he has any options, he is just prolonging the torture

 

[thegoat]

It won’t give you relief because you want to lose your virginity due to the sentimental attachments to it, not because you simply want to coom. You’ll regret it later on, maybe even soon/right after, and the brutality of your situation will compound when you are able to really process what you did and you can’t take it back.

My ego is already rock bottom and I believe that going on dates / trying to pick up at clubs is just extended prostitution anyway.

 

[prettyboislime]

Easy for a slayer like you to say, but if the guy doesn't believe he has any options, he is just prolonging the torture

My ego is already rock bottom and I believe that going on dates / trying to pick up at clubs is just extended prostitution anyway.

Maybe situation is different but consider what I say, because it is true despite everything. Consider that once you do it, you can’t take it back and you won’t get validation from it

 

[Deleted member 20859]

I'm 21 LTN and virgin despite like 50 approaches at clubs, I think its time to get this shit out of the way. Im hyperfixating on my incel status and its causing me to be depressed and self-sabotage in other areas.

Bro just leave this entire incel/blackpill altogether you only live once what's the fucking point in living a life you're not happy with

 

[prettyboislime]

Btw OP you’re likely underrating yourself. I do not believe anyone with XXXTentacion avi can be low tier normie. But avi halo is strong with X

 

[prettyboislime]

Bro just leave this entire incel/blackpill altogether you only live once what's the fucking point in living a life you're not happy with

Leaving the forum won’t magically make his issues disappear, why do we tell people to ignore their problems instead of fix? Acting like the problem is not there will only prolong it. It’s best to cover the leaks as soon as you see them instead of letting them keep ruining you as time goes on

 

[thegoat]

Btw OP you’re likely underrating yourself. I do not believe anyone with XXXTentacion avi can be low tier normie. But avi halo is strong with X

Nah ive made 2 rating threads before, im between LTN and MTN but 5'8 and half indian.

I can pull but its stupidly hard. I did make out with 3 LTBs so far through sheer numbers game

 

[Blackgymmax]

Nah ive made 2 rating threads before, im between LTN and MTN but 5'8 and half indian.

I can pull but its stupidly hard. I did make out with 3 LTBs so far through sheer numbers game

"pull"
"3 makeouts but still a virgin"

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