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I mean sometimes IOI is what it really means: a girl indicating her interest through her behavior. And sometimes IOIs cheer me up.
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Nigga, I approached 100 IRL and 200 online rejections. I'm sub5 mentalcel so your second reason in the OP applies to me. I gotta continue looksmaxxing.None of y’all are approaching 300 women lol
Yeah and that rarely happens most guys don’t even have the social intelligence to understand they’re receiving IOIsI mean sometimes IOI is what it really means: a girl indicating her interest through her behavior. And sometimes IOIs cheer me up.
Online rejections don’t count in my books. I only count in real life interactions200 online rejections.
It was a mixture of calling me ugly, creepy, or just outright ignoring me as if I wasn't there. Few tried politely rejecting me, but they ended up snickering in my face and walking away.Online rejections don’t count in my books. I only count in real life interactions
Did they say they rejected you because of your height & sub5 face ?
JFL who is that
Well first I wanna congratulate you with your 100+ approaches.It was a mixture of calling me ugly, creepy, or just outright ignoring me as if I wasn't there. Few tried politely rejecting me, but they ended up snickering in my face and walking away.
Psycho in his 40sJFL who is that
It's funny cause I low-inhib mog most people yet my bad looks and autism/schizo disorders hold me back. The only success I've ever had was with a 35 yr old single mom with drug addiction and borderline personality disorder who took my virginity, but later on ghosted me and stole my wallet from me. She's the only reason I'm not a virgin to this day. After her, I've slept with some escorts in Mexico, but that's basically it.Well first I wanna congratulate you with your 100+ approaches.
You have more balls & confidence than most of the forum
Obviously I’d have to be there to see what you’re doing (not accusing you or saying it’s your fault)
Have you had any successes at all?
This.Just remember the quality will not be as good as women you meet IRL
Legit tinder cucks us in so many waysThis.
Online dating has been dumpster diving for me.
Mirin his low-inhib in this video :
JFL imagine being a prostitute and having to deal with this psycho
If you’re a 5-7, you need to be redpilled about approaching otherwise you’re just dumpster diving on dating apps.None of that “it’s a number’s game” redpill PUA Scam bullshit.
Facts, when users say they’re “non NT”, what they really mean is that their social skills are atrophied.Come on man.
You just seriously said 95% of guys suffer from neurodevelopmental disorders that cripple their ability to develop social skills .
Unless you actually have an issue like low-functioning autism, you can definitely overcome social awkwardness as an adult. Saying otherwise is cope.
Sure some people will never be "NT", literally they were not born "NT". But that's not 95% of guys , and not even the bulk of "I'm not NT " posters on forums like this, who are just socially awkward and too anxious to actually address their ... anxiety. They are scared of putting themselves in social situations that would enable them to improve, so they cope by equating themselves to people who actually have neurodevelopmental disorders, which brings us to this weird internet definition of "autistic" and "NT" that's so broad you can make ridiculous statements like the one you just made. Unless you can bring me a diagnosis that shows you actually have an issue that will always cripple your ability to socialize, don't tell me "I'm not NT it's over"
Mirin his low-inhib in this video :
that's not an ioi nigga a girl started a conversation with me at work yesterday there was nothing flirty about itWhat about the ioi of girls coming up to you and starting conversations
A girl running up to you from behind while you’re walking to start a conversationthat's not an ioi nigga a girl started a conversation with me at work yesterday there was nothing flirty about it
literally happened also on saturday with another girl when we finished our shiftA girl running up to you from behind while you’re walking to start a conversation
Best comment on here dudes trying to turn this into rocket science, writing full reports and essays. Sexual attraction is simple if a women finds you sexually attractive and wants to fuck you she will make things easy. No women don't need to get to know you or go out on dates, women think of sex in similar fashion to men, we see a attractive person we like we want to fuck them. We have folks who have done dating app experiments and showed real life experiments.
Women who say they need to get to know you or feel you out, only say that to men their not sexually attracted to. If its in setting were they will see said man over and over again like at a store or campus, if they have a change of heart usually its either because said women lost some points in looks aka gained 12-15 pounds and less men started to approach her in terms of quality or qauntity, and now said man she told before she wanted to get to know looks like a better option. Or in some cases said man looks increased maybe better care of skin and hair or he lost a few pounds from working out and gained muscle.
go to 2:40 a hot young women whos is 19 reaction, notice he asks her to come to hes place and she instead demanded he come to her apartment only after knowing him for 25 seconds, she invited him back to have sex this isnt rocket science. Women fuck and bang men their sexually attracted to and barely know every day. Women create rules for men their not highly sexually attracted to and break rules for men they sexually like. All that talk about getting to know you and we just meet and talks about safety is BULLSHIT talk. ALL this nt talk and personallity and pua bullshit.
Ok Chadliterally happened also on saturday with another girl when we finished our shift
there is nothing to see there we just chatted, making conversation with colleagues isn't ioiOk Chad
ok that’s you. doesn’t change the fact girls try to talk to spark conversations with chads. You can tell if it’s platonically or sexually charged.there is nothing to see there we just chatted, making conversation with colleagues isn't ioi
they are girls one of them even has a boyfriend and is about 17 so way younger than me, why would she be trying to go for me. you are an evil gaslighter i am so confused i don't even know what were talking about, are iois even real? i thought it was eye contact and preening and flirting and shit not making conversationok that’s you and other guys. doesn’t change the fact girls try to talk to spark conversations with chads.
She talks to you so you pass her looks thresholdthey are girls one of them even has a boyfriend and is about 17 so way younger than me, why would she be trying to go for me. you are an evil gaslighter i am so confused i don't even know what were talking about, are iois even real? i thought it was eye contact and preening and flirting and shit not making conversation
edit: darnetrius edited his post and now i am even more confused. this is abuse
so bitches can think a man is fuckable but don't want to fuck him? the fuckShe talks to you so you pass her looks threshold
Honored to be included buddy boyo@@Amnesia
@@Prettyboy
@@Tom Jones
@@Gestapo
i dont look as good as these
still got approached lul
i have no idea who you are or how you look like tbhHonored to be included buddy boyo
@FailedNormieManletShe just to compliment your skin fade (don't take it personally bro)
i have no idea who you are or how you look like tbh
Cope neurotypical retard, all foids hate autists, not even the high functioning ones are safe!Unless you actually have an issue like low-functioning autism, you can definitely overcome social awkwardness as an adult. Saying otherwise is cope.
OP is one of those gymsexuals who tried gaslighting me and invalidate my mental health ailments in the previous thread you tagged me in. Unfortunately I can’t place his ass on ignore.Cope neurotypical retard, all foids hate autists, not even the high functioning ones are safe!
@Br0sk1 @LMSMaxxer @AutismVictim @sevensources @stevielake[STUDY] 2021 study shows that autistic men are way less likely to experience sex, kissing, relationships and autistic women, not so much
https://www.frontiersin.org/articles/10.3389/fpsyt.2021.685256/full Only 53.7% of autistic guys have held someone's hand compared to 86.2% of NT men. 41.5% of autistic men had never kissed someone on the mouth with mouth closed, compared to 69% of NT men. 22% of autistic men have french kissed...incels.is
Muh gym can cure autism and clinical depression, honestly they should kill themselves, don’t understand the pain us Mentalcels go withOP is one of those gymsexuals who tried gaslighting me and invalidate my mental health ailments in the previous thread you tagged me in. Unfortunately I can’t place his ass on ignore.
im certain at most the majority on here approached maybe 12 women at most.Exactly & most guys aren’t self aware or have enough game to close the deal
None of y’all are approaching 300 women lol
Best comment on here dudes trying to turn this into rocket science, writing full reports and essays. Sexual attraction is simple if a women finds you sexually attractive and wants to fuck you she will make things easy. No women don't need to get to know you or go out on dates, women think of sex in similar fashion to men, we see a attractive person we like we want to fuck them. We have folks who have done dating app experiments and showed real life experiments.
Women who say they need to get to know you or feel you out, only say that to men their not sexually attracted to. If its in setting were they will see said man over and over again like at a store or campus, if they have a change of heart usually its either because said women lost some points in looks aka gained 12-15 pounds and less men started to approach her in terms of quality or qauntity, and now said man she told before she wanted to get to know looks like a better option. Or in some cases said man looks increased maybe better care of skin and hair or he lost a few pounds from working out and gained muscle.
go to 2:40 a hot young women whos is 19 reaction, notice he asks her to come to hes place and she instead demanded he come to her apartment only after knowing him for 25 seconds, she invited him back to have sex this isnt rocket science. Women fuck and bang men their sexually attracted to and barely know every day. Women create rules for men their not highly sexually attracted to and break rules for men they sexually like. All that talk about getting to know you and we just meet and talks about safety is BULLSHIT talk. ALL this nt talk and personallity and pua bullshit.
You must be from Compton. Niggers...I was cold approached by a girl recently while at the beach, then we started texting and I got dubbed after I told her what town I'm from. Although I didn't really get dubbed because I didn't even go after her. It wasn't because I was too far away, she was just disgusted by my town I guess? It went from 100 to 0, she was on my dick moments before. Wonder if I fucked up somehow or if I just got trolled, she was a really retarded insufferable white bitch though so I guess it makes sense. Legit post but I'm too high inhib to approach, even online jfl
That's a chad in my book, and the mental issues just add points, and make him look more "interesting".
How do you know shes borderline? those are my type of women.It's funny cause I low-inhib mog most people yet my bad looks and autism/schizo disorders hold me back. The only success I've ever had was with a 35 yr old single mom with drug addiction and borderline personality disorder who took my virginity, but later on ghosted me and stole my wallet from me. She's the only reason I'm not a virgin to this day. After her, I've slept with some escorts in Mexico, but that's basically it.
definitely not, i was larping as a hick. mullet, budweiser hat, grew out my pedostache. pretty viable niche tbhYou must be from Compton. Niggers...
Explain everything, go on.Brilliant fucking thread my guy. Honestly people here need to realize and accept that even though looks are a big part of attraction, the world is a social environment, where new variables come and go all the time. The girl may find you gl, but there's so much more until you can make out, have sex or even date that can't be pin pointed only to looks.
This is observable reality and anyone who actually leaves their house knows this. I'm not gonna explain every case like this that happened to myself, but its there and it can't be overlooked.
Cause she was diagnosed and went from lovey dovey to cold and distant AF. She thought I was cheating on her (JFL, imagine an incel like me even having that opportunity) or that I wanted to kill her yet I slept at her place for many nights and nothing happened. She stole my wallet yet claimed I stole her phone that she had lost even before I went to go visit her.How do you know shes borderline? those are my type of women.
This is true, only Chads can get away with it, but still suffer like Amnesia does cause we don't fit into normal society and never will and will forever be oppressed for it.Cope neurotypical retard, all foids hate autists, not even the high functioning ones are safe!
@Br0sk1 @LMSMaxxer @AutismVictim @sevensources @stevielake[STUDY] 2021 study shows that autistic men are way less likely to experience sex, kissing, relationships and autistic women, not so much
https://www.frontiersin.org/articles/10.3389/fpsyt.2021.685256/full Only 53.7% of autistic guys have held someone's hand compared to 86.2% of NT men. 41.5% of autistic men had never kissed someone on the mouth with mouth closed, compared to 69% of NT men. 22% of autistic men have french kissed...incels.is
i should just rope at this point for being a sub chadListen carefully guys the only IOI is P in V
IOIs =/= Sex
You guys think women look at sex logically like us. We see a chick that's hot, we automatically think I wanna smash.. women need to feel us out before they fuck us. That's why they ask so many questions before they decide to give up the pussy.
There's a lot of things that will happen between the time you first talk to the chick & the time you're in bed with her that will mess up the situation. On top of that most of you guys don't even know what to do or have the self awareness to escalate sexually when a chick gives you IOS / Choosing Signals etc
Everything else is cope, validation, & ego
Reason #1 - You Don't Know Why She's Giving You IOIs
Women will give you IOIs for numerous reasons that have nothing to do with having sex with you
- She gave you IOIs cuz she just wanted your non sexual attention
- She wants to make her ex jealous who's across the bar from you
- She just to make out with someone
- She wanted a cig / or hit your vape
- She saw your Gucci belt & chain & saw you as a mark (simp)
- She just to compliment your skin fade (don't take it personally bro)
- She gave you IOIs so you can buy her & her friends shots / drinks
- She wanted to put you in her friend zone cuz you came off goofy & funny
- She wants to mock you (Mclovin cel)
- She wants you to take pics of her & her friends for IG
- She gave you IOIs so she can sweet talked her way to get in front of the line at the club
- She gave you IOIs in the VIP area / lounge so her & her friends can finesse free drinks & leave immediately
- She wanted you to help find her friends, phone, vape, etc
- She gave you IOIs cuz her bf told her to approach you, flirt with you & finesse drinks off of you as she walks back to her bf & makes out with him
Do I have to keep going? I think you guys get the pointThe times when a chick is giving you IOIs & approaches you because she's sexually attracted to you RARELY HAPPENS.
And it's not enough volume for you to have a successful slaying / dating life just waiting for chicks to approach you. Also are the chicks that are approaching you the chicks you're attracted to & are your type for it to be your only strategy?
You have to approach & play the numbers game it is what it is.. You have to put yourself out there & put in the work. It's the same way everything else outside dating.
"But.. but tyronelite I bring home chicks from tinder all the time"
Yeah? And how many matches did you have to go through to invite over 1 chick & successfully get her in bed?
"Uhh 50 matches"
NUMBERS GAME
Reason #2 - You Guys Are Not Good Looking Enough
This is gonna hurt some feelings
MOST OF Y'ALL NIGGAS AIN'T GOOD LOOKING ENOUGH / SEXUALLY APPEALING (Looks + Behavior + Appearance)
Yes I know brutal Ask yourself this & be honest with yourself .. look in the mirror & tell me, if you were a hot chick would you give that man in the mirror pussy on a platter?
Now I'm only talking about guys who are using this as their MAIN STRATEGY (waiting for IOIs & never approaching)
If you're not on any of these users looks level / sex appeal don't even bother waiting for IOIs/ women approaching you.
@Amnesia
@Prettyboy
@Tom Jones
@Gestapo
All 5+ PSL with experience online & IRL
Lemme break it down. There are guys who most women will consider really good looking to where a lot of women will check them out. And even those guys still don't get enough IOIs for it to even matter.
Lets say for ex: 5 women give @Prettyboy heavy IOIs in a nightclub checking him out, licking their lips, looking at him like a piece of meat (pause) He approaches all 5 women. In most cases he's not going to fuck all 5 of the those women..
He might fuck one if he's lucky.. why? Cuz it's still a numbers game
Girl #1 - Both exchange #, ex bf calls, she feels some type of way & all that goes out the window
Girl #2 - He might come off not confident, shy, his tonality is passive & the chick is turned off
Girl #3 - She's too intimidated by his good looks (pause) therefore she rejects herself to deal with him
Girl #4 - She's digging the vibe & wants to go back to his place but her girlfriend cock blocks him
This is what I meant when I said there's so many things that'll happen by the time you talk to her, get the #, set up the date that will cock block you from having sex with the chick
Reason #3 - She has to Choose You Again
What I mean by this is after she gives you a strong IOI & you approach, she has to choose you again that will lead to sex
As you're having the conversation she has to like your voice, tonality, what you're saying, (mouth piece), your appearance etc. Can you escalate & flirt to the point she's getting hot & bothered or will you make her pussy dry with boring conversations? Are you stumbling over your words? Are you fidgeting & shaking? Are you looking down nervous af like an abused dog?
Once you stepped to her & started talking, that's when she starts the process of choosing you again. This goes back to my thread where I mentioned if your mindset, game etc doesn't match the outside you're not gonna succeed
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Yep.. another :bluepill::bluepill: thread that's going to trigger a lot of virgin expert basement dwellers. Only niggas who actually go out & have experience will understand what I'm saying.. All you have to do is not be repulsive looking & meet the minimum facial requirements to the specific...looksmax.org
Solution
So instead of waiting for IOIs & waiting for the chick to approach you, skip the whole process & cold approach her so she can only choose you once. Most girls in your vicinity aren't even paying attention to y'all niggas. She could literally be standing next to you & you're not even on her radar. She's busy talking to her friends, checking her phone, vibing to the music etc. You have to command the attention to the chicks you want to talk to.
It's not masculine to be waiting around for women or anything in general. Waiting = passive = feminine
Men take action & go after what they want
Or if you're a complete pussy & don't approach at all, just stick to online dating & get whatever you can get there. You see online is safer cuz you're not directly in front of the chick. So you have more time to think about what you want to say & less likely to fuck up vs IRL you're talking to a chick at a bar, you have to think on the fly while you're having a conversation.
Just remember the quality will not be as good as women you meet IRL
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